Ah OP, don't take it personally. I have had periods when I've retired injured from MN for a few weeks after a pasting, usually on AIBU. This board is the reason I come back. I think posters were wary you were a troll. We get them a lot and we're probably hypersensitive to TERF baiting, particularly when it's a subject such as single sex toilets.
Anyway, about aggressive women - about 36/37 years ago I was on holiday in Scotland. I rented a room over a pub in Oban for a couple of nights, right by the harbour. There was an almighty punch up outside the pub on the Saturday night while I was up in my room. I peeked gingerly out through the curtains (worried about my car parked outside) and saw that it was mainly women who were fighting, swearing and screaming. So it's not a new phenomenon, although I do think that society generally has become more aggressive.