Not wanting to go on a girls weekend if sharing a hotel room?

[pinkgirls]

I've been invited on a 3 night long weekend break.
With a friend and 2 of her friends.
Thing is it's all of us in one room with bunkbeds.
They want cheap and cheerful and this is where they picked.
Room looks tiny
I like my own space and for 3 nights it seems like hell.
Would anyone else be put off too ?

That's a deal breaker for me. I'm too old for 'sleepovers' and I'm really crabby if I don't get enough sleep and privacy.

I wouldn't go on the weekend.

Yes just buy your own room 👍

I wouldn't fancy that either, but I'd enjoy the weekend itself, so I'd just book my own room.

But defo go 🥳

Could you suggest two twin rooms?

All of the rooms are for 4 people
It's more like a hostel than hotel or I would.
I didn't know if I was being a bit snobby not wanting to share a room

It would be a nope from me.

I'd have been up for it in my early twenties but 30 years on, I like my sleep and privacy, thanks very much!

with good friends I’d be fine sharing

Absolutely not

I've done this with close friends but not sure about with two I didn't know.

NOPE!

I don’t share nowadays,couldn’t even do one night.Would not enter my head that you were being snobby.

I love sharing with my friends it's fun.

Yanbu

I am "on the periphery" of a group of women who like doing this (I am included because my DH is close friends with some of their DHs but I don't know them that well)

I went on one such holiday and found it very unpleasant to be so crowded with people I don't know well. I don't think it would be much better with people I do kmow well.

Subsequent occasions I have separately booked my own room for one night and joined them for an evening of fun then gone to bed solo at a time of my own choosing in peace and quiet.

If all the rooms at this hostel are 4 beds then look for a different accommodation option nearby with normal rooms

I wouldn't go.

I wouldn't mind this at all, but appreciate that it bothers some people

Weirdly I’d be okay with bunks and 4 people but not a twin room with one other person.

I think bunks feel more private than single beds with a small gap between them.

And if someone farts it’s not as obvious who.

All my friends know I don't share anymore.I'm a light sleeper and we are all at the age where we are likely to snore.I just book my own room.

No way would I share a room - I need my own space. Especially for 3 nights!

Plus I snore so best I'm in a room on my own 😂

No, would have in my 20s not in my 40s.

It'll be quite the queue for the bathroom.

No thank you!
I don’t want to spend all day and all night with three other people.
I like my own space at night.

I wouldn’t mind sharing a room with single beds but wouldn’t fancy being on a top bunk (or sharing a double bed although doesn’t sound like that’s an option here).

I would 100% not do this.

If you feel awkard telling them you don't want to share, you could say you snore and don't want to keep them awake so getting your own room.

A lot of hostels have double rooms, so you could book one for your sole use.

I'd go as long as I could have a bottom bunk, fuck climbing ladders at my age!