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Major incident in Nottingham

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Childcare47 · 13/06/2023 09:21

Anyone local know what’s going on?

Looks like a huge response.

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Fallenties · 14/06/2023 10:18

CatMattress · 14/06/2023 10:16

This is what I was coming here to say. I think it's a reflection of the lack of support and care given to people with mental health issues in this country. I've been personally touched by the impact of MH, I am fortunate to have been able to scrape together resources to fund private care for the person affected, but very few people are. As a society we need to be more proactive and preventative with all of our healthcare to protect our whole society.
A healthy society is a productive society, taking care of everybody properly benefits everybody in our society and our country as a whole. The situation in Nottingham is a graphic, visceral representation of how, when we don't care for individuals in crisis, the ripple effect can be huge and devastating.

Many will still blame it on black people and immigrants whatever the underlying cause was sadly.

Efacsen · 14/06/2023 11:06

The third victim has been named as Ian Coates a school caretaker in his 60s

Quveas · 14/06/2023 11:58

It's also unbelievable how the media seem to have approached the victim's families. I can't believe how a journalist would do that on the day their children were murdered.

It is not remotely unbelievable. Journalists feed the machine - they write and tell stories that people gobble up. Who is the machine? Well the speculative people here - and everywhere else - who make stuff up, leap to conclusions not in evidence, and love rushing to judgement about who is responsible / who is at fault / how everybody else should or could have done something better. Thread after thread after thread on this site alone - and the most cruel and callous speculation justified on the basis that it is "news" or "in the public interest". Remember the threads about Nicola Bulley? Dozens and dozens of them full of vile speculation; with MNHQ justifying the bunfights and cruelty because it is "news". And that was the tip of the iceberg - it goes on and on and on...

Journalists are not the problem - the people who demand "answers now" and who lap up every crumb to fuel their prurient fictions are.

Peridot1 · 14/06/2023 12:30

Whilst I agree speculation is unhelpful a lot of the time according to the Times this morning the police have arrested a 31 year old male from West Africa who was here illegally. Obviously mental health issues could have been at play and if he was illegal he would presumably not have been able to access or even be entitled to any support or help.

Of course none of that helps the families of the victims. The male student who was murdered went to my DS’s old school and they lived near us and I knew the mum to say hello to from school events. I just can’t imagine what they are going through.

AllPlayedOut · 14/06/2023 12:33

How much do we know about the 50 year old van owner for instance?

I just saw that he's been named. Poor man. What a terrible way to die.

AllPlayedOut · 14/06/2023 12:34

Wrong quote but the same applies.

PickleIsAPlumbCat · 14/06/2023 12:44

Peridot1 · 14/06/2023 12:30

Whilst I agree speculation is unhelpful a lot of the time according to the Times this morning the police have arrested a 31 year old male from West Africa who was here illegally. Obviously mental health issues could have been at play and if he was illegal he would presumably not have been able to access or even be entitled to any support or help.

Of course none of that helps the families of the victims. The male student who was murdered went to my DS’s old school and they lived near us and I knew the mum to say hello to from school events. I just can’t imagine what they are going through.

The suspect has actually been living here since a teenager legally with settled status!

Peridot1 · 14/06/2023 13:01

@PickleIsAPlumbCat I was just reporting what the Times reported.

Lifeomars · 14/06/2023 13:20

EasterIssland · 14/06/2023 07:10

But not everyone killed was student and going to private university
i think the shock comes from everything that happened 3 people death and 3 people run over whilst waiting on a bus stop

Nottingham has two universities, Nottingham University which both the murdered students attended and Nottingham Trent University (which I went to), neither of them are private.

Lifeomars · 14/06/2023 13:28

Clementineorsatsuma · 13/06/2023 21:55

Excuse me? Stabbings and shootings every day? Do you have evidence of that?
A city is in shock and mourning. They really don't need this kind of comment.

Nottingham, like any city has its problems, but no, we are not full of random stabbings and shootings on any given day. We did have a gun problem, the city was known as "Shotingham" and a great deal of work was done to address this problem.

AllPlayedOut · 14/06/2023 13:29

According to the BBC there's footage of him trying to climb into the window of a homeless hostel but he was chased off by the residents. That's terrifying. They were so lucky.

DisquietintheRanks · 14/06/2023 13:31

Peridot1 · 14/06/2023 13:01

@PickleIsAPlumbCat I was just reporting what the Times reported.

This morning the BBC were saying that he'd been here since he was a teenager and was legally in the country.

AllPlayedOut · 14/06/2023 13:33

I think EasterIssland means private schools as both students had attended private schools.

DisquietintheRanks · 14/06/2023 13:35

Oh and it's not just people who are here illegally that have difficulty finding mh support, it's rarer than hen's teeth and, where it does exist, is difficult to access and generally inadequate in its delivery.

Lifeomars · 14/06/2023 13:39

OrbandSpectacle · 14/06/2023 07:23

Our city was semi locked down, with major transport disruption, and we didn't know what had actually happened for hours. Of course it was of huge media interest.

Exactly, I woke to the news alerts and family and friends who don't live here asking me what was happening. Very sad day for our city

NowZeusHasLainWithLeda · 14/06/2023 13:58

@Peridot1

From the BBC

*"The BBC has been told by official sources the suspect was originally from West Africa but had been in the UK for "many years" and had settled status.

It is also understood the man has a history of mental health issues.

As a result, while counter-terrorism police are assisting the investigation, they are not running it.

The man did not have a criminal record, sources also said."*

Efacsen · 14/06/2023 14:30

@Peridot1 it's true different media outlets have different versions

The police haven't said anything either way about the suspects ethnicity or legal status

And didn't mention it in their most recent press conference about an hour ago

justasking111 · 14/06/2023 14:35

It'll all come out in the wash

EasterIssland · 14/06/2023 17:02

AllPlayedOut · 14/06/2023 13:33

I think EasterIssland means private schools as both students had attended private schools.

I was replying to this comment from another poster. @mids2019 I didn’t know whether they were public or private to be honest I assumed because of their comment,

Does the fact that the students were young, privately educated and re relatively successful suddenly increase republic o interest?

lieselotte · 14/06/2023 17:47

DisquietintheRanks · 14/06/2023 13:35

Oh and it's not just people who are here illegally that have difficulty finding mh support, it's rarer than hen's teeth and, where it does exist, is difficult to access and generally inadequate in its delivery.

Still an excuse. As I said above, this is simply the usual male crime.

Women don't go on rampages "because of mental health issues".

SunnyEgg · 14/06/2023 18:06

lieselotte · 14/06/2023 17:47

Still an excuse. As I said above, this is simply the usual male crime.

Women don't go on rampages "because of mental health issues".

True men in particular do this, mh issues don’t have to lead to violent attacks

It’s a bit of an excuse

PowerTulle · 14/06/2023 18:59

The common denominator to 98% of violent crime is neither skin colour or mental health issues. What an insult to the vast, vast majority of folk who struggle with racism, prejudice and lack of support services, who don’t resort to annihilating innocent people.

I care to know nothing of this violent angry man. Let the justice system (such as it is) deal with him.

Deepest sympathy to those who knew and loved the victims. They should be remembered and held in Nottingham’s thoughts.

Efacsen · 14/06/2023 19:10

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CoffeeWithCheese · 14/06/2023 19:28

lieselotte · 14/06/2023 17:47

Still an excuse. As I said above, this is simply the usual male crime.

Women don't go on rampages "because of mental health issues".

I have a lot of colleagues who work on MH wards of varying degrees of restriction - most of them shudder much more about the sheer level of harm that the women will do to themselves in particular when in crisis. These include some fairly burly chaps who will go onto the male wards without batting an eyelid, but admit that the women’s wards are the ones they get anxious about.

Think the difference is the women are more likely to damage themselves and internalise it.

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