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U.K. birthrate hits 20 year low

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SunshineHello · 18/08/2023 11:32

“Since 2011, the number of babies born has been on an almost constant downward trend, falling each year from 2011 to 2020 before a small rise in 2021 as pandemic restrictions were eased. The latest figures show another “considerable” decline last year, from 624,828 births to 605,479.”

This take the TFR to the lowest rate on record for the U.K. - 1.5

I wonder how much the birth rate will drop before it levels out.

The cost of housing and childcare are a major factor among my peers.

I currently have one in nursery and if I had two it would be ~ £4,000 pcm. That’s a £75,000 salary. To make a decision to do that is… complex.

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FussyPud · 18/08/2023 14:55

My eldest is 20. She has no plans to reproduce at all, and I support that.

Sourcherriesarebest · 18/08/2023 14:59

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe thank you for your nice words, and also I quite fantasise about being a lying witch in the wardrobe, I bet she has a nice life!

Sourcherriesarebest · 18/08/2023 15:01

RhubarbandCustardYummyYummy · 18/08/2023 14:01

@Sourcherriesarebest that post actually made me cry as so much rang true to my experience and I realised just how fucked up the UK is for mums now

I'm so sorry to hear that rhubarb. I think it's incredibly common.

Also, you are right, rhubarb and custard is delicious.

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illiterato · 18/08/2023 15:05

thecatsthecats · 18/08/2023 14:49

To be fair, most people have grossly incorrect understanding of typical life conditions in the past, so I wouldn't base anything on what "most people" think.

I'm having my first, but I currently doubt I'll have a second.

Maternity care is pants. We can give better resources to the first if he's an only. I certainly doubt I'll fancy doing it all again for a iffy set of circumstances.

Ok, so when would you pick?

Clefable · 18/08/2023 16:13

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Because talk is incredibly cheap when you never have to back it up. Time and time again on here people say they 'wouldn't have kids if they were doing it now', secure in the fact they've already got kids and it's a not a decision they ever have to make or prove in any way. It's meaningless.

ThePaperTrail · 18/08/2023 16:25

Clefable · 18/08/2023 16:13

@LyingWitchInTheWardrobe Because talk is incredibly cheap when you never have to back it up. Time and time again on here people say they 'wouldn't have kids if they were doing it now', secure in the fact they've already got kids and it's a not a decision they ever have to make or prove in any way. It's meaningless.

I agree.

Hollyppp · 18/08/2023 16:44

YaWeeFurryBastard · 18/08/2023 13:20

Oh come off it! There was a global financial crisis in 2008 and terror attacks going on left right and centre at the time you had your children, it was hardly a golden utopia. Stop being so sanctimonious, you acted selfishly to have your children just like everybody else who fulfils their biological urge.

100% agree!! Her firstborn was just after 9/11!!

BerriesandLeaves · 18/08/2023 16:51

I think people are taking this a bit personally. People who say THEY might be much more reticent to have kids now are not saying NO ONE ELSE should make a different choice FFS. People are allowed to express an opinion about themselves. Let's face it we'll be fucked when we're elderly if no one has kids now.

asterdaisy · 18/08/2023 17:18

It's not sticking at two that is the issue. It's the vast increase in people having no children.

justsayingthat · 18/08/2023 17:20

peelyjuice · 18/08/2023 13:27

There's already an issue in London primaries with some boroughs seeing falling rolls. The problem is funding model is based on headcounts.

"London’s birth rate dropped 17 per cent between 2012 and 2021, equivalent to 23,225 fewer children. Almost 15 per cent of school places in the city are now unfilled. "

This is due to the fact that it is too expensive for many people to raise a young family in London now. It is common for young singles/ couples to live in London, before moving further out when it's time to start a family. It is unaffordable for most to afford a family size home in the city.

FreeWillyWale · 18/08/2023 17:23

Demographics is destiny. Good luck to the future inheritors of Britain, whoever you may be. Try not to squabble too much 😉

ChristmasGiftWrapOhNo · 18/08/2023 17:27

Well looks like we'll import people from outside of Europe who we'll pay slave wages as they look after the dying native population. Europe has given up on itself it seems. I'm starting to wonder if we'll become a poverty stricken, pointless version of USA. An airport.

Limencellovioloncello · 18/08/2023 17:59

Western Europe, particularly England, is undergoing a decline of unprecedented proportions. This is evidenced by a reduction in innovation, productivity, IQ, birth rates, social cohesion, and economic stability. Poland is set to surpass us in terms of economic growth. One could argue that the cost of housing, cost of childcare, income inequality, inflation, lockdowns, open borders, BREXIT, the introduction of birth control, porn, phones, the loss of religion, access to abortion and modern feminism has contributed to this decline. Despite blaming the aforementioned factors, the reality is that we are still experiencing this decline. Many middle class Europeans have simply opted out because they fancy it. Poverty stricken Victorians didn't blame poor housing or lack of childcare. The middle class will gradually transition into the working class, and the migrants we bring into Europe tend to be male, which is not without its own set of issues, see image. What will become of Britain if conscientious, liberal university types continue to opt out of reproducing, as they are? Who will carry the torch for the climate change activists if they leave the earth child free and those who don't believe in climate change continue to have children? I'm a bit worried, bros.

U.K. birthrate hits 20 year low
U.K. birthrate hits 20 year low
AdamRyan · 18/08/2023 18:07

Poverty stricken Victorians didn't blame poor housing or lack of childcare.
Goodness.
I suggest you read the below to get a view of poverty stricken victorian women https://www.amazon.co.uk/Five-Untold-Lives-Killed-Ripper/dp/0857524488?ref=d6k_applink_bb_dls&dplnkId=24ada18e-2988-440f-b889-2dcb2bca2591

They didn't have effective contraception, women and children were the property of their husbands, they had very little control over their lives. Who knows what they blamed for their plight?

upsidedownandturnaround · 18/08/2023 18:08

TheThingIsYeah · 18/08/2023 12:09

Brexit schmexit, here we go again.

And Climate change? Meh. It's another grey, miserable day here in the kingdom of Essex so I'll worry about that another time.

I AM troubled by the OP saying childcare for 2 kids costs £4k pm. That's utterly insane. How do people who have twins cope with that financial bombshell?

We don't! We're forced out of the workplace and nobody gives a s**t about it

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 18/08/2023 18:11

AdamRyan · 18/08/2023 18:07

Poverty stricken Victorians didn't blame poor housing or lack of childcare.
Goodness.
I suggest you read the below to get a view of poverty stricken victorian women https://www.amazon.co.uk/Five-Untold-Lives-Killed-Ripper/dp/0857524488?ref=d6k_applink_bb_dls&dplnkId=24ada18e-2988-440f-b889-2dcb2bca2591

They didn't have effective contraception, women and children were the property of their husbands, they had very little control over their lives. Who knows what they blamed for their plight?

Nothing wrong with the workhouse. It served its purposeConfused

xogossipgirlxo · 18/08/2023 18:14

I never wanted more than one. Now I have my son, I am feeling content and not longing for any more children.

FourTeaFallOut · 18/08/2023 18:15

Never been called a bro before, so that's new.

Louise Perry has had a lot to says about the demographic shifts we might expect given the marked differences between those opting in and out of parenthood. So, those who are religious are more likely to have more children that those who are, say, socially liberal ... Not that those two are mutually exclusive. But the effect of these differences now may be shape voting habits and policy making in the future which, as you say, don't align with current ideas.

peelyjuice · 18/08/2023 18:16

@justsayingthat except it's also happening nationally..

LuckyPeonies · 18/08/2023 18:17

Feverly · 18/08/2023 11:54

Overpopulation, soil degradation, climate catastrophe, upcoming hellish decades with food and water shortages, climate refugees, being alive not being affordable, working till you're 70+, etc. I'd hope most people are thinking whether it's a good idea to have a kid.

This!! Forcing kids into that situation is cruelty.

heathspeedwell · 18/08/2023 18:19

I don't think it's a huge conspiracy. Lots of people are realising that you can be blissfully happy without ever having children.

FourTeaFallOut · 18/08/2023 18:36

heathspeedwell · 18/08/2023 18:19

I don't think it's a huge conspiracy. Lots of people are realising that you can be blissfully happy without ever having children.

I imagine people who are blissfully happy without children probably weren't that fussed about having them in the first place. On a thread in which people have laid out their own barriers, maternity care, workplace discrimination, housing prices, cost of living... it's clear that smaller family sizes aren't simply down to lack of desire.

Noicant · 18/08/2023 18:37

I think a lot of people are understandably opting out of having kids. It’s hard work, expensive and time consuming. I have one, money isn’t really a consideration but we do spend a lot on her. We have no family support (they are lovely just very far way) and tbh she takes so much time and energy that I simply can’t face having another one as much as I love the one I have.

I do know a few women who would have liked to have kids but never met anyone suitable.

lljkk · 18/08/2023 18:52

<cough> <cough>
All this doom-mongering is vaguely amusing, though. Carry on.

U.K. birthrate hits 20 year low
U.K. birthrate hits 20 year low
FourTeaFallOut · 18/08/2023 18:58

I don't know if I'm just being particularly dim here, but how do those graphs relate to the consequences of a declining total fertility rate?