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Anyone actually excited about a Keir / Labour govt?

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roarrfeckingroar · 04/01/2024 17:37

I'm typically a Tory voter (one nation Conservative, just right of centre, nothing radical) and gender critical, so I'm wary of a Labour government. I worry they'll leave the country worse than it is now.

However, I absolutely agree we need a change. Things can't get much worse, can they? Idiots like Boris and Truss have made a mockery of what I understand of the Conservatives - namely economic competence - and I can't vote for them this time. I don't know who I will vote for.

Listening to LBC this evening, I hear a Labour MP talk about how Starmer is offering an "exciting programme" of change and I just don't buy it. Maybe he will he better, maybe he won't, but my real question is is anyone genuinely excited about Labour, or just looking forward to the back of the Tories?

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lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 14:17

jasflowers · 05/01/2024 14:13

As i said earlier and linked to the Tory Governments response, both parties have pretty much the same stance on the GRA.

The Government said that "the GRA strikes the right balance and we have no plans to change it" May 2023.

Its fair question to ask what will Labour do differently but its not fair to blame Lab but praise the Tories when the policy is the same.

How you would keep a man with a GRC out of a female space is anyones guess, perhaps thats why Boris lowered the fee from £140 to £5 ?

Atm the Tories seem keen to keep women out of female only spaces by closing them down.

I must have missed the part where I praised the Tories?

please can you find that for me?

this is the problem with a political system with two main parties.

The fact we have to put up and shut up about losing women’s rights as a result, according to some on this thread is mind blowing. Those women who fought to get us rights must be turning in their graves.

jasflowers · 05/01/2024 14:18

I've learnt over the years, that ultimately you'll never be able to change people's minds on their political leanings, despite presenting infallible evidence that contradicts their steadfast beliefs

'Course people change their minds, die hard Tories voted Labour in 1997 and die hard labourites voted Tory in 2019.

Some people have changed their minds on Brexit too.

I've voted for all the main parties inc Greens & if the Labour manifesto said we plan on getting rid of womens rights, they wont get my vote either.

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:20

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:17

lol feeling is mutual

As I said if people actually got out of Labour echo chambers and read threads where women were discussing what was going on then great

Vote for who you want but if you and others can only read pro Labour and absolutely not FWR then don’t be surprised when sex based rights are trashed. It’s all being posted about 🤷‍♂️

But many of us are not actually Labour fans. I personally have always voted labour except for tactical reasons but I know many other people on here haven't. They just want to GTTO. Who can blame them after the last 13 years?

I should add I have spent a lot of time in the last couple of years on the FWR boards - we don't all keep the same name for all our posts. I am very much a fan of safe spaces for women. I just don't see the Tories doing anything better for women than labour. In fact quite the opposite.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

jasflowers · 05/01/2024 14:22

lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 14:17

I must have missed the part where I praised the Tories?

please can you find that for me?

this is the problem with a political system with two main parties.

The fact we have to put up and shut up about losing women’s rights as a result, according to some on this thread is mind blowing. Those women who fought to get us rights must be turning in their graves.

I didn't specifically say you did.

Where have Labour said they'll remove female rights?

We ve 13 years of evidence of what the Tories have done to womens rights, doesn't that matter to you?

lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 14:22

Whatisthesafetynet · 05/01/2024 14:14

it should not be too much to ask for Labour to care enough about women to unequivocally state that they will repeal the GRC

So this isn’t just about opposing self ID. You actually want the government to repeal the GRA and remove the right for people to change their legal sex? Do you realise how much of an outlier that would make the UK?
People with the appropriate diagnosis/ treatment have the right to change their legal sex in virtually every western/ civilised/ democratic country in the world.

Absolutely I am not the same as a man who had paid for a piece of paper which states that he is a woman!

People can dress as they please and love who they want but this harmful anti woman nonsense needs to stop.

IClaudine · 05/01/2024 14:23

ifIwerenotanandroid · 05/01/2024 14:06

And I will vote for whoever has the sanest view on women's rights. If Labour truly cared about the country & wanted to be in power, they could change their policies to support those rights, & be guaranteed a victory. If they're not willing to do so, then it seems to me that they put trashing women's rights above the interests of the country.

It's not the electorate's fault if they look at Labour & think, 'No way'. It's Labour's fault.

If Labour truly cared about the country & wanted to be in power, they could change their policies to support those rights, & be guaranteed a victory

I honestly don't think that Labour's stance on trans issues is what most voters will base their choice on. It is not an election deciding issue for most people.

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:23

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:20

But many of us are not actually Labour fans. I personally have always voted labour except for tactical reasons but I know many other people on here haven't. They just want to GTTO. Who can blame them after the last 13 years?

I should add I have spent a lot of time in the last couple of years on the FWR boards - we don't all keep the same name for all our posts. I am very much a fan of safe spaces for women. I just don't see the Tories doing anything better for women than labour. In fact quite the opposite.

Do you mean single (biological) sex spaces, ‘safe spaces’ doesn’t mean much

You spend time on FWR and you think Starmer and Labour are better on sex based rights?

There are a few that take that stance, but most can evidence why it’s not the case

lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 14:25

jasflowers · 05/01/2024 14:22

I didn't specifically say you did.

Where have Labour said they'll remove female rights?

We ve 13 years of evidence of what the Tories have done to womens rights, doesn't that matter to you?

Oh please 🙄. We are about to walk into a general election which Labour will win but we shouldn’t ask questions about women’s rights of THEM?

my question to you is why do you think they, as the opposition party, care so little about women and harms to children that they won’t reverse the laws on this?

you expect them to fix health and other public services why not this?

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/01/2024 14:25

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 09:02

Lol no Starmer vote after all these Labour posts bloody hell poor guy

I’ll vote for whomever I want and you are pretty much the last person I’d share that with 😬

Having you quote me endlessly is tiresome enough

@EasternStandard this is a discussion board and quoting posters is one of the ways it works.

You seem to have an issue with this and take it very personally accusing posters of being tiresome or overinvested in your posts. If Mnet is tiresome to you or triggers your anxiety/paranoia perhaps it's time to take a break. Making accusations and scolding other users for using the site in accordance with guidelines is really not on.Brew

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:26

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:23

Do you mean single (biological) sex spaces, ‘safe spaces’ doesn’t mean much

You spend time on FWR and you think Starmer and Labour are better on sex based rights?

There are a few that take that stance, but most can evidence why it’s not the case

I believe women should have single sex safe spaces in situations where they are needed.

I am capable of spending time on FWR and not being brainwashed into thinking labour will sell women down the drain.

Echo chambers eh?

Whatisthesafetynet · 05/01/2024 14:29

'Course people change their minds, die hard Tories voted Labour in 1997 and die hard labourites voted Tory in 2019.

People may have changed their votes but that doesn’t mean they changed their minds. They just switched their vote to whatever party reflects their already deeply held beliefs. That evidences what pp is saying really.

Brexiters still were Brexiters they just voted for whichever party they thought was most likely to get it done. They didn’t change their minds.

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:30

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/01/2024 14:25

@EasternStandard this is a discussion board and quoting posters is one of the ways it works.

You seem to have an issue with this and take it very personally accusing posters of being tiresome or overinvested in your posts. If Mnet is tiresome to you or triggers your anxiety/paranoia perhaps it's time to take a break. Making accusations and scolding other users for using the site in accordance with guidelines is really not on.Brew

Odd you do this often speaking of invested. Try not to get so involved

If a poster moans about a topic coming up why quote

Yes they can try and I can say jog on or similar and not answer

Moaning about it isn’t my issue, maybe don’t bother posting this stuff as you’re imagining stuff for little reason

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:31

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:26

I believe women should have single sex safe spaces in situations where they are needed.

I am capable of spending time on FWR and not being brainwashed into thinking labour will sell women down the drain.

Echo chambers eh?

Yes I’m sure you are pro Labour despite spending time on FWR, but you are less likely to back up your claims on there

TeenagersAngst · 05/01/2024 14:33

@jgw1 I'm not sure Keir mentioned the law. He stated that it was transphobic to say that only a woman could have a cervix while at the Labour conference. Do you agree with this statement?

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/keir-starmer-trans-rights-duffield-b1927169.html

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 14:33

you are suggesting that because the Tories are similar women should not put these questions to Labour.

I’m not. I’m suggesting those questions should be addressed to both.

Crikeyalmighty · 05/01/2024 14:35

I for one will not vote based on a 'single' issue - that got us Brexit, Johnson et al .

I cannot think of anything the Tory's have done to turn any of your concerns around- therefore if Labour do little different too, we will be at the status quo but on other issues there will be a difference.

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:40

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:31

Yes I’m sure you are pro Labour despite spending time on FWR, but you are less likely to back up your claims on there

Is that because you think only one opinion is allowed?

Crikeyalmighty · 05/01/2024 14:42

@AllTheScoresOnAllTheDoors I know how you feel- my father in law pissed me off over the NY with regards to the doctors strike saying well if they don't like the money, leave and go to the private sector- that's really going to help things!!

This was a guy who voted leave and these days says 'it was all crap (Brexit) but I didn't vote. He most certainly did as I remember discussing this the day after the referendum.

MyopicBunny · 05/01/2024 14:42

I still want a direct answer to a simple question on biological males in single sex spaces

It seems like you are trying to derail this thread and it's quite annoying.

fuckssaaaaake · 05/01/2024 14:43

I don't believe for one minute it will be any better but I certainly can't give my vote to the Tories (I have before) as we know for sure that they've let us down in the worst way possible. We at least have to give labour a chance to not fuck us over

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:44

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:40

Is that because you think only one opinion is allowed?

No it’s because posters are really good at refuting political claims with evidence on FWR and Starmer doesn’t fare well against that.

Crikeyalmighty · 05/01/2024 14:45

I'm pretty sure some who pop on here on political threads have some kind of Tufton st role and are advised that todays 'propaganda ' subject is xxxx (gender, immigration, tax) whatever!! Basically to keep planting stuff in the floating voters , because they have little they can campaign on in a positive way-

suggestionsplease1 · 05/01/2024 14:45

ifIwerenotanandroid · 05/01/2024 14:06

And I will vote for whoever has the sanest view on women's rights. If Labour truly cared about the country & wanted to be in power, they could change their policies to support those rights, & be guaranteed a victory. If they're not willing to do so, then it seems to me that they put trashing women's rights above the interests of the country.

It's not the electorate's fault if they look at Labour & think, 'No way'. It's Labour's fault.

What do you think of the fact that the top 4 performing countries in the world for women, as measured by the Global Gender Gap Index, also have policies of gender self-ID?

https://www.weforum.org/publications/global-gender-gap-report-2023/

Global Gender Gap Report 2023

The Global Gender Gap Index annually benchmarks the current state and evolution of gender parity across four key dimensions (Economic Participation and Opportunity, Educational Attainment, Health and Survival, and Political Empowerment). It is the long...

https://www.weforum.org/publications/global-gender-gap-report-2023

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:46

MyopicBunny · 05/01/2024 14:42

I still want a direct answer to a simple question on biological males in single sex spaces

It seems like you are trying to derail this thread and it's quite annoying.

🤷‍♂️ scroll past rather than quote a post from ages ago

It seems you can’t help but do this even though you are busting to talk about another topic

Go on then I’m not stopping you knock yourself out.

I know my post is the most interesting but read others

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:49

Crikeyalmighty · 05/01/2024 14:45

I'm pretty sure some who pop on here on political threads have some kind of Tufton st role and are advised that todays 'propaganda ' subject is xxxx (gender, immigration, tax) whatever!! Basically to keep planting stuff in the floating voters , because they have little they can campaign on in a positive way-

Idk Are you paid by Labour?

I take it FWR has passed you by too. Maybe all the women posting are paid.

And JKR, Sharron Davies, Maya Forstator and Baroness Falkner

Fucking hell lucky it’s not down to you eh? Don’t say a word..

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