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Guess what just happened to me in a women's public toilet

198 replies

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 15:18

There post was just 2 ??

OP posts:
WomenShouldStillWinWomensSports · 09/11/2023 16:42

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 16:33

What hell has 3 women fighting in a toilet have to do with trans ?

That's what the rest of us were asking you!

viques · 09/11/2023 16:42

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 16:28

Oh I do apologise that I haven't spent the past 20 years on MN 🙄 . Sorry to spoil your afternoon .

No probs @LavaLamp7 . Now you have found this bit of the site hang around and read a few of the concerns that are being raised about what is happening to women and womens rights in the UK and the wider world. Believe me, it’s a lot more scarey than a punch up in the ladies, though that must have been horrible to watch.

The things people care about are stuff like what is happening to womens sport, workplace discrimination, the rampant abuse of women on social media, the protection of women only spaces, the clamping down on free speech relating to womens right, womens rights not to be abused or catcalled. All things that affect all women and which all women need to be aware of.

0ElectronBlue0 · 09/11/2023 16:42

Were they the new type of women? (You know the ones 🍆)

Zodfa · 09/11/2023 16:43

Hereforthebunfights · 09/11/2023 16:23

It's weird to me that people seem to think posts in this section should only be about trans stuff.

It's not only about trans stuff, but it's also not about every little incident in which a woman or women is involved. Otherwise pretty much every post on Mumsnet would go here!

I'm sure you could try to make some kind of feminism-related point about it, but OP doesn't seem to have bothered.

VeronicaSawyer89 · 09/11/2023 16:43

Pixiedust1234 · 09/11/2023 16:35

Well done @VeronicaSawyer89 . Now you've made the OP as confused as we were by her opening post. That is some achievement 😂

😂😂

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 09/11/2023 16:44

Hereforthebunfights · 09/11/2023 16:23

It's weird to me that people seem to think posts in this section should only be about trans stuff.

What else do you think should be in a sex and gender discussion topic?

Signalbox · 09/11/2023 16:44

Hereforthebunfights · 09/11/2023 16:23

It's weird to me that people seem to think posts in this section should only be about trans stuff.

I suspect the confusion isn’t so much that the OP’s op isn’t about trans stuff but more that a punch up in a toilet amongst women isn’t really a feminist issue either.

viques · 09/11/2023 16:44

0ElectronBlue0 · 09/11/2023 16:42

Were they the new type of women? (You know the ones 🍆)

Vegetarians?🤔

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 16:45

BlueEyedPeanut · 09/11/2023 16:39

Wait. What sex is your sister's little one?

What has that got to do with it ?

OP posts:
Charlize43 · 09/11/2023 16:55

A hand came up through the toilet bowl and tried to grab your frangipane?

DarkDayforMN · 09/11/2023 16:57

because it's about women (sex)

What a revealing thing to write. Men also have a sex. Animals have a sex. Why don’t you also post every little incident you observe that involves men or animals on here?

Theunamedcat · 09/11/2023 16:59

Why is everyone so fucking snitty

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:00

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 09/11/2023 16:44

What else do you think should be in a sex and gender discussion topic?

Well, opinions differ.

I think anything feminism related goes on a 'sex and gender' board, because that's what sexism is about - gender stereotypes forced on women because of their sex.

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 17:00

viques · 09/11/2023 16:42

No probs @LavaLamp7 . Now you have found this bit of the site hang around and read a few of the concerns that are being raised about what is happening to women and womens rights in the UK and the wider world. Believe me, it’s a lot more scarey than a punch up in the ladies, though that must have been horrible to watch.

The things people care about are stuff like what is happening to womens sport, workplace discrimination, the rampant abuse of women on social media, the protection of women only spaces, the clamping down on free speech relating to womens right, womens rights not to be abused or catcalled. All things that affect all women and which all women need to be aware of.

Yes it was horrible , if the comments I have received on this board are anything to go by then no I won't be hanging around .

OP posts:
ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:00

Theunamedcat · 09/11/2023 16:59

Why is everyone so fucking snitty

Because we get a LOT of people on this board here to try and wind us up/get off/troll.

And OP has a new username and made a rather strange first post.

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:01

OP your post was really confusing and nobody understood why you put it on the feminism board.

Hereforthebunfights · 09/11/2023 17:02

Girlontherailreplacementbusservice · 09/11/2023 16:44

What else do you think should be in a sex and gender discussion topic?

I feel like you don't actually understand feminism if you don't know the answer to this question.

IcakethereforeIam · 09/11/2023 17:03

OP it must have been alarming being so close to violence, particularly when it escalated and you had a child with you. The only time I've seen women fighting was when my mum took on a neighbour from across the street. I have no idea what they were fighting about. I was only little. Totally out of character for my mum.

Charlize43 · 09/11/2023 17:04

Theunamedcat · 09/11/2023 16:59

Why is everyone so fucking snitty

It's the feminist board.

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:05

Charlize43 · 09/11/2023 17:04

It's the feminist board.

Feminists are snitty?

I like it.

caringcarer · 09/11/2023 17:06

You're on the wrong thread.

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 17:06

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:01

OP your post was really confusing and nobody understood why you put it on the feminism board.

Maybe it's easier to just say that instead of ripping the shit out of someone first ? .

OP posts:
ArcaneWireless · 09/11/2023 17:09

I was hoping for them going into a cubicle and finding Narnia.

Bastard.

@RealFeminist you never disappoint 🤣

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:09

LavaLamp7 · 09/11/2023 17:06

Maybe it's easier to just say that instead of ripping the shit out of someone first ? .

Fair enough. Sorry, OP. We thought you were a troll. I hope you and your family are okay.

Pixiedust1234 · 09/11/2023 17:12

ArthurbellaScott · 09/11/2023 17:05

Feminists are snitty?

I like it.

I thought we were being snitty just because the first post was " ? " I absolutely detest those kind of first posts. Give me some words, give me a picture but don't fucking punctuate me and expect me to be kind.

And breathe.