Does anyone else’s husband act like a total twat for no reason? My husband just leapt up from the sofa ten mins into an Netflix series exclaiming “this is shit - I’m going to bed” and flounced out the room 😳 I paused the film and said okay, what you meant to say was this is definitely a film I need to watch in my own shall WE go to bed? He laughed and apologised. We go to the bedroom and he starts edging his way in some moronic zombie move to my cat, who he hates and she is scared of him, watching me all the time as I’m watching him in my dressing table mirror? I said WTF are you doing as you know that’s going to freak her out and it’s also annoying me? He then laughed again and came over and tickled me, when I hate to be tickled and as we had been together over 20 years he knows this 🤬 I told him to stop it and he said “oh I’ll just sleep on the sofa then shall I” and I said “do what you want just stop winding me up! It’s bedtime and I’m tired “ Unbelievably he goes to sleep in the sofa. I gave it ten mins then asked him what he was doing and to come to bed, and he says “you’re being a c*nt” I am horrified and so upset by this awful comment it takes all my strength not to overreact. I tell him that’s a disgusting thing to say and he explains he’d not calling me it but he thinks I’m being it. I explain his crazy behaviour is too much for me and he needs to come to bed and stop being an idiot.
im so pissed off with this whole effimg scenario I’m too angry to sleep.
Do you think this is controlling behaviour trying to get a reaction out of me and he’s being a little psycho? Because it’s totally fucked me off.