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If you were going to be a grandmother, what would you call yourself?

288 replies

MILTOBE · 15/12/2023 12:48

Just as the title says - if one of your children was having a baby, what would you want to be known as?

The only options I can come up with are:

Gran
Granny
Grandma
Nan
Nana
Nanny

Which would you choose, or would you choose something else?

OP posts:
Wanttobeok · 18/12/2023 12:31

Nanan

Libertyy · 18/12/2023 12:32

Depends if it’s my son or daughter’s kids

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/12/2023 12:34

Libertyy · Today 12:32
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Depends if it’s my son or daughter’s kids”

I treating. Why the difference?
(just nosey 😁)

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/12/2023 12:35

Interesting, not I treating!

Libertyy · 18/12/2023 12:44

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/12/2023 12:34

Libertyy · Today 12:32
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Depends if it’s my son or daughter’s kids”

I treating. Why the difference?
(just nosey 😁)

We have different names for grandmother depending on whether the grandmother is the mum’s mum or the dad’s mum. It’s also a different generic title for male and female grandchildren also depending on whether they’re male or female and also whether they’re the sons or daughters kids

LizzieSiddal · 18/12/2023 12:50

I chose Granny but my grandaughter couldn’t say it and came up with her own name for me which I love and will encourage her to keep using.

MrsSkylerWhite · 18/12/2023 12:50

Libertyy · Today 12:44

MrsSkylerWhite · Today 12:34

Libertyy · Today 12:32
**
Depends if it’s my son or daughter’s kids”

I treating. Why the difference?
(just nosey 😁)

We have different names for grandmother depending on whether the grandmother is the mum’s mum or the dad’s mum. It’s also a different generic title for male and female grandchildren also depending on whether they’re male or female and also whether they’re the sons or daughters kids”

That actually is interesting!

fc123 · 18/12/2023 13:10

Member278307 · 15/12/2023 13:39

Gran gran short and sweet x

I'm a Gran gran too.
I love it. My daughter suggested it

keffie12 · 18/12/2023 13:34

MILTOBE · 15/12/2023 12:48

Just as the title says - if one of your children was having a baby, what would you want to be known as?

The only options I can come up with are:

Gran
Granny
Grandma
Nan
Nana
Nanny

Which would you choose, or would you choose something else?

Granna is my title

Cat1313 · 18/12/2023 20:49

Granny

allgood3 · 18/12/2023 22:07

Cream pies you sound so superior. It's a shame while you learnt the meaning of Nanny to be goat and childcarer you didn't learn it could also mean grandmother. Lots of words have two or three meanings, a bit embarrassing for you not to realise. Do you get confused by : bark, novel, season, crane, harbour and racket in everyday life? FYI Nanny is a perfectly understood term for a female grandparent. Pointing out the word has other meanings is a bit embarrassing for you, everyone else knows that too.

Lelliekellie · 18/12/2023 22:13

Gran, Nan, & Nanna are prob younger sounding (in my opinion).

personally I have an Ouma and I’ve always thought that was cool (im 35 now)

edited for spelling

Highlandcows · 19/12/2023 11:33

probably nanny, but my daughters called my mum ‘Taya’ because that’s how my eldest first pronounced it as a baby and it stuck.

my mum loved it, and even now my children are older and my mum has been gone a few years, it’s still what we refer to her as.

id happily be a yaya too if my children encouraged their children to one day use the same name.

Soozy58 · 19/12/2023 16:48

I’m an Oma because of my German heritage. Easy for babies to say!

Anisette · 19/12/2023 17:41

Granny, though in practice it's become Ganny since grandchild began to talk.

I never really understand why people opt for Nanny, to me that's a paid carer of small children.

IreneGoodnight · 19/12/2023 17:55

Agree with the nanny/goat association🐐 🤣

crosstalk · 19/12/2023 18:26

First name for me, please.

I think a previous poster was referring to farmor and morma as Scandinavian ways of distinguishing between paternal and maternal gps?

BluesBird19764 · 19/12/2023 20:08

My son referred to my mum as Grandyma or just Grandy. My MIL was Nay-Nay when he was small.

Ilovesmesomefriedchicken · 19/12/2023 22:21

If/when I become a grandmother, I want go be known as G unit Or G for short 😆

Daisyblue77 · 20/12/2023 20:20

I am already, im nan to to the older ones . Nanny or nanny noo noo to the younger ones. One of my eldest grandchildren called me noo noo and it stuck. I was 40 when i became a nan

Hedjwitch · 20/12/2023 20:24

I dread having grandkids. I will refuse to be called any of these things

Hedjwitch · 20/12/2023 20:28

Adult dcs refer to their grandmother as " the G- meister"

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 21/12/2023 01:46

Hedjwitch · 20/12/2023 20:24

I dread having grandkids. I will refuse to be called any of these things

You could always just ask them to call you by your full name, when they arrive (and can talk) - like Alan Sugar, when he gave his wife a Christmas card that was signed "from Alan Sugar" inside!

MrsHughesPinny · 21/12/2023 04:36

I’d be Granny. There’s something lovely and nostalgic sounding about it. I have Nans but I don’t really like that. Hopefully not any time soon though, if you please!

Imnotticketyboo · 30/05/2024 21:57

what did you go for OP?