Move to somewhere like Bridport where we can have a nice house with a good size garden so that DD can have chickens and rabbits but DS can still walk to shops as country life is not for him! I don’t want a mansion - I’d like 4 bedrooms, and a utility room, boot room and pantry!
Arrange for private ASD/ADHD assessments for all of us!
DD would continue to be home edded but we could pay for any activities she wanted and some tutoring. Private school for DS.
DD can have more riding lessons and go out hacking regularly.
I would give up work and have a PT but no cleaners etc as we are very private.
Find a reliable pet sitter and travel - DD is studying Nepal and is desperate to go.
Buy a campervan or small motor home.
Money to the family, close friends and in trust for the children. Invest money.
Research charities and Donate money, small charities focusing on poverty, children, DV and animal welfare.
I have also given this a lot of thought. However, as I don’t play the lottery it seems unlikely! 