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One of the saddest stories in a long time TW: Neglect/child death

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Perjo · 17/01/2024 11:11

I read this this morning and it has to be one of the saddest, most avoidable child deaths I've read about in a long time. Especially where it says he was still alive on January 2nd.

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/47b4c6b2-673d-4c43-8ef0-b8ba05c47f0a?shareToken=39b0f7f8b3c90882aca021214db91159

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Toddlerteaplease · 19/01/2024 04:37

@Twonewcats no, they are bruises.

DrunkenElephant · 19/01/2024 07:44

Cheshiresun · 18/01/2024 23:29

Such a tragic story. It makes me think about people who have been left undiscovered for months or even years.

I don't see why social services or the police are to blame though. This could happen to anyone, or to any lone parent who isn't known to social services or the police.

Anyone not known to social services and have no immediate family (which this father and son did) or close friends could potentially be left for months or years until eventually discovered.

Just because social services were involved, I don't think they are to blame, I actually think they accessed the property quite quickly. And thankfully they did, although the outcome was tragic. Police can't break into the homes of every single property where most of the time there would be no issue.

Yes they can.

The police are the only agency with power to enter a property. Another professional (SW) calling to say that they are concerned about a vulnerable child is absolutely cause for police to gain entry.

Groovy48592747 · 19/01/2024 07:54

No way is the the fault of social services or the police.

SteamingTangerine · 19/01/2024 08:08

The mother has a picture of Tom Hardy in the title role in the film Bronson (about the notorious prisoner) on one of her umpteen Facebook accounts.

Fizbosshoes · 19/01/2024 09:05

Bubbleohseven · 18/01/2024 22:52

I think they are happening more often.

There seems to be a slow but steady increase of people not doing their jobs properly. In this case, the police.

If the cases are more frequent I would think its more complicated than people simply not doing their jobs properly.
Firstly multiple services and agencies (surestart, health visitors, CAHMs, adult MH, social services , police etc) have been underfunded and cut to the bone so they are spread too thin, or harder to access as well as people potentially living more isolated/insular lives that they don't necessarily have a support network from friends/neighbours/family , before you get to social service intervention.

In this instance it seems the SW was the only person concerned enough to raise an alarm after not seeing, hearing or speaking to the family for a week.

Twonewcats · 19/01/2024 09:43

Toddlerteaplease · 19/01/2024 04:37

@Twonewcats no, they are bruises.

How do you know that though? As they also look like dirty marks?

The poor soul, i can't stop thinking about him

SteamingTangerine · 19/01/2024 09:50

A neighbour in the same building has stated that they made a report to the NSPCC over the holiday as the father could often be heard 'having a go' at the child at night, and Bronson could be heard crying through the night. It gets worse Sad

istoodonlegoagain · 19/01/2024 10:08

ayabrea · 19/01/2024 01:40

Don't know if this has been mentioned already but there have been reports that a neighbour heard Bronson's dad shouting at him multiple times in the days before he died. His dad was out of work and had difficulties moving about. He also had heart problems and was jaundiced. Looking after a toddler on your own can be hard work even when you're fit and well, but having ongoing health issues like that would have made it substantially more challenging. The question for me is why the child wasn't taken into care by children's services before this tragedy occurred. I expect there is going to be a lot of blame-shifting going on between SS, the police and family members.

If social services had to remove every child due to a parent shouting at them and/or them having medical conditions then half the population would be in care. The threshold of what is deemed "good enough" parenting is very low.

MyGhastIsFlabbered · 19/01/2024 10:22

I'm not saying this isn't tragic and I'm actually shedding tears over poor little Bronson this morning. But I have numerous health issues, and I have lost my rag with the kids on occasion. I'd hate to think they would be removed on this basis as they are my entire world and I do everything I'm capable of and constantly striving to be a better parent to them.

Singingasong · 19/01/2024 10:57

I do wonder why the social worker didn’t chase up the welfare check with the police (maybe she did?) as it was days before she gained entry. I am sure she was concerned on the first day and must have been wondering where the little boy was that night and the next day.

I was a safeguarding officer in a school for some time and you do have to check and chase things up in some circumstances. I said earlier in the thread I have always found the police to respond quickly to requests for a welfare check although a pp said times have changed. A family member of mine had a welfare check this week. The police turned up within an hour and took the person straight to hospital.

DrunkenElephant · 19/01/2024 11:25

@Singingasong she did chase up the police when they failed to attend after her first call.

Lalgarh · 19/01/2024 12:06

SteamingTangerine · 19/01/2024 09:50

A neighbour in the same building has stated that they made a report to the NSPCC over the holiday as the father could often be heard 'having a go' at the child at night, and Bronson could be heard crying through the night. It gets worse Sad

DM article. Nspcc now in the frame. Wouldn't they (nspcc) be required to report something like that to social services?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12979553/amp/police-watchdog-investigate-missed-opportunities-bronson-battersby.html

Watchdog to probe 'missed opportunities' in Bronson Battersby case

It is believed the toddler died of starvation and dehydration after his father had a heart attack at their home in Skegness around the New Year.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12979553/amp/police-watchdog-investigate-missed-opportunities-bronson-battersby.html

IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle · 19/01/2024 12:28

The only people who come out of this with any credit are the neighbour/(s) and the social worker.

I see from one of her numerous Facebook profiles that the mother was posting about a new relationship in September 2023. Guess that was more important than seeing her 2 year old from her previous relationship.

I wonder if anyone will investigate her role. It beggars belief that she lived 10 minutes away and hadn't seen Bronson for weeks.

Theyarehere · 19/01/2024 12:32

Did I read in the Mail article that the day after the discovery thieves broke on and stole the dads wallet? It is all just awful.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 19/01/2024 12:42

So the police didn't even secure the crime scene.

Eh? Not a fan of the police, but this is not a crime scene - its the site of an awful, tragic accident. Unless someone actually murdered the dad. So why would it be secured?

RootVegAndMash · 19/01/2024 12:49

Eh? Not a fan of the police, but this is not a crime scene - its the site of an awful, tragic accident. Unless someone actually murdered the dad. So why would it be secured?

Hindsight is great - we know the causes of death now. That wasn't known at the time though. Two dead bodies. It could have been poisoning, suffocation, carbon monoxide. It absolutely should have been treated as a crime scene.

Singingasong · 19/01/2024 12:54

I know the social worker chased it up but surely later that day and the next day she was concerned and could have rung the police again to ask if they had attended the house and what was the outcome.

Atethehalloweenchocs · 19/01/2024 12:54

How do you know it wasnt treated as a crime scene until someone said it was a natural death? Or that they were not able to rule out carbon monoxide etc quickly? Plenty of people die at home and the houses are not treated as crime scenes. In this situation, the tragedy is that it was not only the dad who died.

Fizbosshoes · 19/01/2024 13:54

Lalgarh · 19/01/2024 12:06

DM article. Nspcc now in the frame. Wouldn't they (nspcc) be required to report something like that to social services?

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12979553/amp/police-watchdog-investigate-missed-opportunities-bronson-battersby.html

Maybe the NSPCC did inform social services which is why the SW notified the police on their first visit...rather than assume there was no one in or they had forgotten the appointment?

Citrusandginger · 19/01/2024 16:35

His half sister (sharing a father) has suggested that she doesn't think social care or the police are to blame.

Bronson Battersby’s sister: social services not to blame for death

www.thetimes.co.uk/article/1d356f8a-ff32-4ecc-b29a-18bc762cb4f2?shareToken=d6bdf261ea1608177d6ca10279f5a770

Nervousaboutholidays · 19/01/2024 16:38

SS are the only ones clear of blame here

PinkShowerCurtain · 19/01/2024 19:45

@Singingasong i mean, we don’t know that she didn’t. She seems like she went above and beyond getting the key. Imagine the outrage from the family if SS had let themselves in and everything was fine. Plus her workload, lots of people miss/dodge appointments so hard to keep on top of it really.
I’m not surprised NSPCC didn’t act quicker if it was “just” shouting. Like someone else said, the bar for parenting is painfully low not least because there is no where else for these poor kids to go.
I hope the SW is doing ok.

Notchangingnameagain · 19/01/2024 19:51

@Citrusandginger This lady seems sensible and measured. In, such difficult and tragic circumstances.

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