Nope.
I met 100s I can name and possibly 1000s I was involved with. I’ve known some of them for over 25 years, had dinner in their homes, met their kids, dogs , been to social events with them, worked with them during fun times and some truely grim times
American cultural norms, politics and attitudes are, imho, something to behold and be very afraid of. Seriously odd attitudes to your average European. which I am. Nowt wrong with people I met to an average American, just a wide gapping cultural gap between Europeans and Americans.
yep, you can meet quite a few American who, on face of it, are more outward and enlightened thinking- but scrape below surface and they still have USA centric thinking in their core.
a cultural history that sort of starts, for most Americans, a few hundred years ago, coupled with a very inward looking nation, where a lot of everyday standard wage Americans barely travel outside their own state, let alone their country. To travel outside their state is a journey equivalence to us going to Europe or beyond, but we get immersed in countries with different cultures, history, language and norms, they just get more of same but different scenery . They swear allegiance to their flag fgs 🤦♀️
I’ve been east, west, north and south ( well as far down as south Georgia, as far north as Maine, and east, west coast and good ole Bible Belt middle and old “ Indian territory “ states like Dakota ( apologies I know the people are First Nations, but that’s my point about attitude).
cities and towns have no real historic centre, just swamped by a mass of post war commercialism with many cities listed ing identikit and sounding ideentikit with those bloody long train horns going off all night for 15 mins whilst the train chugs through the centre, and police car sirens going very half an hour. The towns/ cities Are not people or even public transport friendly outside of the major cities like NY. Even sport, which is massive part of their lives from school and family events, they treat student uni teams like they’re some Olympic hero’s . Vast swathes of central country is a mass homogenous wasteland of mono culture on a frightening scale.
the only redeeming feature is some truely spectacular landscapes in some places- grant you that. But not a big enough sell for me to be ever go there again.
each to their own