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Anyone actually excited about a Keir / Labour govt?

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roarrfeckingroar · 04/01/2024 17:37

I'm typically a Tory voter (one nation Conservative, just right of centre, nothing radical) and gender critical, so I'm wary of a Labour government. I worry they'll leave the country worse than it is now.

However, I absolutely agree we need a change. Things can't get much worse, can they? Idiots like Boris and Truss have made a mockery of what I understand of the Conservatives - namely economic competence - and I can't vote for them this time. I don't know who I will vote for.

Listening to LBC this evening, I hear a Labour MP talk about how Starmer is offering an "exciting programme" of change and I just don't buy it. Maybe he will he better, maybe he won't, but my real question is is anyone genuinely excited about Labour, or just looking forward to the back of the Tories?

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lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 13:46

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 13:38

it should not be too much to ask for Labour to care enough about women to unequivocally state that they will repeal the GRC and enshrine women’s rights to single sex spaces in law.

Yet you give the Tories a free pass to take exactly the same stance.

Way to miss / prove the point!

I want to know why Labour aren’t backing women’s rights ?

in the run up to a general election there are a number of issues that are important to me.

I want to positively vote for the Labour Party as I have done previously.

I want to know why Labour thinks that men’s wishes are more important than women’s single sex spaces and sports.

Its undemocratic for you and other posters to try to silence these questions with ‘but the tories’ !

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 13:48

I haven’t missed the point @lifeturnsonadime. Why are you demanding more of one party than another? That’s the reverse of undemocratic.

Winnading · 05/01/2024 13:49

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 12:46

As I understand it the law says that a female can have a penis.
This law is presumably supported by the government that has been in power for 13 years, otherwise they would have changed it.
If of course they the government wants to do one of its famous flip flops they could still change the law in this parliament, there is time.

They are in the process, according to the other thread it means tearing up the good Friday agreement and leaving human rights in the dust.

I happen to not believe that. But we shall see. I'm expecting it to be used as an issue when the general election date is made.

Here look, we will change up or repeal the GRA
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I do believe quite a lot of women have a penis, we must all shove, up, shove our reservations down and make room.

And the wonderful stanniland question of is it ok to you if a grown man showers next to my teen daughter?

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 13:57

Shinyandnew1 · 05/01/2024 13:10

Kemi Badenoch who would like to get rid of ‘superfluous’ teaching assistants?

I cannot wait for her to be out of government.

Is there a mechanism that we could use to get rid of superfluous MPs?

lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 13:58

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 13:48

I haven’t missed the point @lifeturnsonadime. Why are you demanding more of one party than another? That’s the reverse of undemocratic.

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I’m not!

im asking Labour what THEY will do.

if they want my vote I need to understand their position and why they put men first.

you are suggesting that because the Tories are similar women should not put these questions to Labour. That’s absurd .

Mischance · 05/01/2024 14:00

It is not possible for a sane and thoughtful person to agree with everything that each party puts in their manifesto - that is the nature of party politics.

So, we have to set some priorities - which might be voting for the party that has the most policies you agree with and biting the bullet on the other bits.

For me it is about getting this dishonest shower gone - I will vote for whoever is most likely to achieve that in my constituency.

Winnading · 05/01/2024 14:02

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 13:36

I value my low blood pressure too much. If the ambassadors they send here are the best they’ve got I’d be apoplectic in minutes.

Oooh wicked burn......

Oh no maybe not. Possibly is just your lack of critical thinking. That thinking that women don't want to share rape counselling, sports, prisons, hospital wards, etc with men of any identity are stupid? It seems to be what your saying.

AllTheScoresOnAllTheDoors · 05/01/2024 14:02

I've learnt over the years, that ultimately you'll never be able to change people's minds on their political leanings, despite presenting infallible evidence that contradicts their steadfast beliefs. Some people will flip - flop or organically change side when their own circumstances dictate, but trying to convince the other person that they're incorrect is a futile exercise. A friend in particular drives me nuts on this issue - to him Labour is a disgrace, doesn't represent the working classes any more and preferred Johnson for his " wit" and " high jinx". Mentally, I'm thinking but what have the Tories ever done for you - the charity sector in which he works has lost the majority of its funding whereas it thrived under Labour leadership, he could afford to buy his own property under Labour but wouldn't stand a chance today, he received a fully funded undergraduate degree under Labour nowadays it would be a pipe dream, his parents were supported with social housing when his dad was made redundant now they'd be in the streets of in a b& b if lucky... Very hard to bite my tongue when he asserts his notion that Labour are shysters and well, the Tories are fab for " trying to stop the boats ". The less said about that the better.

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 14:04

TeenagersAngst · 05/01/2024 13:28

@jgw1 ok, I'll bite.

You were asked if you agreed with Starmer's view that men can have cervixes (appreciate he's now updated his viewpoint as we approach the GE). So, that's the question. Not what the law says. Do you personally think a man can have a cervix?

Starmer was stating what the law says. I also know what the law says. I think we are all in agreement as to what the law says. Sunak and Starmer as far as I can tell are also in agreement that the law does not need to change.

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 14:05

BIossomtoes · 05/01/2024 13:38

it should not be too much to ask for Labour to care enough about women to unequivocally state that they will repeal the GRC and enshrine women’s rights to single sex spaces in law.

Yet you give the Tories a free pass to take exactly the same stance.

Additionally the Tories have had 13 years when they could have changed the law, and could still do so in this parliament.

The question surely is why Sunak isn't doing that?

ilovesooty · 05/01/2024 14:06

Winnading · 05/01/2024 14:02

Oooh wicked burn......

Oh no maybe not. Possibly is just your lack of critical thinking. That thinking that women don't want to share rape counselling, sports, prisons, hospital wards, etc with men of any identity are stupid? It seems to be what your saying.

Why does it demonstrate a lack of critical thinking not to want to engage with the FWR forum?

ifIwerenotanandroid · 05/01/2024 14:06

Mischance · 05/01/2024 14:00

It is not possible for a sane and thoughtful person to agree with everything that each party puts in their manifesto - that is the nature of party politics.

So, we have to set some priorities - which might be voting for the party that has the most policies you agree with and biting the bullet on the other bits.

For me it is about getting this dishonest shower gone - I will vote for whoever is most likely to achieve that in my constituency.

And I will vote for whoever has the sanest view on women's rights. If Labour truly cared about the country & wanted to be in power, they could change their policies to support those rights, & be guaranteed a victory. If they're not willing to do so, then it seems to me that they put trashing women's rights above the interests of the country.

It's not the electorate's fault if they look at Labour & think, 'No way'. It's Labour's fault.

Winnading · 05/01/2024 14:09

I've learnt over the years, that ultimately you'll never be able to change people's minds on their political leanings, despite presenting infallible evidence that contradicts their steadfast beliefs

I'm not out to change anyones mind, as you say some will vote the same way all their life, others will vote what suits them best at the time (me)

I guess my main aim is when labour throw away womens rights, I can come back and say "told you so"

Petty
Sur, I dont care.

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 14:09

Winnading · 05/01/2024 14:02

Oooh wicked burn......

Oh no maybe not. Possibly is just your lack of critical thinking. That thinking that women don't want to share rape counselling, sports, prisons, hospital wards, etc with men of any identity are stupid? It seems to be what your saying.

Hospital wards is an interesting question.

My teenage daughter will be on a hospitals ward for many weeks this year. The ward is open plan. There will be boys and girls from 6months old to 16 years old on the ward, she could be in a bed next to any of them, although where possible the staff do try and keep the older children together and the younger ones together, but that is not always possible.
That has nothing to do with sex based rights, it is entirely to do with the way the current government has chosen to defund the health service.

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:10

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Do you really only care about one issue? One issue that isn't supported by her colleagues (remember Penny M?).

KB is a nightmare in so many of her views but because she has spoken out on women that trumps all her evil opinions on everything else does it? Even though she will not be agreed with by her colleagues?

Oh to be in a position where only one issue matters.

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 14:10

ilovesooty · 05/01/2024 14:06

Why does it demonstrate a lack of critical thinking not to want to engage with the FWR forum?

Presumably it doesn't involve a lack of crictical thinking to look at the Home Secretary and think, ah I know that is the man who will protect women's rights.

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:11

Winnading · 05/01/2024 14:09

I've learnt over the years, that ultimately you'll never be able to change people's minds on their political leanings, despite presenting infallible evidence that contradicts their steadfast beliefs

I'm not out to change anyones mind, as you say some will vote the same way all their life, others will vote what suits them best at the time (me)

I guess my main aim is when labour throw away womens rights, I can come back and say "told you so"

Petty
Sur, I dont care.

Yes obviously the Labour die hards on these threads won’t change and I don’t care to convince them. But they won’t be able to say no one pointed out the likely further loss of sex based rights.

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:13

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:11

Yes obviously the Labour die hards on these threads won’t change and I don’t care to convince them. But they won’t be able to say no one pointed out the likely further loss of sex based rights.

I don't think there are as many labour die-hards on here as you think. I suspect there are more people who just want to GTTO and know labour will be less horrific. However the Tory die-hards employees will defend the government no matter what.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/01/2024 14:13

2dogsandabudgie · 05/01/2024 08:33

Flyhigher - How To persuade someone NOT to vote for Labour.

People like YOU frighten me to my core. Let people make up their own mind on which party to vote for.

Is @Flyhigher going to stop people making up their own mind? How?Confused

jasflowers · 05/01/2024 14:13

lifeturnsonadime · 05/01/2024 13:46

Way to miss / prove the point!

I want to know why Labour aren’t backing women’s rights ?

in the run up to a general election there are a number of issues that are important to me.

I want to positively vote for the Labour Party as I have done previously.

I want to know why Labour thinks that men’s wishes are more important than women’s single sex spaces and sports.

Its undemocratic for you and other posters to try to silence these questions with ‘but the tories’ !

As i said earlier and linked to the Tory Governments response, both parties have pretty much the same stance on the GRA.

The Government said that "the GRA strikes the right balance and we have no plans to change it" May 2023.

Its fair question to ask what will Labour do differently but its not fair to blame Lab but praise the Tories when the policy is the same.

How you would keep a man with a GRC out of a female space is anyones guess, perhaps thats why Boris lowered the fee from £140 to £5 ?

Atm the Tories seem keen to keep women out of female only spaces by closing them down.

redundantMother · 05/01/2024 14:14

Yes - me. A decent leader. It can’t come soon enough.

Whatisthesafetynet · 05/01/2024 14:14

it should not be too much to ask for Labour to care enough about women to unequivocally state that they will repeal the GRC

So this isn’t just about opposing self ID. You actually want the government to repeal the GRA and remove the right for people to change their legal sex? Do you realise how much of an outlier that would make the UK?
People with the appropriate diagnosis/ treatment have the right to change their legal sex in virtually every western/ civilised/ democratic country in the world.

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:15

Whatisthesafetynet · 05/01/2024 14:14

it should not be too much to ask for Labour to care enough about women to unequivocally state that they will repeal the GRC

So this isn’t just about opposing self ID. You actually want the government to repeal the GRA and remove the right for people to change their legal sex? Do you realise how much of an outlier that would make the UK?
People with the appropriate diagnosis/ treatment have the right to change their legal sex in virtually every western/ civilised/ democratic country in the world.

It's also not something the Tories are saying they will do.

EasternStandard · 05/01/2024 14:17

Zonder · 05/01/2024 14:13

I don't think there are as many labour die-hards on here as you think. I suspect there are more people who just want to GTTO and know labour will be less horrific. However the Tory die-hards employees will defend the government no matter what.

lol feeling is mutual

As I said if people actually got out of Labour echo chambers and read threads where women were discussing what was going on then great

Vote for who you want but if you and others can only read pro Labour and absolutely not FWR then don’t be surprised when sex based rights are trashed. It’s all being posted about 🤷‍♂️

IClaudine · 05/01/2024 14:17

jgw1 · 05/01/2024 14:09

Hospital wards is an interesting question.

My teenage daughter will be on a hospitals ward for many weeks this year. The ward is open plan. There will be boys and girls from 6months old to 16 years old on the ward, she could be in a bed next to any of them, although where possible the staff do try and keep the older children together and the younger ones together, but that is not always possible.
That has nothing to do with sex based rights, it is entirely to do with the way the current government has chosen to defund the health service.

Oh, be fair. They only made a promise 13 years ago to end mixed sex wards.

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2010/aug/16/government-promise-end-mixed-sex-hospital-wards

Nick Clegg confirms promise to end mixed-sex hospital wards

Labour calls coalition plans 'hollow' and an 'empty gesture' following previous attempts to stamp out practice

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2010/aug/16/government-promise-end-mixed-sex-hospital-wards

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