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Please settle an argument between me and DP..... what does 'mild' mean?

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Limth · 15/11/2023 12:34

You may be preventing a fucking divorce here, so please help by answering this question -

Question: If I said "It's milder today than it was yesterday", would you take that to mean:
A: Its warmer than it was yesterday
B: Its colder than yesterday

Very many thanks!

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SoupDragon · 15/11/2023 13:05

It depends what the weather yesterday was. If it was hot, then "milder" means colder. If it was cold, then "milder" means warmer.

Olika · 15/11/2023 13:06

Ophy83 · 15/11/2023 12:58

Neither is correct as it depends on the context. Milder means gentler/more temperate weather. So if it has been cold, milder weather would be warmer. But if it has been hot, milder weather would be cooler.

Exactly

viques · 15/11/2023 13:07

Cattenberg · 15/11/2023 13:04

This.

surely if yesterday was unbearably hot but the temperature has dropped you would say cooler, not colder or milder.

Limth · 15/11/2023 13:07

viques · 15/11/2023 13:04

Warmer.

If today was not as warm as yesterday you would say it was colder,or chillier.

Exactly.... like 'cooler' is kind of opposite of milder.

Hot day yesterday, less hot today = Cooler
Cold day yesterday, less cold today = Milder

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Prettypaisleyslippers · 15/11/2023 13:08

Warmer, although I now want a curry

RampantIvy · 15/11/2023 13:08

SoupDragon · 15/11/2023 13:05

It depends what the weather yesterday was. If it was hot, then "milder" means colder. If it was cold, then "milder" means warmer.

But no-one ever says milder when it is cooler.

BertieBotts · 15/11/2023 13:09

He's defo wrong.

The literal meaning of mild/milder is like the opposte of extreme. In the context of weather, at least in Britain, the usual usage is in winter, and means it's less bloody freezing than you'd expect.

I don't know if hotter countries use it differently, though.

KatBurglar · 15/11/2023 13:09

Mild for me is definitely about "less extreme'.

It can be the same temperature but no longer blustery, no longer rainy. It can mean a bit warmer too, but mostly I'd use it to refer to atmospheric conditions rather than just temperature.

It's milder here today than the past three days, which have been exceedingly blustery.

Limth · 15/11/2023 13:09

pizzaHeart · 15/11/2023 13:03

Have you use the same words when explaining to him your view point?
If so I’m not surprised you are on the blink of divorce 🤣🤣
can both of you to be a bit milder?

I didn't start out using these kind of words to explain my viewpoint but the debate has.... well.... degenerated.

He called me a "fuck nugget" 😆

Both in UK, both British.

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TheCatterall · 15/11/2023 13:10

I’d saying it in the depths of a freezing winter - I’d say you meant it was warmer today.

if saying in the middle of a heat wave - I’d presume you meant it was cooler…

Limth · 15/11/2023 13:11

KatBurglar · 15/11/2023 13:09

Mild for me is definitely about "less extreme'.

It can be the same temperature but no longer blustery, no longer rainy. It can mean a bit warmer too, but mostly I'd use it to refer to atmospheric conditions rather than just temperature.

It's milder here today than the past three days, which have been exceedingly blustery.

It's milder here today than the past three days, which have been exceedingly blustery

Your last line sounds like a opening of a brilliant novel set in a Hampshire village in the 1930s.

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ShoesoftheWorld · 15/11/2023 13:12

Originally it was a synonym of gentle, not strict, not severe - as in 'gentle Jesus, meek and mild', or however the hymn goes. Having no history of fierce heat (until very recently) in this country, it means 'gentle' weather, where 'severe' is cold/frosty/whatever. Edit: obviously usage might change now, with climate change Sad

CompaniesHouse · 15/11/2023 13:12

In winter, I’d say it means warmer.

If we were in the middle of an extreme heatwave and you said “it’s milder today” I would assume you meant it was cooler as the heat was not so ferocious.

TheBoarRushedDownhill · 15/11/2023 13:13

Entirely depends on the context of the weather on the previous day.

PickAChew · 15/11/2023 13:13

less cold, more comfortable.

I would refer to less blustery weather as calmer.

dhworry · 15/11/2023 13:13

Milder doesn't mean warm or cold. It means less.
So -

Less cold
Less warm
Less windy
Less wet

Whatever the weather was doing yesterday its doing less of today

C1N1C · 15/11/2023 13:15

I disagree with the majority above.
I'm a man (not sure if that makes a difference for this one!)

If it's been baking outside, milder means cooler

If it's been freezing outside, milder means warmer.

Basically milder means 'less harsh'.

Sallyh87 · 15/11/2023 13:15

Warmer but maybe it depends what country you’re in.

I loved in central china a few years ago and it was scorching hot I think I would have used mild if it was less muggy and hot.

pizzaHeart · 15/11/2023 13:17

Limth · 15/11/2023 13:09

I didn't start out using these kind of words to explain my viewpoint but the debate has.... well.... degenerated.

He called me a "fuck nugget" 😆

Both in UK, both British.

well I take my smiles away, his choice of words was very offensive. It won’t be about meaning of milder for me anymore and I do tend argue heatedly.
sorry that you are experiencing this.

spookehtooth · 15/11/2023 13:17

If you're feeling brave @Limth ask him to define what a fuck nugget is and how you use it.

Depending on the answer, you might want to progress the conversation with an enquiry about how he knows so much about them, and whether he's used one before

RafaFan · 15/11/2023 13:17

At this time of year, milder would suggest the weather today was warmer than it was yesterday. However, if it was July and there was a cooler day in the middle of a heatwave, that could also be described as mild. Its literal meaning is "not severe".

Georgeburgess · 15/11/2023 13:18

Is it was very cold yesterday, it would mean it is warmer today.

If it was very hot yesterday, it would mean it is cooler today

yellowlane · 15/11/2023 13:19

In weather terms means warmer.
However thinking about it I'd say 'mild curry' which means less hot.

Aimee1983 · 15/11/2023 13:19

Absolutely definitely it's not as cold/windy/rainy as it was yesterday. In other words the intensity or whatever you're referring to has decreased.

KatBurglar · 15/11/2023 13:19

Limth · 15/11/2023 13:11

It's milder here today than the past three days, which have been exceedingly blustery

Your last line sounds like a opening of a brilliant novel set in a Hampshire village in the 1930s.

In fairness, much of my life at the moment sounds like a period piece. Not necessarily in a good way. 😉