Sophie Turner and Joe Jonas divorce narrative

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Just watching this unfold over the last few days starting with they were filing for divorce which happens to a lot of people, but noticed the narrative is moving towards how Joe has been looking after their children all summer, he tried to save the marriage and it's down to her partying and painting things quite negatively for Sophie Turner.

Obviously I have no idea what's going on with either side but does look like she's being portrayed as the villain here and him the good guy , I know this is probably a lot to do press spin on things. She's been working away in UK and it would be quite normal for him to 'parent' their children while she's away ( (and hardly qualifies for father of the year, just their father.)

Married at 23 and 30 is a big gap, especially for her to be pregnant quickly.

Would he also be more experienced in the celebrity lifestyle than her?

I won't be following any links, I hope she has good people and good advice.

All of this.

it seems so calculated to make him seem like a hero. Filing while she’s working abroad seems so gross and unnecessary.

ive been reading it in the papers and really hoping people see through the PR spin and positioning so I’m glad to read this thread.

somewhat immature, i know. But 100% #TeamTurner in this

They’ve both released an identical statement on Instagram.

It seems as though he's trying to get ahead of a story.

Keep an eye on her bestie Maisie Williams. Suspect if sh1t needs to be said, she will - she has always had Sophie’s back

Agree something has happened and Joe is trying to get ahead of it but failing miserably. This is the wrong year (post barbie) to push that narrative.

Imagine being 27, rich and stunningly beautiful and being told that you 'go out too much'

https://www.vogue.com/article/sophie-turner-party-mom

Love this ❤️

Giving up on a marriage after only 4 years, unless there is a severe/abuse issue, seems very flighty.

You are 1000% right OP. Jeez. Why is a man spending time with his children a thing to report on?! It's twisted.

He seems so self obsessed. He PR tesm have gone into over drive and bad mouthing the mother of his 2 children.

They should never have married...they did that strange elopement in Vegas before there big planned wedding...

She better off with out him and his strange ways.

There’s now a story he has sh## on her after spying on her on a Ring door cam… I think he’s blackmailing her into silence while he spews his narrative out

What possible reason could there be for releasing a story like that apart from trying to make her look as bad as possible. It's not working on me, I see it as incredibly manipulative and he's probably trying to set himself up to get custody in the US, avoid paying her maintenance and put the boot in as a parting shot.

Most of the Jonas brothers are sus, I wouldn't trust one as far as they could throw me.

He first met her when she was 13, not that 7 years is a lot but I can't imagine me being 20, meeting someone at 13 and then years later wanting to get with them. Also see his past with Gigi Hadid so said he asked her out when she was 13 and he was 19 at the time.

Anyway, my take is this: she's played mum and dedicated herself to her husband and children for years but while he's had a return to his music, she's craved a return to acting and taken a role despite his views against it, especially because she's abroad. She's dared to live a life for a woman of her age, have nights out where she's wanted to. I doubt Joe has sat in his room and not gone anywhere at all after shows so why the double standard? Even if she did have a few messy nights, it's ok to party as a parent as long as it's not every week.

His team seems to be tearing her down. First the playing games with his ring off and on, then the divorce statement, now saying there's ring camera footage of her saying or doing something (well which is it, other than to get tongues wagging?!) and right now he's been posted on TMZ, he's taken the kids out and playing Disney Dad. I also think if she does not want them in the media, it's a big finger up to her to take them out and allow himself and kids to be papped.

She's away from her kids and it seems like she might have been a blindsided (mainly because he apparently went to 2 divorce lawyers in LA messing around and somehow it was leaked to the media but filed in Florida and that seems like he was using the media to threaten her).

This whole slander campaign seems very one sided and I can't help but think about how his mum was with the first daughter in law.

I really hope she gets the best out of this divorce for her, and a bloody good lawyer. Also that she can surround herself with people who are supportive. It seems clear that this is a hate campaign against her and she's dealt with it with grace so far. No matter what she may or may not have done, she's getting dragged through the mud and this stuff deserves privacy because someone who cared about their children and being amicable does not do what this slander campaign does.

I was just thinking the same, reading it.
His “people” are working overtime on this!

Could it be a drive to run up publicity for the both of them, the whole getting a divorce, then they suddenly try to rekindle etc these days with celebrities you can never truly be sure what the motivation is

Him looking after the kids, as well… Boo hoo!

Reminds me of when of when Orlando Bloom said he wasn’t getting enough sex, not long after Katy Perry had their baby.

I know absolutely nothing about Joe Jonas but photos of him give me the creeps. Very weird eyes. Looks like a pompous little man.

How did they arrange their "iron clad pre-nup" if they had a spontaneous wedding in Vegas?

I think they had an actual wedding planned but then eloped to Vegas a few weeks before instead

I was thinking this was flighty - but it’s probably to do with the pre-nup. There might be different financial penalties after 5 years, 10 years etc. He’s got his eyes on his money over anything else.

What got me about the story is how the Dad is complaining that he has to look after the kids whilst he's on tour.

As if there's no childcare involved here too.

Guy is on stage in evening - he won't be doing bedtime routine. Someone else is doing that. Of course that never gets mentioned in these stories.

In between doing interviews (where someone else will be doing the childcare) during the day he'll be on a tour bus for a significant amount of the day. There's a lot of sitting around not doing very much during tours despite the promotion schedule.

What it sounds like to me is he's pissed off that he has to go back to the kids after performing and can't party himself. And he's pissed off that he's got to look after the kids on the tour bus etc.

It strikes me, she was doing all the parenting. Got pissed off, got a job and said right your turn whilst I try and rebuild my career. I note he wanted another kid as he's such a family man but she refused. And he's thrown a massive hissy fit at the prospect of having to actually parent. Strikes me that he saw her as his baby making machine and she was supposed to be the 'present' parent cos his career was the important one. So now is trying to play the woe is me card over it all and her saying 'actually I want to work too'.

Family men don't winge at having to take their kids on tour.

I have nfi who either of them are. I just saw the story about man getting pissy about having to parent his own kids and thought how pathetic it is, especially since there will be an army of nannies looking after the kids whilst he's performing.

So what, mum isn't there for some reason. Reasons for this may or may not be fair. It's the pissed off at parenting bit that gets me though - it's gross to make that public in that way, when doing a normal everyday thing, when he's super rich and got oodles of support. He's not a hard done by single parent who has been abandoned by any stretch of the imagination.

He wants to be a family man without having to do the family bit. And that is the take home for me.

I think her silence is golden here. He’s coming across really badly with all the leaks coming across in what seems to clearly be a smear campaign her.

I’ve seen photos on Twitter of him out with his kids today after years of them never being photographed. He’s really pushing this good dad / terrible mum narrative and using their children as collateral.

He's completely fake.

Hope Sophie has her friends and family around her, because this divorce is getting nasty.