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There we go Schofield has admitted ‘affair’

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muppetmayhem · 26/05/2023 18:34

Front page of the daily mail for my sins.

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Merrymouse · 27/05/2023 19:50

TheGander · 27/05/2023 18:07

Agree. I’m getting more than a whiff of homophobia here.

Do you not see the imbalance of power?

Do you genuinely think that Schofield would not have been asked to leave if the affair had been with a teenage girl?

He would have had complete control because he could pull the job at any moment, but nobody could know what was happening, apart from anything else because he was married.

This was all happening around the time of ‘me too’, but you think the problem is the same sex relationship?

happinessischocolate · 27/05/2023 19:50

YouHaveAWeirdHangupAboutPercentage · 26/05/2023 18:42

I was thinking if Piers Morgan was defending this guy, he's not safe.

He nay as well just come right out and say it. Piers isn't the right one to have in your corner.

Piers is an idiot. Is own record is bad enough, putting yourself in the spotlight standing up for someone being accused of child grooming is beyond stupid.

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 27/05/2023 19:51

Haywirecity · 27/05/2023 19:41

If sge should ho over it, why shouldn't others? Who were the other presenters at that time? Alison Hammond, Rylan Clark, Eamonn Holmes, Ruth wotsit? Shouldn't they have their careers with itv shredded too?

Rylan, Ruth and Eamonn all left TM over it.

if there is an injunction, and the only thing making me doubt it is that Scottish papers could have reported it as English injunctions don’t cover there, there’s not actually much more they could have done

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:02

There’s apparently a photo of the young man PS had an affair with approaching Holly after, allegedly, PS had him kicked out of an event. Didn’t know about it, my arse.

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:04

And yes, Rylan, Ruth and Eamonn left, apparently, because of Phil.
Senior management heads should absolutely roll though. This smacks of a cover up.

ExitChasedByAMemory · 27/05/2023 20:05

GellerYeller · 27/05/2023 18:53

I’m sure I saw on Twitter earlier someone reminding Dan Wootton he sincerely congratulated PS, via a public tweet, on coming out. Which happened well AFTER he claims to have raised concerns about PS and his treatment of young people on staff, with ITV management. Recollections may vary as they say.

Looks like it was going for a lot longer than PS allegedly said it took place. There might be evidence of grooming if the runner was underaged when working at ITV and somehow the “friendship” developed.

I didn’t realise that Dan Whooton congratulated PS Confused Because I am pretty sure I saw on Twitter that Whooton mentioned that he wanted to run the “story” in 2019 and apparently the runner was upset about being moved to Loose Women and coincidentally according to this thread that it was also 2019 that PS came out of the closetHmm

The fact that ITV Management had to ask and PS lied about when it started implies that it was common knowledge amongst the higher ups and that there is more to it. What I don’t understand why it was brushed under the carpet and why the victim wasn’t given some kind of support. Unless, he was offered incentives to stay quiet such as a promotion or something like that that he couldn’t pass up.

Freefall212 · 27/05/2023 20:05

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:02

There’s apparently a photo of the young man PS had an affair with approaching Holly after, allegedly, PS had him kicked out of an event. Didn’t know about it, my arse.

https://twitter.com/wackyjeaver/status/1656544436950646787

LetterForLettis · 27/05/2023 20:05

The posters accusing others of homophobia are rather unconvincing. There are hundreds of gay relationships in the TV industry, yet no outraged Mumsnet threads about them, no-one cares. There is no way that PS' agency dropped him like a hot potato because of a gay affair as being gay is a protected characteristic and unfair treatment based on homophobia is thankfully illegal in this country. There will be more to this and we'll soon find out what his unsavoury antics involved. 😬

happinessischocolate · 27/05/2023 20:06

Iamtheonwandlonely · 27/05/2023 19:01

Holly trying miserably to try and distance herself.
It's too late you lay down with dogs, you get fleas

I genuinely wonder if she did know!

When she did that cringing coming out interview with him, I thought he must have some dirt on her and her DH and she's being forced to go along with it, but then their friendship and family holidays continued so maybe not.

But surely she and her DH must have realised that it would come out at some point, and that they'd be guilty by association. More and more so as time went on.

People in Philips situation, in the middle of the affair can be blind and stupid to the consequences, but people watching from the sidelines. !! They're never blind to the consequences. So what the hell was she (and he DH) thinking!!!

Freefall212 · 27/05/2023 20:07

It sounds like absolutely everyone knew but the runner was an adult and both the runner and PS were saying, nope, nothing to see here...so what options does HR have?

They moved him once enough people started complaining.

ExitChasedByAMemory · 27/05/2023 20:08

Or maybe that’s when they fell out? Because the runner told her the truth? And then she realised that there was more to it than what PS alleged had happened?

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:10

HW is doing all she can to save her career. Her comment was all about her, and trying - and failing - to limit damage. Nothing more, nothing less.

DollyParkin · 27/05/2023 20:11

Not surprised. I'd heard about 18 months ago that there was persistent harassment of young men (some underage or only just "adult") on the set for some time.

Seems to be a 'jump before he was pushed" moment.

As with all sexual harassment, it's the hypocrisy , the secrecy, and the power imbalance that is the problem, not the sex of the harassed employee.

ExitChasedByAMemory · 27/05/2023 20:14

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:10

HW is doing all she can to save her career. Her comment was all about her, and trying - and failing - to limit damage. Nothing more, nothing less.

I hope that’s not true Sad I’d like to think that she just didn’t know because PS just was good at lying. His statement said that lied to his family so maybe he also lied to her?

Haywirecity · 27/05/2023 20:15

YetMoreNewBeginnings · 27/05/2023 19:51

Rylan, Ruth and Eamonn all left TM over it.

if there is an injunction, and the only thing making me doubt it is that Scottish papers could have reported it as English injunctions don’t cover there, there’s not actually much more they could have done

How do you know that? None of them has confirmed that. Not even Eamonn and he's been pretty vocal about everything. Theres no injunction. Any of them could have come out and said something and none of them did.
Easy for them to be big after the fact.

RhinoMoveFast · 27/05/2023 20:15

That photo really upset me 😢 a school friend was groomed and she was desperate like that, she fell apart and died before she was 16 (not of her own hand btw) she could not understand what happened, we did not understand that she had aged out, we were children too.

He looks like he wants Holly to tell him why, after all that attention he has been dumped.

Letsallthinkofaname · 27/05/2023 20:20

Dan wooton has said there was no injunction

Haywirecity · 27/05/2023 20:20

ExitChasedByAMemory · 27/05/2023 20:18

I had no idea PS is 61. This BBC article just came out.

He does look good for 61. It must be all those young genes in him! 😉

Freefall212 · 27/05/2023 20:21

RhinoMoveFast · 27/05/2023 20:15

That photo really upset me 😢 a school friend was groomed and she was desperate like that, she fell apart and died before she was 16 (not of her own hand btw) she could not understand what happened, we did not understand that she had aged out, we were children too.

He looks like he wants Holly to tell him why, after all that attention he has been dumped.

It is a still snapshot of one second in time. People have applied their own interpretation and meaning to it, given the timing of it, but we actually have no idea what was happening in the photo.

Haywirecity · 27/05/2023 20:25

RhinoMoveFast · 27/05/2023 20:15

That photo really upset me 😢 a school friend was groomed and she was desperate like that, she fell apart and died before she was 16 (not of her own hand btw) she could not understand what happened, we did not understand that she had aged out, we were children too.

He looks like he wants Holly to tell him why, after all that attention he has been dumped.

How do you even know who it is, never mind what their interaction is. He could be telling her that her car's just be stolen!

GellerYeller · 27/05/2023 20:27

@ExitChasedByAMemory yes it looks like it’s gone on longer than they claim. Dan Wootton’s tweet about the coming out said ‘I salute Phillip’. Counteracting his claims to have left ITV because of his raising concerns about the runner, someone swiftly then retweeted his comments that he quit ITV like Piers Morgan: ‘because of pressure to lay off Harry and Meghan’. So maybe we take whatever he says lightly as he seems to move the facts around to place himself in the best light IMHO.

T1Dmama · 27/05/2023 20:28

Another one of the big TV people while we were growing up!!

Used to watch Jim’ll fix it, Rolf Harris and Phillip with Gordon the Gopher….

So upsetting that these people use their positions to abuse the vulnerable…

Wonder what he’s being blackmailed with to protect everyone who kept his secret because there’s no way Holly, Rylan etc didn’t know, when Ruth complained!

Boardname · 27/05/2023 20:28

GreenPinkBlue · 27/05/2023 20:02

There’s apparently a photo of the young man PS had an affair with approaching Holly after, allegedly, PS had him kicked out of an event. Didn’t know about it, my arse.

Yes there is, I don't think the photo in itself is overly telling though. She would have definitely known who he was because he was a runner but had also been elevated to a PA of sorts to PS- ITV paid for taxis for him to Schofes home etc so there was definitely a guise of work somewhere mixed in. I don't think it's crazy to assume she didn't know, people cheat on their spouses after all and they don't have a clue, they're close friends but doesn't mean he told her. I suspect she did though and she will conduct all sorts of damage control until her husband gives her some new jobs to keep her going.

Soothingaftersun · 27/05/2023 20:29

Phil's career is over but can Holly come back from this ? I'm not sure.

I bet there's a fair few hoping the David Walliams story (whatever that may entail) comes out sooner rather than later to take the spotlight

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