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Social worker my medical history

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 20:34

So my family have a social worker as we reached out for help. Anyway social worker looked at My medical back ground and she bought up that I was diagnosed with assertive personality in 1995. I never even knew I was diagnosed with that first i have ever heard. I was only 18 then. Is it even relivent after all that time. ? Is it odd to dig that far back?

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 21:47

Jellyx · 25/07/2023 21:42

Social work aren't a paid for service - you can't get a new one.

Can ask for new one. But its not as simple as that . I think there has to be a really good reason. Definitely not for stuff like this though

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 21:51

Porageeater · 25/07/2023 21:37

Not knowing your situation OP it’s difficult to say whether this is relevant to it. There will be situations where understanding someone’s medical history is relevant to what support they may currently need. At least she is being up front with you that she has seen this. It’s shit that no one told you before.

It is a bit odd somone knew something before I did. Took me 28 years to know 😅. But its not even realivent today.

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MrsMarieMopps · 25/07/2023 21:54

@nocoolnamesleft we don't use DCM in this country, we use ICD-10

Polik · 25/07/2023 21:56

If your children have lived with domestic violence and parental substsnce misuse, SW might be considering parental mental health because the three together are known as the Toxic Trio - which some consider increase the risk of harm to children.

Stompythedinosaur · 25/07/2023 21:56

In case it is helpful to know, op, the "affective" in affective personality disorder just means "relating to emotions" in this context. So, a lifelong tendancy to emotional difficulties.

If sounds like they have accessed a GP summary. They can't poke through all your records though.

Definitely worth a discussion with your GP about whether this is accurate and ask for it to be corrected if they don't think it is right.

DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 22:00

@Shouldichangename what's the reason for social services being involved?

I get it's upsetting but it's absolutely normal procedure for information to be requested from any professionals involved with your family as part of an assessment. Schools, health visitor, police, mental health services and anyone else relevant.

hev126 · 25/07/2023 22:00

Does it say affective or assertive?

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:02

Polik · 25/07/2023 21:56

If your children have lived with domestic violence and parental substsnce misuse, SW might be considering parental mental health because the three together are known as the Toxic Trio - which some consider increase the risk of harm to children.

No

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:10

Stompythedinosaur · 25/07/2023 21:56

In case it is helpful to know, op, the "affective" in affective personality disorder just means "relating to emotions" in this context. So, a lifelong tendancy to emotional difficulties.

If sounds like they have accessed a GP summary. They can't poke through all your records though.

Definitely worth a discussion with your GP about whether this is accurate and ask for it to be corrected if they don't think it is right.

I know around the age of 16-18 I did have some issues and did not manage emotions very well. But its not Been an issue for at least 26/27 years. I will definitely talk to gp

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:10

hev126 · 25/07/2023 22:00

Does it say affective or assertive?

Says affective

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Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:15

DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 22:00

@Shouldichangename what's the reason for social services being involved?

I get it's upsetting but it's absolutely normal procedure for information to be requested from any professionals involved with your family as part of an assessment. Schools, health visitor, police, mental health services and anyone else relevant.

I know its all normal. It's mlt a massive problem. But it did throw me that they looker up as far back as 1993/1995.

It's to do with domestic violence from my son. And we reached out for help . I gave spoken about ot on here. But I name changed. And did not say in my op because I just wanted my actual question answered without complication.

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Polik · 25/07/2023 22:30

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DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 22:31

@Shouldichangename social services can't access your NHS records directly. They don't use the same systems and can't have free access.
They would have asked your GP for information about your physical and mental health and any concerns they have.
The GP obviously felt this was relevant to invoice.

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:32

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Well that's totally wrong

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carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:42

DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 22:31

@Shouldichangename social services can't access your NHS records directly. They don't use the same systems and can't have free access.
They would have asked your GP for information about your physical and mental health and any concerns they have.
The GP obviously felt this was relevant to invoice.

I'm a social services OT and we have The Great North Care Record in the north east where we can see certain information from NHS and vice versa.

OP the social worker won't necessarily have been rooting around that far back, our system shows a list of diagnoses and the dates of them so I imagine it's just like that.

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 22:48

carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:42

I'm a social services OT and we have The Great North Care Record in the north east where we can see certain information from NHS and vice versa.

OP the social worker won't necessarily have been rooting around that far back, our system shows a list of diagnoses and the dates of them so I imagine it's just like that.

Seems very odd that sw mentioned 1993 and 1995 to me that's rooting. I do think she should have spoken tk me before putting it on the report . My son and daughter had access to that report. Its a small thing but it should still be confidential.

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DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 22:53

@carleyemma91 that's interesting thanks.

carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:54

@Shouldichangename that's fair enough if that's how you feel, if you've got a short medical history (or the GP still has it logged as an ongoing issue with no end date) then it'll likely be all on one page with no scrolling required.

I'm certainly not trying to minimise your feelings on this, just trying to shed a bit of light as to how that information might have been viewed by the social worker.

carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:55

carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:54

@Shouldichangename that's fair enough if that's how you feel, if you've got a short medical history (or the GP still has it logged as an ongoing issue with no end date) then it'll likely be all on one page with no scrolling required.

I'm certainly not trying to minimise your feelings on this, just trying to shed a bit of light as to how that information might have been viewed by the social worker.

Sorry about the random italics, obviously phone has gone a bit daft.

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 23:00

carleyemma91 · 25/07/2023 22:54

@Shouldichangename that's fair enough if that's how you feel, if you've got a short medical history (or the GP still has it logged as an ongoing issue with no end date) then it'll likely be all on one page with no scrolling required.

I'm certainly not trying to minimise your feelings on this, just trying to shed a bit of light as to how that information might have been viewed by the social worker.

No it's fine 🙂. I have not been to the gp in many years

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WeetabixTowels · 25/07/2023 23:30

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 21:25

They can. To be honest though I thought it was just for my kids not me.

And no definitely not misheard/misunderstood.

She showed me the print out . It says my gp surgery and says xxx had a diagnosis of assertive personality disorder

No one can access your medical records without your signed consent

WeetabixTowels · 25/07/2023 23:31

DiscoDeborah · 25/07/2023 21:27

Social workers can request health information from a GP in certain circumstances.

They still need the consent of the patient, unless it’s extenuating circumstances and they have a court order

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 23:32

WeetabixTowels · 25/07/2023 23:30

No one can access your medical records without your signed consent

It could have been that I thought i was just signing for the kids . But maybe it was me to .

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WeetabixTowels · 25/07/2023 23:33

Could it have been in your pregnancy records OP? I believe they can request those from the HV as they aren’t medical records in the literal sense

Shouldichangename · 25/07/2023 23:37

WeetabixTowels · 25/07/2023 23:33

Could it have been in your pregnancy records OP? I believe they can request those from the HV as they aren’t medical records in the literal sense

No had nothing like that in pregnancy records . I was not pregnant in 1995

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