Making new friends in 2023 thread: join me?

[Lentilweaver]

Like many people here, I have lost friends in the pandemic because they have moved away, drifted or just dropped me:) Also began WFH- not by choice- so that reduces the pool too.

I am trying very hard to make new friends in 2023.

What I have done so far:
Starting a book club in January in a social group I am part of
Reached out to someone I know only on Twitter suggesting a coffee ( same profession)
Suggested a walk in the park to a local contact I met once but hit it off with..

Join me?

I am updating this thread, as nearly every thread on here appears to be about how to make new friends in your 30s! I am in my 50s, and I have had some success lately:

(1) This month a newish friend invited me to the cinema. She made all the arrangements. This happens so rarerly that I am very chuffed. We had a good time, though she fell asleep for ten minutes during the movie!

(2) I go to a book club, and we have diversified into a board games evening. I went along for that and felt it helped get to know people more.

(3) A not very close friend visiting London from another country asked to meet. I am glad I stayed in touch with her via Whatsapp, as our friendship deepened and we found we had a lot in common. I may not see her often but these days I say yes to all friends.

(4) Today I am going for a professional social where I know no one at all, but so what? I will try to get to know someone.

On the downside, I had a minor tiff with a close friend on Friday. Can't go into details, but she appears to be very envious of me, which makes me uncomfortable. Can't do much about it.

I am joining a choir in April. I spend almost zero on clothes and shoes these days, and funnel everything into activities.

Great idea for a thread. I've relocated recently and would love to meet more local friends. Can only spare one evening a week though and a bit of weekend time, so wondering what would be best in terms of meeting people. I tried a book club, but it was really dominated by one person, which put me off a bit. Hope your social goes well! @Lentilweaver