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Voting to 'Get the Tories Out'

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DewHopper · 06/01/2024 09:55

Pro Labour posters are all over this platform telling posters to vote for whoever gets the Tories out. It does not seem to matter who it is as long as voting for them gets the Tories out nationally.

It's a worrying voting strategy from my pov but I tend to vote at constituency level. If I had an excellent Tory MP who cared about the things I cared about and served their constituents well, I would vote for them. Similarly Labour ( I would absolutely vote for Rosie Duffield) or Independent.

Do those people who will just vote for anyone as longs as this will oust the Tories - and what could be a very good MP - ever consider the effects of this locally? They may have got the Tories out at a national level but saddled themselves with a useless MP who does nothing for the locality.

Take for example women's rights. I am a gender critical woman and care very deeply about the erosion of women's single sex spaces etc. I am sure that many of the 'Tories out at all costs' people feel the same. The pro Labour people keep telling us that Starmer will be better for women's rights BUT if you vote on a single issue - getting the Tories out - you may well elect a hopeless constituency MP who is TWAW and who will be standing up to every pro woman move that Starmer makes. I worry that there will be a lot of these in the next parliament.

So should we be voting on the single issue - get the Tories out? I don't think so - AIBU?

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jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:19

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:14

Still waiting for something resembling a labour policy that you can hang your hat on and demonstrate how they will make a material difference to the quality of life for women and girls...

What are you actually getting for handing in your truth badge?

Then you best ask the PM to call the general election then.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:20

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:17

Go ahead..,

Post what you want I will not stop you

Just don’t go on about ‘legitimising support’ or ‘hijacking’ with what I care about

I am posting what I want.
You’ve told me I’ve insulted you, berated you, dictated your vote, want to ban your vote… I’m getting the distinct feeling you don’t actually like me posting what I want.

DuncinToffee · 06/01/2024 20:21

jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:18

I am glad that you appreciate my speaking up on the biggest issue that is affecting all women at present. Namely the appalling government we currently have.

Me too

And tactical voting in my area is a must to GTTO

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:21

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:18

Many universities are captured by trans ideology. Women are told on posters not to object to males in their spaces, and look at what has happened to prominent women who have been banned from speaking about women's rights in universities.

The girl in this scenario wouldn't be able to object until she arrives and is faced by a room with a male in it. Then she has to be 'a bigot' openly by objecting.

How is that right or fair?

Far better we address all of the issues by making spaces single sex.

In the case of someone being allocated a twin room with no choice in either that or who shared it with her, then I agree. What I’m not seeing is evidence this happens. How are those rooms allocated?

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:21

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:20

I am posting what I want.
You’ve told me I’ve insulted you, berated you, dictated your vote, want to ban your vote… I’m getting the distinct feeling you don’t actually like me posting what I want.

jesus

No really post as you wish.. not about me perhaps?

Plenty of other things available

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:22

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:18

Have a look at the website. Policies will come in the manifesto, but the 5 Missions will give you some clues.
They’ll make women’s lives better by focussing in things which improve everyday life, essentially. NHS, education, care, benefits etc etc.

They’ll make women’s lives better by focussing in things which improve everyday life, essentially. NHS, education, care, benefits etc etc.

Now, come on, that's just words and you want to talk about something different....I'm asking which policies have they convinced you will be beneficial enough to hand over your ability to speak truthfully about reality?

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:22

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:19

Thanks for posting.

You say your son was applying, were the forms any more detailed?

No idea, he's currently waiting on offers before applying for accommodation.

But isn't it easier just to make double rooms single sex and have proper single sex provisions, rather than make a girl declare her 'bigotry' in the eyes on the university on a form, or worse have to object when she arrives faced with a situation where a girl gender person is actually a male?

Cornettoninja · 06/01/2024 20:22

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:13

Anyway I’ve had the Labour posters do their thing

Fucking hell

Getting back to the topic. It’s GOOD women speak up and I hope they continue

Just not women with an interest in politics that may sound vaguely like they’re Labour supporters? Oh, and may not hold gender policies as ‘the’ most important topic right now.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:23

jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:19

Then you best ask the PM to call the general election then.

So, you will hand over your integrity for a feeling that they will have some useful policies?

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:23

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:21

jesus

No really post as you wish.. not about me perhaps?

Plenty of other things available

Seriously? I haven’t posted ‘about you’. I’ve answered your criticisms of me with examples of things you’ve posted about me…and they were (occasionally) close to personal attacks - that I’m ‘berating’ for eg.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:23

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:21

In the case of someone being allocated a twin room with no choice in either that or who shared it with her, then I agree. What I’m not seeing is evidence this happens. How are those rooms allocated?

I'm not sure how a person can choose upfront when rooms are based on gender not sex ?

If a person puts down their gender as female then you wouldn't have any choice until you arrive because you wouldn't know!

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:24

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:22

They’ll make women’s lives better by focussing in things which improve everyday life, essentially. NHS, education, care, benefits etc etc.

Now, come on, that's just words and you want to talk about something different....I'm asking which policies have they convinced you will be beneficial enough to hand over your ability to speak truthfully about reality?

Policies will come in the manifesto.
Why is that hard to grasp?
Meanwhile we know the Tories dreadful policies because they are enacting them.

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:25

Posters moaning GC topic too prevalent

I'm really interested in women's rights, in actually discussing them.

What I find really boring is what I mentioned upthread - posters who don't discuss women's rights in any detail or any way that is interesting, just say 'what about women's rights' over and over and over again.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:25

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:22

No idea, he's currently waiting on offers before applying for accommodation.

But isn't it easier just to make double rooms single sex and have proper single sex provisions, rather than make a girl declare her 'bigotry' in the eyes on the university on a form, or worse have to object when she arrives faced with a situation where a girl gender person is actually a male?

I’d agree they should say single sex. Gender is a nonsense.
But is there any evidence, any at all, that those rooms are allocated at random to pairs of people who haven’t asked for them?

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:26

Cornettoninja · 06/01/2024 20:22

Just not women with an interest in politics that may sound vaguely like they’re Labour supporters? Oh, and may not hold gender policies as ‘the’ most important topic right now.

No you do you.

Go ahead as per pp feel free to not focus on me

I find it important, not the only importance as I said in pp but funding / economics too

But if you and others just post without telling me I’m ‘hijacking’ because I care about women’s sex based rights then great. Go for it

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:26

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:24

Policies will come in the manifesto.
Why is that hard to grasp?
Meanwhile we know the Tories dreadful policies because they are enacting them.

Later, later...

What exactly was it that everyone wanted to talk about that gender critical posters were subverting when none of you have a bloody clue what policies they will have?

jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:26

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:21

In the case of someone being allocated a twin room with no choice in either that or who shared it with her, then I agree. What I’m not seeing is evidence this happens. How are those rooms allocated?

Experience tells me that typcially, including at UCL, students who put universities as their firm or insurance choice get a choice of what accomodation they would like to be in, and university accomodation offices work hard to fulfil those requirements. To spread the workload on those offices some universities start allocating rooms earlier in the process than others. Some do not start until after A-level results day. For those that start before A-level results day, those who secure a place in clearing may have a reduced choice of accomodation available to them, but I would be very surprised* if a student never had a choice of single accomodation.
*Although thinking about it further for some students it may not be as much as a choice as others due to twin rooms typically being cheaper. But if that is the issue then we should probably discuss the whole of university funding and the cost of living crisis.

BIossomtoes · 06/01/2024 20:27

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:23

So, you will hand over your integrity for a feeling that they will have some useful policies?

My integrity is in no danger. I want what’s best for the country, particularly the million children living in destitution. If I voted against their interests I really would have thrown my integrity overboard along with my moral compass.

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:27

LightSwerve · 06/01/2024 20:25

Posters moaning GC topic too prevalent

I'm really interested in women's rights, in actually discussing them.

What I find really boring is what I mentioned upthread - posters who don't discuss women's rights in any detail or any way that is interesting, just say 'what about women's rights' over and over and over again.

Seriously? There’s loads of detail

What are you after?

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:28

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:25

I’d agree they should say single sex. Gender is a nonsense.
But is there any evidence, any at all, that those rooms are allocated at random to pairs of people who haven’t asked for them?

Again I don't know. But financial constraints will mean some girls don't have an option to apply for a single room, that's no choice for them really is it?

Double rooms are significantly cheaper than single rooms.

jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:29

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:22

No idea, he's currently waiting on offers before applying for accommodation.

But isn't it easier just to make double rooms single sex and have proper single sex provisions, rather than make a girl declare her 'bigotry' in the eyes on the university on a form, or worse have to object when she arrives faced with a situation where a girl gender person is actually a male?

The UCL link that was shared is quite clear that double rooms are for couples.

jasflowers · 06/01/2024 20:30

EasternStandard · 06/01/2024 20:17

Go ahead..,

Post what you want I will not stop you

Just don’t go on about ‘legitimising support’ or ‘hijacking’ with what I care about

If you care about womens rights, why don't you ever criticise the Tories for their policies on DV, rape, women stuck hospital, lack of carers in the community, allowing men into female prisons (so long as they aren't violent)
Really? i mean a criminal by their very nature is likely to be capable of violence.

all of this you remain silent on but they are real world female issues.

cardibach · 06/01/2024 20:30

Desecratedcoconut · 06/01/2024 20:23

So, you will hand over your integrity for a feeling that they will have some useful policies?

I can only speak for myself. Experience tells me that, in the past, Labour policies have aligned with my beliefs about what is best for ordinary people and for women and girls as part of that group. It also shows me that things actually do get better for women and girls under a Labour government (look at child poverty rates, for example). At the moment, that’s all people are saying. Nobody has voted for anybody yet.
If the Labour manifesto is full of policies worse than anyone else’s then I doubt any of us would advocate voting for them or in away which gives them power.
In my view, that’s vanishingly unlikely. Given what I know about the Tories, I think they need to be out. The result of that is likely to be a Labour (or Labour led) government. Therefore I suggest voting tactically to get Tories out (note - I still haven’t said anyone should vote Labour). If the Tories suddenly have an epiphany (good day for it) and produce brilliant policies well…it would give food for thought, but I still wouldn’t trust them after the lies and corruption of recent years, so I’d still suggest (not dictate) a tactical vote to get them out.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/01/2024 20:30

jgw1 · 06/01/2024 20:26

Experience tells me that typcially, including at UCL, students who put universities as their firm or insurance choice get a choice of what accomodation they would like to be in, and university accomodation offices work hard to fulfil those requirements. To spread the workload on those offices some universities start allocating rooms earlier in the process than others. Some do not start until after A-level results day. For those that start before A-level results day, those who secure a place in clearing may have a reduced choice of accomodation available to them, but I would be very surprised* if a student never had a choice of single accomodation.
*Although thinking about it further for some students it may not be as much as a choice as others due to twin rooms typically being cheaper. But if that is the issue then we should probably discuss the whole of university funding and the cost of living crisis.

Finance plays a huge part. Has Starmer committed to remove tuition fees to ease the burden on these female student's to make a choice of single room easier?

I'm saying that partly tongue in cheek.

This is another example of how less advantaged girls are more vulnerable though.

Single sex is better.

Starmer could make it clear that single sex provisions should be for biological females only and exclude even males with a GRC. I wish he would.

Lonelycrab · 06/01/2024 20:31

There’s loads of detail

No, can you post some more, in more detail. It’s really interesting😵‍💫

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