Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

Anyone else get really excited at this time of year?

151 replies

Realisticparent · 05/10/2023 14:56

Always been the same for me since I was a little kid.

All of the autumn and Halloween stuff in the shops, the lovely knitwear coming out and the big coats. Even the Christmas stuff in the shops, and I know it's way too early but I was looking at the advent calendars today.

The weather isn't too bad yet so perfect for walking. Looking forward to our little traditions, always watch a spooky series around Halloween, the circus, carving pumpkins, then ice skating, Christmas markets. Not to mention going to a display for fireworks.

I'm not a Summer hater at all but this time of year makes me giddy with excitement.

OP posts:
OhDoSitDownAndShutUp · 06/10/2023 12:12

No, I hate it - dark early evenings, the pressure of Christmas (and being worried about a lack of money), having to wear a coat, and having to cook.

cardibach · 06/10/2023 12:13

@Realisticparent this is incomprehensible to me: Going for a walk and getting cold then coming in and warming up
Why on earth is this better than not getting cold at all? I hate the cold. It makes me feel ill. I’d much rather go for a hot walk and then cool down to a normal temp after.

Scalottia · 06/10/2023 12:18

Janieforever · 05/10/2023 21:48

I’ve genuinely never met a person who gets giddy with excitement over a season change, I’m not even sure how to respond to such a thing. I wonder how bored you must be?

Exactly this. How strange. Giddy?

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

ilovesooty · 06/10/2023 12:20

VenusClapTrap · 05/10/2023 15:01

No, it makes me feel slightly depressed. Getting colder, darker, flowers tailing off, leaves falling. Winter is on its way and it’s months till spring. I don’t like it at all.

Same here. I find it acutely depressing.

cardibach · 06/10/2023 12:29

Going out of the house turns into a major production. Take off whatever indoor fluffy socks you’ve worn (I hate socks at the best of times but am forced into them). Put on other socks. Put on shoes. Put on a coat, hat, scarf. Gloves, if they work for you - my hands feel colder with them on for some reason, and I have big hands so can’t find any to fit anyway.
In summer, by contrast, you just slip your feet into sandals and go.
Cold weather is uncomfortable and inconvenient. Darkness is depressing and makes towns and cities more dangerous.

Realisticparent · 06/10/2023 12:47

I don't actually get that cold so perhaps that's why it doesn't bother me. If I am cold then a coat and gloves is adequate. I don't think I even wore my hat last Winter.

It doesn't get cold until mid December anyway.

OP posts:
Nonplusultra · 06/10/2023 13:00

I love the autumn and spring best. The extremes of dead, dreary January and sweaty, sweltering August are very hard going.

This time of year I want to sit inside and knit and read, and just slow everything down. Or wrap up and go outside for a walk. The long commutes in the dark and rain spoil my vibe a bit. But I definitely find it invigorating because there’s active changes - I cook more soups and stews, I pull the curtains, I swop out my summer dresses and sandals for jumpers and boots.

Spring feels similar - there’s a promise of better weather, holidays on the horizon, Easter and excuses to eat chocolate. I get the urge to head out in the garden again.

Giddy describes it well - I feel a definite frisson of excitement in anticipation of change, and I’m spurred into activity to prepare. I imagine it’s probably quite ancient - this time of year you needed to get the harvest in and prepare for winter if you expect to survive. In spring you needed to get on with planting.

Nagado · 06/10/2023 13:11

RampantIvy · 06/10/2023 12:04

Every time there is a thread about liking the winter, there seems to be a horde of posters who take it as a personal affront that some people feel the same about summer as they do about winter.

@Nagado I think you have just proved my point that it depends where you live and work. I think I am about 200 miles further north than you, rural and at a higher altitude. Our winter nights are longer in the north. It is also colder and wetter in winter (and usually in summer). I drive to work and can have my car at the right temperature for me.

And I can assure you that most of the UK did not have a constant wall of heat this summer.

Just seeing the pumpkins and costumes in the shops.

I don't recall seeing this kind of stuff in the shops in the 1960s. Trick or Treating wasn't a thing either.

It is strangely warm today - cloudy, very windy with spots of drizzle, but my car registered 19 degrees.

I completely agree with your point. Where you live sounds lovely and I might even appreciate summer a little bit more if I lived there, or had air con anywhere I lived or worked. And I’m fully aware that what feels like a constant wall of heat to me might just feel like a nice sunny day to someone who appreciates it.

But I’m still happier at this time of year than in the summer.

Stroopwaffels · 06/10/2023 13:37

t doesn't get cold until mid December anyway.

In your part of the UK maybe. But the average temperature somewhere like Aberdeen is 6c in November. That is not warm.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/10/2023 13:43

Yes, I love autumn, Halloween, bonfire night, the leaves changing, the better sleep with having some darkness before bedtime, the clothing - all of it.

I don't really get pissed of with the cold, the wet and the dark until January when it becomes unbearably miserable. It must be awful for people who feel like this from now.

Desecratedcoconut · 06/10/2023 13:45

Stroopwaffels · 06/10/2023 13:37

t doesn't get cold until mid December anyway.

In your part of the UK maybe. But the average temperature somewhere like Aberdeen is 6c in November. That is not warm.

Yeah, tbf, in discussions like this you should have to declare your latitude before being allowed to make any bold claims. There's such a breadth of difference.

Somethingsnappy · 06/10/2023 15:04

Desecratedcoconut · 06/10/2023 13:45

Yeah, tbf, in discussions like this you should have to declare your latitude before being allowed to make any bold claims. There's such a breadth of difference.

So true! When I lived in Scotland, spring and summer were my favourite seasons. Now I'm much further south, autumn and winter are my favourite. I even like January and February. It's the humidity down here I dislike so much. Those lovely warm June days we had this summer, when it felt hot, but quite fresh still, were lovely. But the humidity is horrible for me. And much of the summer down here can be like that. I do try to find the good parts of summer though. I love the blooming hedgerows and wildflowers, and beach holidays.

RampantIvy · 06/10/2023 16:21

in discussions like this you should have to declare your latitude before being allowed to make any bold claims. There's such a breadth of difference.

I agree. I think a significant number of mumsnetters must live in London where they not only benefit from the latitude and altitude, but the heat island effect from living in a city.

usedtobeasizeten · 06/10/2023 16:32

I love autumn! My favourite time of year!

Butterkist8 · 06/10/2023 17:27

It's the smell of autumn that I love. It heralds coziness and warmth, not that sticky , sultriness of high summer.

As an aside, I'm agog at the sheer number of houses that have full on Halloween decorations this year. Never seen so much in previous years at this early stage. Trees and bushes festooned with 'cobwebs' , lanterns aplenty and it's almost akin to Christmas decorations!

I've lived in this neighbourhood for nigh on thirty years but have never seen so much festoonery as this year. Am I missing something?

RampantIvy · 06/10/2023 18:39

No-one round here has any Halloween decorations. The next village usually does a Halloween scarecrow trail though, but that will take place during half term.

Realisticparent · 06/10/2023 18:52

Butterkist8 · 06/10/2023 17:27

It's the smell of autumn that I love. It heralds coziness and warmth, not that sticky , sultriness of high summer.

As an aside, I'm agog at the sheer number of houses that have full on Halloween decorations this year. Never seen so much in previous years at this early stage. Trees and bushes festooned with 'cobwebs' , lanterns aplenty and it's almost akin to Christmas decorations!

I've lived in this neighbourhood for nigh on thirty years but have never seen so much festoonery as this year. Am I missing something?

I'm sure that decorating for all seasons is becoming more and more of a thing.

Shops are selling Autumn and Halloween decorations galore, it's the same at Easter. People follow current trends.

Tbh it wouldn't have occurred to me 10 years ago to de irate the house for Autumn or Halloween but I get easily sucked in. Makes everything feel so special.

OP posts:
PinkRiceKrispies · 06/10/2023 18:53

I love it but it's still like summer here so feel like it will all be over too quickly this year.

mondaytosunday · 06/10/2023 19:22

I do! My daughter is excited too! I've got a couple new Halloween decs and I checked out the pumpkins at the supermarket today. It's very very busy with trick o treaters around here.
I love the chill in the air and the leaves, though I noticed a tree that looked lovely last year looks half dead this year.
Christmas we are away, but I'll bring a cake and was wondering earlier if it's too early to buy it (sold out last year).

RampantIvy · 06/10/2023 20:13

but it's still like summer here

Where is "here"?
It was warm today, but it still feels very autumnal in Yorkshire.

PinkRiceKrispies · 06/10/2023 21:09

In London it was 21C, due higher tomorrow and Sunday/Monday. Nights still needing windows open as well.

HairHeGoesHairHeGoesAgain · 07/10/2023 12:45

LegendsBeyond · 06/10/2023 09:59

I love this time of year because there’s so much to look forward to. We’re going away in half term, then Bonfire night & all the fun Christmas activities. I prefer the cooler weather as well.

Absolutely this! I love it! I love the planning and preparation! The darker nights and looking forward to all the fun.

It's the same as being excited for summer holidays and planning and booking for those, or new years parties, or birthdays. It's nice to have something to look forward to and take my mind off other things.

Vettrianofan · 07/10/2023 13:29

I love it. Pissing it down outside, but making shepherds pie, cup of tea ☕ relax and be cosy on the couch.

No need to be outside in that horrendous weather.

Whalewatchers · 07/10/2023 13:32

I'm not feeling it tbh. It's pitch black by 8pm and that'll be 7pm in 3 weeks. I'm also dreading having to put the heating on and the big bills 😞💸

minuette1 · 09/10/2023 08:58

I do love autumn the most out of all the seasons, followed by winter then summer. I find Spring quite insipid and depressing personally, but as this thread proves everyone likes different things.

Autumn clothes suit me better, I like that it is dark in the morning and evenings, but I do understand that is coming from a place of privilege - I work from home mostly, and DH does the morning school run. Also we are in the south-east so no real extremes of weather. I work in academia, so autumn is always the start of a new year and I love the feeling that brings. Even pre-children I was a fan of Halloween, and the period between Halloween and Christmas is so busy in a good way with lots of events and social things going on.