Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Chat

Join the discussion and chat with other Mumsnetters about everyday life, relationships and parenting.

This is ridiculous

105 replies

PurpleO · 14/07/2023 20:22

I'm currently on my period and I fucking hate it because of everyone and everything else.

I got up this morning and hmgot ready. It is now 8.15pm at night and I am still wearing the same sanitary pad that I put on this morning. I never once got a chance to change it. But this is always happening. Every single monthly period that I get. I am just not allowed 5 minutes to myself in the middle of the day. It's written in my contract and it's written down that I am allowed breaks and but the manager is a bully. I can go into work in the morning and I would often be required to work late without any notice and it might be 9 or 10 at night by the time I am home and I get a chance to chance the pad. Thats just insane.

I wasn't working today but I was caught for babysitting and then the parents couldn't be bothered coming home when they said they will be home. Then the same thing all day. Just crying out to get 5 minutes to myself. Then I made it home and I was dumped straight into the childcare at home and everything else. I finally found time at 8.15 and there was someone in the one and only bathroom. And at that stage I had to bully to get into to bathroom.

If I was a man I woupd be allowed a break but no, that's not allowed because I'm only just a woman. It feels as if I need to bully people for something basic as toileting and a change of sanitary pad.

Tampons don't fit me any more and I tried so hard with a cup but it just wouldn't work for me.

OP posts:
Billyhero · 17/07/2023 12:37

This reply has been deleted

This has been deleted by MNHQ for breaking our Talk Guidelines.

OldChinaJug · 17/07/2023 12:53

PriamFarrl · 15/07/2023 16:11

Are there other women in your work place you can get together with about this? You can’t be the only one suffering.

I strongly suspect that her colleagues don't have the same issue.

HeadacheEarthquake · 17/07/2023 13:13

I call BS

Stompythedinosaur · 17/07/2023 13:25

Surely having one sanctuary towel for the whole day means you'd be leaking?

Unless the toilets are getting locked or something, I don't understand why you aren't just going? And if you are babysitting, I don't see how that stops you using the loo?

PriamFarrl · 17/07/2023 16:46

OldChinaJug · 17/07/2023 12:53

I strongly suspect that her colleagues don't have the same issue.

I suspect the word ‘other’ wasn’t required in my first comment there.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread