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I’m SO over bras. Is no underwires with big boobs possible?

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BoobyDazzler · 07/03/2024 19:32

I’m done with wires. The downstairs of my house is littered with bras I’ve removed from inside my clothes and discarded the moment I’ve got in. I’ve tried some Asda non-wired bras and they’re comfortable but not massively supportive.

Does anyone have any suggestions?

I’m 36g/gg.

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RaraRachael · 07/03/2024 19:42

I'm 36GG too and felt exactly the same as you. I was in constant discomfort from wires jabbing into me. I've discovered Flexifit bras from M and S and have them in all colours. So comfortable.

Scarletttulips · 07/03/2024 19:43

There wrap over ones that clip either side that are good I’ll see if I can find them.

StarlightLady · 07/03/2024 19:45

l know it’s a bit of a cliche, but ate you sure you are in the right size/style. I’m a 36F and find underwired bras comfortable.

The only exception is in the really hot weather, then l go into “bounce mode” (apart from at work) and don’t care what anyone else thinks.

OP, remember you are not required to wear a bra, if you prefer to be without.

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curlupandvanishforever · 07/03/2024 19:49

@BoobyDazzler did you try the Asda cross front non padded ones? I’m a 34G and have found them to be really comfortable and supportive.

nameXname · 07/03/2024 19:51

Try Royce -they specialise in bras without wires. Not wire-style fashionable, but can be very comfortable, especially as some styles are in cotton. No brand fits everybody, of course, but perhaps worth investigating: https://www.royce-lingerie.co.uk/comfort-bras

Or else an old favourite (because very, very helpful): ample bosom https://www.amplebosom.com/

https://www.royce-lingerie.co.uk/comfort-bras

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BoobyDazzler · 07/03/2024 19:55

StarlightLady · 07/03/2024 19:45

l know it’s a bit of a cliche, but ate you sure you are in the right size/style. I’m a 36F and find underwired bras comfortable.

The only exception is in the really hot weather, then l go into “bounce mode” (apart from at work) and don’t care what anyone else thinks.

OP, remember you are not required to wear a bra, if you prefer to be without.

Yeah definitely the right size. I can change between a 34F/36GG depending on how fat I am.. I’m a bit of a yoyo-er., weight wise.

I do go braless a lot of the time, rarely wear them and home and will walk the dog without which feels so liberating! Probably wouldn’t be appropriate in a corporate environment though, unfortunately.

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BoobyDazzler · 07/03/2024 19:59

nameXname · 07/03/2024 19:51

Try Royce -they specialise in bras without wires. Not wire-style fashionable, but can be very comfortable, especially as some styles are in cotton. No brand fits everybody, of course, but perhaps worth investigating: https://www.royce-lingerie.co.uk/comfort-bras

Or else an old favourite (because very, very helpful): ample bosom https://www.amplebosom.com/

Thanks for this, I’ll take a look! I don’t really give a shit what they look like, I’m just fed up with feeling like I’m being garrotted 🤣

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MigGirl · 07/03/2024 20:01

Go to Bravissimo, get them to make sure you are wearing the right size first. Then if you still don't like them they also do non wired bras to.

I have tried some, I'm a 36H. They don't give anywhere near the support of a wired bra and the only non wired ones I wear are sports bras and they at lest give better support.

But do go even if it means a trip as they really are worth it. Be prepared to take out a mortgage for them though.

Avoid M&S own brands they are not very supportive for larger breast sizes.

BuffaloCauliflower · 07/03/2024 20:03

Molke. Brilliant, comfy, lots of support for big boobs. Only bras I’ve worn for about 4 years now. Can take a bit of trial and error to get the right size (like any bra I guess) and not great with strappy tops but I don’t wear those anyway!

Kjones27 · 07/03/2024 20:03

Hi. I have really massive boobs.

And I never wear wired bras. I wear the crop top support bras . I get mine in penny's. They have no wires.

Chunkycookie · 07/03/2024 20:08

38 G and I’ve never found a non wired bra that doesn’t give me a uni boob after an hour.

Lj8893 · 07/03/2024 20:11

I am a 38H and wear the M&S bralettes most of the time. I do have a few wired bras for special occasions/smarter functions.

EatingSleeping · 07/03/2024 20:11

Shapermint (watch the us dollar thing I'd you use credit card) have been a game changer for me. Comfy and well shaped but no wire. Also if you fluctuate in weight they are really adjustable on the back

APurpleSquirrel · 07/03/2024 20:23

I'm a similar size to you & have been wearing the M&S lace bralettes since I stopped breastfeeding 4 years ago. They're very comfortable, good support & shape.

Pigeonqueen · 07/03/2024 20:26

I am either a 34H or 36G depending on brand etc and I just can’t stand bras now. During Covid etc I just stopped bothering and went to those stretchy crop tops you find in primark and haven’t looked back. I fully accept they’re not really doing a lot for me support wise but I am beyond caring now. I am lucky however that it doesn’t really matter what I look like.

AnaVanda · 07/03/2024 20:35

Doreen delicate. Good support but they're soft and comfortable. I'm a 36dd

Mairzydotes · 07/03/2024 20:44

BuffaloCauliflower · 07/03/2024 20:03

Molke. Brilliant, comfy, lots of support for big boobs. Only bras I’ve worn for about 4 years now. Can take a bit of trial and error to get the right size (like any bra I guess) and not great with strappy tops but I don’t wear those anyway!

Came here to say this. . The whole range is wire free.

BigPandaTinyDragon · 07/03/2024 20:48

I second M&S Flexifit and I can’t bear the feel of a wired bra these days.

Crazycrazylady · 07/03/2024 20:49

I'm in awe of those of you who wear bralette or non wired bras or penny's bras. I'd take someone's eye out if I tried it!!

Multipleexclamationmarks · 07/03/2024 20:50

Another vote for m+s flexi fit

Doyouthinktheyknow · 07/03/2024 20:53

I am blessed with only medium sized boobs but giving up underwires has been totally liberating for me.

I wear Uniqlo bra vests but I guess they wouldn’t be quite right for the large of boob.

They are just so comfy though and if it gives me a uniboob, I don’t care!

The only time I wear under wired bras now is when I need a strapless bra or some decent cleavage with an evening dress and I feel absolute joy when I remove it at the end of the night!

Yogachick · 07/03/2024 20:54

If I go soft cup my boobs get really sweaty between them and underneath and I get a sore rash underneath. It’s horrible,I’m 32GG-H. Mono boob action and zero uplift as well. I would love a decent soft option- Royce give that pointy rocket boob shape & Bravissimo own brand still end up with sweaty rash. Think my boobs are just too heavy for soft

Gooseysgirl · 07/03/2024 20:55

Following with interest as I couldn't get on with M&S flexifit at all!

HellersK · 07/03/2024 20:55

Fellow 36G here. Occasionally I dream of chopping them off and being flat chested.... However in real life I like the lift and separation that wired bras give. Non-wired smushes my boobs together and they get clammy and uncomfortable generally, but I am open to someone telling me you can get the same lift and separation from a non-wired.