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Voting to 'Get the Tories Out'

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DewHopper · 06/01/2024 09:55

Pro Labour posters are all over this platform telling posters to vote for whoever gets the Tories out. It does not seem to matter who it is as long as voting for them gets the Tories out nationally.

It's a worrying voting strategy from my pov but I tend to vote at constituency level. If I had an excellent Tory MP who cared about the things I cared about and served their constituents well, I would vote for them. Similarly Labour ( I would absolutely vote for Rosie Duffield) or Independent.

Do those people who will just vote for anyone as longs as this will oust the Tories - and what could be a very good MP - ever consider the effects of this locally? They may have got the Tories out at a national level but saddled themselves with a useless MP who does nothing for the locality.

Take for example women's rights. I am a gender critical woman and care very deeply about the erosion of women's single sex spaces etc. I am sure that many of the 'Tories out at all costs' people feel the same. The pro Labour people keep telling us that Starmer will be better for women's rights BUT if you vote on a single issue - getting the Tories out - you may well elect a hopeless constituency MP who is TWAW and who will be standing up to every pro woman move that Starmer makes. I worry that there will be a lot of these in the next parliament.

So should we be voting on the single issue - get the Tories out? I don't think so - AIBU?

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Firefly2009 · 06/01/2024 20:43

I seem to remember Labour were the ones who introduced the tax credit system. It certainly got me out of poverty.

No amount of any other do-gooding by the Tories will make up for Austerity. It might not affect some people, but a lot of people are living in hell because of it.

BIossomtoes · 06/01/2024 20:43

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:38

The last Labour government was full of MPs who knew their arsehole from their elbows, wasn't tampering with the truth and operated in a completely different economic market.

You are in for one hell of a disappointment.

Perhaps I am but at least I’ll be able to sleep at night.

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:44

The info @lifeturnsonadime posted is interesting.

If we could talk about all this a little better it would be good.

I'm so sick of the way it is discussed I don't discuss it that well myself.

I really do hate the culture wars.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:44

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:34

People don't tend to go to university in pairs though, do they?

I guess some do but it would be unusual, but that doesn't help the girls who get an offer from UCL who can only afford to share a room with a stranger.

Thanks for accepting the unfairness of this on girls.

Jesus.
I’m not accepting unfairness. I specifically said if twin rooms are enforced it’s wrong and I’m happy to protest about it with you.
I suggesting, on balance of probabilities, that it isn’t happening and people can only choose a twin as a pair.

Firefly2009 · 06/01/2024 20:46

A lot of people coming to this thread right now will not understand what the current argument is about or how it relates to voting the tories out. It's either derailed into bickering or a lot of deep, important discussion has been missed.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:47

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:42

Maybe put an FOI request in for this information?

I reckon it would be small number for the reasons I have stated, I can't imagine a high percentage of friends would both get offers at such a competitive institution and request a twin room. Much more likely to be a girl with tighter finances.

But no I don't know.

Much easier wouldn't it, for a university to be obliged legally to offer single sex provisions?

I am disappointed that no political party will do this. Especially Labour who are supposed to be progressive and be the party for women.

Edited

Why don’t you put in the request?
As I’ve said, that link is clearly for returning students as well as first years as it has double rooms on it. You don’t normally go with your partner either.

Piggywaspushed · 06/01/2024 20:48

Some unis do have shared rooms for prior strangers. Often actually chosen by more affluent students who attended boarding school. Predominantly male . Otherwise chosen by couples.

I asked about this at two open days.

They are more common in older unis : Durham, Edinburgh, St Andrew's....

I'd be amazed if a trans student elected to share. The only trans student I knew of at uni had human faeces smeared on their door with shocking regularity.

jasflowers · 06/01/2024 20:48

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:43

These halls are offered to first year students, people have to live out for second and third years.

Edited

There is £55 per week difference between single on suite and shared on suite
319 vs 374 Per Week.... UCL Battersea)

The super hi cost here is the scandal not room type.

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:48

Firefly2009 · 06/01/2024 20:46

A lot of people coming to this thread right now will not understand what the current argument is about or how it relates to voting the tories out. It's either derailed into bickering or a lot of deep, important discussion has been missed.

It has derailed into bickering!!

It always does at the moment!

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:49

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:43

These halls are offered to first year students, people have to live out for second and third years.

Edited

No, that’s mot the case.
We can tell this because there are double rooms.
Most students at most institutions live out in the 2nd and 3rd years. Most at least allow application for rooms. Why do you think there are doubles? Do you think they are allocated randomly too?

BIossomtoes · 06/01/2024 20:50

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:48

It has derailed into bickering!!

It always does at the moment!

Sadly yes. And God help us when the election date’s finally announced. We’ll be wading through virtual blood!

Firefly2009 · 06/01/2024 20:50

What do single or double rooms at uni and trans rights have to do with voting the Tories out? Are the Tories better with standing up for our rights? How do we know this?

Cornettoninja · 06/01/2024 20:51

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:38

The last Labour government was full of MPs who knew their arsehole from their elbows, wasn't tampering with the truth and operated in a completely different economic market.

You are in for one hell of a disappointment.

wasn't tampering with the truth

I suppose if you ignore the whole WMD and Iraq war thing you could make that statement truthful 🤷‍♀️

Otherwise , I don’t think many intending or considering voting Labour are doing so with rose tinted specs (though I concede some may be). I don’t think I’ve heard anyone suggest that a vote for labour will lead to land of milk and honey but there are high hopes that there can be a restoration of proper politics that will engage well on the global stage, reassure global markets that there aren’t complete amateurs in charge economically and make proper inroads into issues that are going to last the decade and beyond.

as I’m a tactical voter I will be researching the predictions for my area and going with whichever party is likely to unseat the current Tory MP. It’s very likely not Labour so as much as I hope they win they aren’t promised my vote.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:51

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:41

Policies will be in the manifesto.
Last time Labour were in power it resulted in far fewer children (and adults) being in poverty.
I can see Tory policies putting more people in poverty every day.
Therefore I deduce it’s likely Labour will do better.

So you don't know yet, but you have a feeling that Labour will have developed policies that will improve lives in a way you don't yet know, you have a feeling that Tories won't prioritize well-being?

I understand that you haven't scathing about those of us who prioritise this single issue as other posters, and I appreciate that these things are unknowns.

I see that Labour row back on policies they said they would pursue each and every day - the green pledge yesterday. It's my opinion that the room for economic manoeuvre is hamstrung by tough economic limitations. I don't see that Labour will ride in and improve things. Meanwhile, I think they will decimate women's rights, their political voice (see Duffield), policy in institutions etc, etc in a blaze of gender theology.

Firefly2009 · 06/01/2024 20:52

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jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:52

jasflowers · 06/01/2024 20:48

There is £55 per week difference between single on suite and shared on suite
319 vs 374 Per Week.... UCL Battersea)

The super hi cost here is the scandal not room type.

Because the government has chosen not to raise tuition fees in line with university costs (whilst taking steps to deliberately increase those costs) universities have to find other ways to fund students education, so accomodation costs have increased dramatically. Since universities can charge more for single and ensuite rooms, than twin rooms and shared bathroom facilities, there has been a move to single ensuite rooms as well.

This is entirely a result of the choices made by the current government.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:52

Same, @Firefly2009 , same…
Shiny 😊

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:52

BIossomtoes · 06/01/2024 20:43

Perhaps I am but at least I’ll be able to sleep at night.

Yeah, that's the main thing.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:53

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:44

Jesus.
I’m not accepting unfairness. I specifically said if twin rooms are enforced it’s wrong and I’m happy to protest about it with you.
I suggesting, on balance of probabilities, that it isn’t happening and people can only choose a twin as a pair.

If people could only select a room as a pair why doesn't it say so on the UCL website? Why should someone who doesn't know another person be prevented from applying to stay in a twin room when it is financially advantageous to do so , probably in the tune of around £100 a week. (Edited someone has said it's £55 per week but still that's over £200 a month! which makes a massive difference to students).

On the balance of probabilities this could happen.

It is easy to solve by making provisions single sex.

Jamesclaton007 · 06/01/2024 20:54

does anyone vote on a party for whats best for the country ?

BIossomtoes · 06/01/2024 20:54

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:52

Yeah, that's the main thing.

It is for someone who values their integrity, yes.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:55

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:49

No, that’s mot the case.
We can tell this because there are double rooms.
Most students at most institutions live out in the 2nd and 3rd years. Most at least allow application for rooms. Why do you think there are doubles? Do you think they are allocated randomly too?

The UCL website says that it's halls are for first years only. There are some exceptions but this tends to be if a person is disabled and needs specific accommodation.

Doubles are not allocated randomly nor are family rooms.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:55

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:51

So you don't know yet, but you have a feeling that Labour will have developed policies that will improve lives in a way you don't yet know, you have a feeling that Tories won't prioritize well-being?

I understand that you haven't scathing about those of us who prioritise this single issue as other posters, and I appreciate that these things are unknowns.

I see that Labour row back on policies they said they would pursue each and every day - the green pledge yesterday. It's my opinion that the room for economic manoeuvre is hamstrung by tough economic limitations. I don't see that Labour will ride in and improve things. Meanwhile, I think they will decimate women's rights, their political voice (see Duffield), policy in institutions etc, etc in a blaze of gender theology.

The only reason you know Tory policies is because they are in power an enacting them. How well is that going?
And are you sure they’ll do the same after the election? No. It’ll be in their manifesto (though they’re ignoring the current one, so 🤷‍♀️)
They have fucked job it’s time for someone else. It’s most likely Labour as the next biggest party. I’d be happy with anyone but Tory or their further right offshoots. I’ve never said anyone should vote Labour (though I think it’s clear I will - but that’s at least partly because it’s the best option not to have Tory in my constituency).

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:55

Jamesclaton007 · 06/01/2024 20:54

does anyone vote on a party for whats best for the country ?

No, we all vote for shits and giggles. 🙄

Cornettoninja · 06/01/2024 20:55

@Jamesclaton007 i suspect that’s the motivation for most tactical voters. It’s is for me.

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