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My dh hasn’t paid the rent ffs

836 replies

RentNotPaid · 10/08/2023 09:33

Soo I’ve just had a call from our letting agent went to voicemail as I was on a call and my fucking husband hasn’t paid the rent for the last 2 months….

The bastard is at work and his phone has been switched off

I don’t have the money to pay it all - I did wonder why he had some extra money

We have separate accounts he pays rent etc I pay other bills it all works out fair

I am so bloody angry I daren’t phone the letting agent back and I’m off to check his emails 😡😡😡

OP posts:
OssieShowman · 12/08/2023 12:48

BlastedIce. Foraging for mushrooms. End all the problems.

Bodynegative · 12/08/2023 12:49

I wish she would update. I'm finding myself worrying about her. Unfortunately my first thought, when I saw his age and amount unpaid, was that he had planned to decamp possibly with another woman.

Oysterbabe · 12/08/2023 12:49

If OP returns and all is well, can I repost my poem? I was pleased with that 😄

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MrsSlocombesCat · 12/08/2023 12:50

We would really appreciate an update OP 🤷🏼‍♀️

bradly2000 · 12/08/2023 13:24

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Blueink · 12/08/2023 13:36

They are both now living happily ever after in a Teams virtual reality

PeachyPeachTrees · 12/08/2023 13:37

What did DH say?

Sooze2023 · 12/08/2023 13:46

I'm thinking it's to do with the hospital stays
Maybe he used the money to pay for private treatment and she feels bad after her post. I hope not. I really hope it was a mistake of sorts.

oakleaffy · 12/08/2023 13:47

Bodynegative · 12/08/2023 12:49

I wish she would update. I'm finding myself worrying about her. Unfortunately my first thought, when I saw his age and amount unpaid, was that he had planned to decamp possibly with another woman.

I'm doubting the veracity of the thread now.

Yet another 'Intense' thread I was following has been deleted as a 'Made up' post- It's like walking on quicksand here- one doesn't know if a post is genuine or not- OP leaves the thread, and if a post was genuine, surely they'd come back to say ''All's well'' or whatever.

BlastedIce · 12/08/2023 13:48

PeachyPeachTrees · 12/08/2023 13:37

What did DH say?

He couldn’t speak with his mouth full, he was eating the mushroom stroganoff OP made for him…

WalnutBlue · 12/08/2023 13:56

PeachyPeachTrees · 12/08/2023 13:37

What did DH say?

The bastard still hasn't called her.

mumofteenss · 12/08/2023 13:57

BlastedIce · 12/08/2023 13:48

He couldn’t speak with his mouth full, he was eating the mushroom stroganoff OP made for him…

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That made me LOL with a mouth full of coffee

M4J4 · 12/08/2023 14:07

Oysterbabe · 12/08/2023 12:49

If OP returns and all is well, can I repost my poem? I was pleased with that 😄

Post it now, doubt she’ll be back.

NoraBattysCurlers · 12/08/2023 14:11

ChristmasCrumpet · 12/08/2023 08:13

First time was when he didn't pay the council tax.

The second when he'd missed a payment to Vodafone.

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Brilliant!

Hufflepods · 12/08/2023 14:11

The OP just couldn’t think of a good enough ending.

Fishmongers · 12/08/2023 14:19

Hopefully sorted asap

Fluffmum · 12/08/2023 14:30

I had one of these 28 years ago. No rent paid or nursery. Got rid

Proudgypsy · 12/08/2023 14:34

Jesus Christ. 20 actual pages later and people are still asking the same question on repeat.

CoffeeLover90 · 12/08/2023 14:39

Did the bastard call though?

goldensquaresofjoy · 12/08/2023 14:43

Proudgypsy · 12/08/2023 14:34

Jesus Christ. 20 actual pages later and people are still asking the same question on repeat.

I think something bad must have happened

Augustus40 · 12/08/2023 14:52

I am pretty certain we will never know.

SurreyPsych · 12/08/2023 14:55

I read all of these comments to be left wondering what happened. I’ll never get that time back…. :)

Lilyflowerinthepond · 12/08/2023 15:03

Or perhaps the OP is sitting with a bag a popcorn 🍿 scrolling through the thread

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 12/08/2023 15:04

SurreyPsych · 12/08/2023 14:55

I read all of these comments to be left wondering what happened. I’ll never get that time back…. :)

This is why you click "read all" on the OPs post and see if they've ever come back, before investing the time.

Ln a 29 page thread if the OPs only posted once or twice, I'm not reading it!

SurreyPsych · 12/08/2023 15:18

@BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz wow! Thanks for the tip :)