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My dh hasn’t paid the rent ffs

836 replies

RentNotPaid · 10/08/2023 09:33

Soo I’ve just had a call from our letting agent went to voicemail as I was on a call and my fucking husband hasn’t paid the rent for the last 2 months….

The bastard is at work and his phone has been switched off

I don’t have the money to pay it all - I did wonder why he had some extra money

We have separate accounts he pays rent etc I pay other bills it all works out fair

I am so bloody angry I daren’t phone the letting agent back and I’m off to check his emails 😡😡😡

OP posts:
thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:29

ChristmasCrumpet · 10/08/2023 13:28

Many many OP updates and now she's been gone for over an hour.

Do you think he's spent it on a monkey butler and she's offed him?

I'm not going to Google what a 'monkey butler' is

CherryMojito · 10/08/2023 13:29

I'm a former landlord.

I would be happy receiving the £1000 today plus a plan to pay the remaining outstanding amount.

It's true about the section 8 but most landlords don't want to do this unless really pushed.

Clefable · 10/08/2023 13:30

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:29

I'm not going to Google what a 'monkey butler' is

It's a butler who is a monkey. Wears a little hat and uniform.

Interested in this thread?

Then you might like threads about this subject:

JauntyJinty · 10/08/2023 13:30

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:29

I'm not going to Google what a 'monkey butler' is

This is one of thise rare times where it's not a weird sex thing!

Zonder · 10/08/2023 13:31

It would be so mean of your landlord not to take into account that you're trying to sort it.

Kazzyhoward · 10/08/2023 13:31

I'd be more worried about a potentially bad reference for the next rental property when it's time to move. Demand is so high these days in popular locations, that landlords are almost wanting a kidney or your first born child, so if they have a choice between a potential tenant with an excellent reference or a potential tenant where the reference has mentioned missed payments, the landlord may well chose the former, leaving the OP finding it harder to get the next rental.

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

PickledPurplePickle · 10/08/2023 13:36

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

😆

Busubaba · 10/08/2023 13:37

Update - ops husband forgot to take the rent money out of the Victorian safe to pay the letting agent.

ChoresSuck · 10/08/2023 13:38

When I was a landlord I called within 2 days of the rent being late. An oversight that was rectified immediately. Who relies on emails for 2 months

Busubaba · 10/08/2023 13:38

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

Armed with a pitchfork? Grin

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:38

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

🙄

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:38

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:38

🙄

??

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:40

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:38

??

??

you think going to his work when he’s too busy to answer his phone and demanding to see him, making a huge scene is a good idea!

get a grip!

OsirisservesAnubis · 10/08/2023 13:40

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 10/08/2023 13:12

That first sentence is a threat.

No it isn't! It's advising OP of the landlords legal position.

Corrag · 10/08/2023 13:41

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

Don't be ridiculous. The man is working, leave him be. This can wait.

AccountantMum · 10/08/2023 13:41

l would let your landlord/letting agent know that your husband is at work and you need to wait for him to come home to confirm what has happened and resolve it and you will call them in the morning and get up to date asap.

Then stop calling the receptionist at your husbands work and wait for him to call or come home, I don't expect you will be evicted before he get's home and you speak to him to find out what has happened, maybe he has the money and it is easily resolved.

Also sounds like he's generally good to you and your family and this may be a mistake so would give him the benefit of the doubt before you manage to speak to him and find out what has happened.

ChristmasCrumpet · 10/08/2023 13:41

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:29

I'm not going to Google what a 'monkey butler' is

It's a butler. That's a monkey. With a twee outfit.

I guess some of us are old enough to have seen that particular Simpson's episode as a child, and some are not as elderly Grin

ChristmasCrumpet · 10/08/2023 13:41

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:29

I'm not going to Google what a 'monkey butler' is

It's a butler. That's a monkey. With a twee outfit.

I guess some of us are old enough to have seen that particular Simpson's episode as a child, and some are not as elderly Grin

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:41

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:40

??

you think going to his work when he’s too busy to answer his phone and demanding to see him, making a huge scene is a good idea!

get a grip!

Didn’t say anything about “demanding to see him and making a huge scene,” that’s your brain filling in the blanks of what you would do! 😂

ChristmasCrumpet · 10/08/2023 13:42

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:34

Can you go to his work?

And startle the monkey butler?

Not on my watch.

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:43

Gaby5 · 10/08/2023 13:41

Didn’t say anything about “demanding to see him and making a huge scene,” that’s your brain filling in the blanks of what you would do! 😂

I think your idea is totally laughable as do other PPs, with laughing emojis and ideas of taking pitchforks 😂!

so when you arrived at his work and they said he is in a meeting as they’ve said alread when she’s called reception, what then? 🤔

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:43

ChristmasCrumpet · 10/08/2023 13:41

It's a butler. That's a monkey. With a twee outfit.

I guess some of us are old enough to have seen that particular Simpson's episode as a child, and some are not as elderly Grin

Thanks all. I'm a bit disappointed tbh. I was hoping it was a weird sex thing.

Motnight · 10/08/2023 13:44

ChocolateCinderToffee · 10/08/2023 13:24

What the OP has had is a standard email FFS. No landlord will get rid of a good tenant willingly. Honestly some of you are like fucking sharks, feeding on the drama you’re creating yourselves because you have nothing better to do.

To be fair at the moment they aren't good tenants. They owe rent.

thedancingbear · 10/08/2023 13:44

BlastedIce · 10/08/2023 13:43

I think your idea is totally laughable as do other PPs, with laughing emojis and ideas of taking pitchforks 😂!

so when you arrived at his work and they said he is in a meeting as they’ve said alread when she’s called reception, what then? 🤔

That's what the pitchfork's for.

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