Bless you. People genuinely don’t realise do they. They see the op getting 2k a month and pile on, they could pay me 20 grand a month and it still wouldn’t be worth the shit I have to do. Literal shit aswell. I always say they should have a separate DLA rate for ds 😅
When a child has disabilities, they grow in to adults with disabilities, I had to give my job up when ds was 3, he’s 9 now and honestly don’t know how I’d work in the future. His specialist school can’t even manage him never mind any outside child care. I tried to put him in a SPECIAL NEEDS holiday club, they read his ehcp and said NO! Wtf.
He’s very unlikely to live independently as an adult. I just think this is my life forever and it’s really depressing. I’m forever resigned to earning carers allowance on less than a quid an hour. No disrespect to my ds, I would do anything for him. Just wish it wasn’t so hard.
Kids grow up and leave home, parents can get back on with their lives, work more hours, meet friends, holiday alone, parents with disabled dcs can’t. And you get paid £69 a week for the pleasure.
@indiepins don’t explain yourself, you don’t get paid nearly enough x