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Genuine question - can trans women experience cramps during their ‘time of the month’?

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Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:42

This is a genuine question as I am baffled.

I looking on Tik Tok last night (don’t judge me, I’m addicted lol)and I notice on my For You section there is often a trans women doing live Q&A’s. I stopped and watched for a while, out of curiosity tbh as DH has a couple of transgender people in his family and I do try to remain as ‘on the fence’ as possible with this subject.

However, this person on TT said something which does not make much sense to me.

They were saying they take HRT and this gives them ‘a time of the month’ when they experience a very emotional dip and have crying spells and feel low etc. I suppose that may make some sense due to the hormones they take but then they went on to say they also experience cramping during this time and started rubbing their lower tummy in the area where a woman’s uterus is located.
It was difficult to establish why this happens because anyone actually questioning this gets blocked and only those agreeing with them get to stay to ask questions! I appreciate they probably receive some very negative replies but blocking doesn’t answer the questions to people who really would like to know.

I genuinely can not understand where the cramps would originate in a person without female anatomy?

As someone who has been under the gynae department for 20+ years, has had to live their live around horrendous periods, has had endless hysteroscopies and uterine polyp removals, ovulation so painful I couldn’t sit properly, a failed uterine ablation, going through an awful perimenopause and now, at 50 only just discovering this is probably all due to the fact I actually have endometriosis and adenomyosis and have been gas lit for all this time having being told that some women just have awful periods etc, I more than understand where my cramps and pain come from. From my shit malfunctioning uterus and hormones which have never been my friend.

But where would a trans woman’s ‘time of the month’ cramps come from? What part of their body cramps due to the addition of female hormones? I’ve tried googling this but there’s very little. Can the hormones cramp the muscles or bowel in this area or something similar?

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InAMess2023 · 29/12/2023 10:43

Absolutely not!!!! As someone with severe endometriosis this has made me quite angry...

LenaLamont · 29/12/2023 10:44

No, they can’t. They think they should feel something so they convince themselves they do. (That’s my generous interpretation)

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:45

InAMess2023 · 29/12/2023 10:43

Absolutely not!!!! As someone with severe endometriosis this has made me quite angry...

Me too. It has actually made me really upset and I can’t stop thinking about it tbh.

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HereForTheFreeLunch · 29/12/2023 10:45

Cramps where????
They do not have the cramping kit.

LakeTiticaca · 29/12/2023 10:45

They don't have a time of the month. They don't have a uterus and they don't have ovaries. They don't have menstrual cramps and they don't menstrual.
It's impossible

Libertyy · 29/12/2023 10:45

No uterus, no period. Simple as that

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:45

LenaLamont I was wondering the same, it must be psychological?

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Violetparis · 29/12/2023 10:46

Biological men don't have periods so the answer is no if by 'time of the month' you mean periods. Whoever you were watching on TikTok is delusional or attention seeking or both.

Libertyy · 29/12/2023 10:46

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:45

LenaLamont I was wondering the same, it must be psychological?

They get stomach pain 😂and think they’re cramps

OutYerEd · 29/12/2023 10:46

No. These people are delusional.

AvengedQuince · 29/12/2023 10:47

Gastrointestinal issues, IBS?

Cincinnatus · 29/12/2023 10:47

No, men don’t get period cramps.

changefromhr · 29/12/2023 10:47

It's fantasy. It's all part of the TWAW brainwashing.

InAMess2023 · 29/12/2023 10:48

Genuinely baffled as to why anyone would actively WANT to experience those sort of things. But then again, genuinely baffled by a lot of trans things these days

Whatsnewpussyhat · 29/12/2023 10:48

Of course men can't get period pains.

They are just attempting to validate their fantasy of 'woman'.

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:49

AvengedQuince I was wondering this as I have IBS and know that progesterone upsets my tummy. It’s probably from bowel cramps!

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BCBird · 29/12/2023 10:50

Wtf. Sorry OP. What lunacy. I can't be doing with the absolute nonsense 🙄

Theinnocenteyeballsinthesky · 29/12/2023 10:50

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:45

LenaLamont I was wondering the same, it must be psychological?

It’s bollocks is what it is!!! It’s appropriating an entirely female experience that they as men can’t have because they don’t have a uterus. Its absolutely ridiculous that their nonsense is indulged while women’s gynaecological struggles are still seen as no big deal

Picklemeyellow · 29/12/2023 10:50

InAMess2023 · 29/12/2023 10:48

Genuinely baffled as to why anyone would actively WANT to experience those sort of things. But then again, genuinely baffled by a lot of trans things these days

Yep! They are more than welcome to my reproductive system. It’s been nothing short of hell for me, I’d hand it over with glee!

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CornishPorsche · 29/12/2023 10:50

No, it's part of the fantasy the TRAs would have us all believe. It's complete bullshit.

It's also part of the cos playing, LARPing and often the fetish that so many of these fantasists are living out on social media.

But we can't say that because it's "actual violence".

ProtocolDroid · 29/12/2023 10:51

Maybe they think real women don’t fart, so it’s pain from holding in the wind.

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PurpleChrayne · 29/12/2023 10:53

I'm glad to see that the tide seems to have changed from a lot of posters telling us how we're big transphobic bigots for not buying into this. It's refreshing!

starsparkle08 · 29/12/2023 10:53

Maybe they were constipated or something as they don’t have a womb etc so impossible to have menstrual cramping . Bloody ridiculous