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Taylor Swift

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ChiefEverythingOfficer · 11/02/2024 20:57

Please can somebody explain the hype?

I have friends (I am 50) who were seriously sad when they didn't get concert tickets (not in UK) and others who did, who were practically celebrating.

I don't get it. Don't want to ask for fear of looking like a twit.

For context, I have a 16yo DD and she just rolls her eyes and says wouldn't be caught dead at a TS concert. So no help there.

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Perfectlystill · 11/02/2024 22:23

I don't get the hype either OP.

And think it's weird how angry some posters are getting about you not getting the hype!

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:24

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:21

Yes, there are, lots!
And...?

Taylor Swift didn't start out famous. She was fortunate that her parents supported her. She works hard, at her job.

As does Miley Cyrus, Beyonce, etc etc

There really are so many amazing performers out there, I'm struggling to understand why folk think TS is somehow so special in comparison.

Mindovermatter247 · 11/02/2024 22:24

Dd11 absolutely loves her, I don’t get it either op, I like about 5 songs of hers but as an actual person I don’t rate her from what I’ve seen in interviews, etc. she imo just comes across really fake when she talks, I don’t like how she’s written songs after literally every guy she’s dated. She’s basically with he next album right now.
I guess it’s whatever floats your boat, everyone likes different people but I really don’t see the hype.

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Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:25

Perfectlystill · 11/02/2024 22:23

I don't get the hype either OP.

And think it's weird how angry some posters are getting about you not getting the hype!

It's all very, very odd isn't it?

TheaBrandt · 11/02/2024 22:26

I do listen to other struggling artists and go and see them live to support them. None are a patch on TS though! Her albums are next level. In my humble opinion anyway..

Mumofyellows · 11/02/2024 22:26

I think she's great, I love the story telling in some of her music and then other tracks are just good fun, I think she's refreshing, clever and seems nice, which is a pleasant change in todays world! DD (20) is a huge fan, she and I are going to the Era's tour in the summer and I can't wait 😊

TheaBrandt · 11/02/2024 22:27

Hype suggests the popularity is unwarranted which is unfair I think. She’s very popular because she’s good. That’s not hype.

NewKingontheBlock · 11/02/2024 22:29

Funkyslippers · 11/02/2024 21:58

I don't think it was intentional but incredibly thoughtless considering she was schmoozing with everyone else around her!

Agree particularly when you compare how star struck and gracious Miley Cyrus was when she accepted her Grammy from Mariah Carey. I felt for Celine you could tell she felt like a spare part when she was ignored.

NerrSnerr · 11/02/2024 22:29

I quite like TS, not enough to pay for tickets but there are some of her songs on my playlist.

I can see why many people like her though. She's talented, she has a personality, her albums are relatable. Of course there's fashion as well, if in your circle it's 'cool' to like her then others will probably follow suit.

I was brought up with very 'cool' parents who taught me that I should like indie stuff and not popular stuff. I actually loved S Club 7 and The Spice Girls but it was cooler to be into Blur (not Oasis, too common apparently), Radiohead etc. Incidentally I still like Blur but I bloody love 90s pop and know all the dances to Steps.

Things don't have to be musically perfect or a certain genre to be loved.

If it makes people happy then what is the problem? Surely that's the goal?

SummaLuvin · 11/02/2024 22:30

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:24

There really are so many amazing performers out there, I'm struggling to understand why folk think TS is somehow so special in comparison.

But I don’t think anyone is saying she is an other worldly talent that no-one else can touch. We are saying Taylor is an objectively brilliant singer, songwriter, and performer and therefore that is why she is popular and deserving of the hype. There is only a few people in a generation who make it massive, and that generally not because they have something so so unique no-one else can bring, it’s right place right time and the guts to back yourself.

you could say the same about some actors, that there are loads of talented ones no-one pays attention to. And that’s true, but it’s because supply outweighs demand and some people get lucky enough to have a big shot.

AdrianaLaCerva · 11/02/2024 22:30

It’s not actually hype when she genuinely is selling out stadiums worldwide and being courted by US presidential candidates who hope for her endorsement. It is stellar success, much as that seems to infuriate some people (see also Kanye West who also finds it difficult to come to terms with!).

Mumofyellows · 11/02/2024 22:31

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:07

I'm a fan. I'm also a fan of the other women that she has inspired, some of whom are probably better songwriters / singers in some ways. I'm also a fan of the women who have inspired her.

I like that she stood up to Kanye West and Scooter Braun. I like that she took that DJ to court for assaulting her.

I love country music, so I like her early stuff, and I like seeing her musical development. I work as a steward at Glastonbury, and she was on the line-up with Lana Del Rey for 2020, and I was so looking forward to it. I think she is too big for Glastonbury at the moment!

She released two tremendous albums during Covid, some of those songs mean a lot to me.

I have incurable cancer, and I can't listen to 'Soon you'll get better' written when her Mom was ill, without crying for my DS. I write Mom, because I'm a Brummie by the way!

I sing at an open mic night which is mainly to encourage local young people to perform. I got everybody up to play and sing All too Well together at the end of the last one. The youngest there was 10, the oldest 60ish. Most people knew the song, and it was a joyful moment.

She has a wide ranging appeal because she seems genuine - there aren't too many skeletons tumbling out of the closet because she tells everyone everything. I think she's terrifyingly famous now and it must be quite frightening. She's at her peak and maximising on that while she can. Good on her.

Agree with all this! I bet the open mike night was fab, I love All too Well ♥️

TheBeeHives · 11/02/2024 22:32

@ChiefEverythingOfficer
there seems to certainly be some very large public relations happening

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 11/02/2024 22:33

mynameiscalypso · 11/02/2024 21:07

I sort of get what the OP means in that I don't really understand why she's so much of a bigger superstar than anyone else. I don't mind her songs, have very little opinion on her personality but I find it interesting that there's a cult around her that's sort of been a slow burner. It's not a criticism of anyone who likes her at all. I just am intrigued by it!

Maybe she’s a superstar because so many people like her🤔

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:35

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:24

There really are so many amazing performers out there, I'm struggling to understand why folk think TS is somehow so special in comparison.

I think there are more important things to struggle with.

If I don't like something I can appreciate that others might.
Architecture, Artists, Books, Films, Furniture, Restaurants.

Be at peace in your struggles.

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:36

TheaBrandt · 11/02/2024 22:27

Hype suggests the popularity is unwarranted which is unfair I think. She’s very popular because she’s good. That’s not hype.

Other popular artists, equally or more talented musically, don't have the same intense hype though.
It's also worrying how many fans think they actually really know her, speaking of how 'genuine and kind' she is or how she 'has principles' or is 'less false', when really they only know whatever she and her PR team carefully cultivate. They also will hear nothing negative, which is a completely unrealistic view to have of any human being. Anyone who doesn't rate her or her music is shut down, by her, her team and the fans, often being accused of 'hating strong women' or 'being jealous' when really they have just made a choice regarding pop music tastes!
I love loads of different music but the difference is that don't think I really know the artist or think liking their music means I have to defend their every action!

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:37

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:35

I think there are more important things to struggle with.

If I don't like something I can appreciate that others might.
Architecture, Artists, Books, Films, Furniture, Restaurants.

Be at peace in your struggles.

Rightio.

Are you not familiar with struggling in the context of a particular discussion but not in general?

TheSandHurtsMyFeelings · 11/02/2024 22:38

There is certainly PR and marketing, of course there is.

But PR and marketing don't make me cry when I'm listening to Seven, or Bigger Than The Whole Sky, or Tis The Damn Season. Every fucking time.

It's a connection. Can't explain it, but you need a bucket-load of talent to write songs that evoke that response in this grumpy 50-year-old English woman!

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:39

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:37

Rightio.

Are you not familiar with struggling in the context of a particular discussion but not in general?

No.

I'm really really stupid.

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:39

SummaLuvin · 11/02/2024 22:30

But I don’t think anyone is saying she is an other worldly talent that no-one else can touch. We are saying Taylor is an objectively brilliant singer, songwriter, and performer and therefore that is why she is popular and deserving of the hype. There is only a few people in a generation who make it massive, and that generally not because they have something so so unique no-one else can bring, it’s right place right time and the guts to back yourself.

you could say the same about some actors, that there are loads of talented ones no-one pays attention to. And that’s true, but it’s because supply outweighs demand and some people get lucky enough to have a big shot.

She no more brilliant than loads of artists who don't seem to attract/crave/need the same cult following she does though.

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:39

WrenNatsworthy · 11/02/2024 22:39

No.

I'm really really stupid.

Rightio.
Tschüss.

blankittyblank · 11/02/2024 22:40

It's funny @ChiefEverythingOfficer cus I was wondering this exact thing earlier today. I don't mind her, i think her work ethic is amazing, she's clearly talented.

But then, there SO many other artists who have all the above, but they don't have the same hysteria around them.

I think it's partly because she's been around for bloody ages. I also think the fact she's so open about her flaws, her heartbreaks etc. she's very accessible - white, pretty, unthreatening, an every-girl.

I also think it doesn't take much for people to get sucked into a general hysteria, and for people to follow the crowd.

But yes, I'm also intrigued by it.

NerrSnerr · 11/02/2024 22:41

Of course she has very good PR, but you surely can't get to her level of stardom with PR alone.

If you're not into TS you should be pleased- the more focus on her selling out arenas means there's more a chance of you getting tickets for your own favourite artists- if they take off like she's done then you'll be forking out more money and worrying about priority codes and the like.

SummaLuvin · 11/02/2024 22:41

Wasbedeudetetdas · 11/02/2024 22:39

She no more brilliant than loads of artists who don't seem to attract/crave/need the same cult following she does though.

Yes and that’s exactly what I said 🤷🏻‍♀️

TeabySea · 11/02/2024 22:41

ChiefEverythingOfficer · 11/02/2024 21:07

I understand this. That is obvious

It's the hype I am trying to understand.

It'd no more hype than I've seen over other bands/singers over time.

The beatles were a major success in the early 60s (before my time) and watching footage of the absolute hysteria of the fans always leaves me wondering what people were that obsessive about before then.

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