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Well who cried whilst watching the funeral?

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asblindasabat · 19/09/2022 13:17

Was watching the funeral with DH and DC in our living room.

I’ve found the Queen’s death quite saddening and I have shed a few tears over the last 11 days, but every time I’m at a funeral the music / hymns always set me off.

Felt quite emotional. What a woman she was!

And you don’t need to tell me how silly I am, DH has told me plenty of times that I ‘shouldn’t be crying about someone I never knew’ 🙄

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iwishiwasonhol · 19/09/2022 17:47

When they showed her horse and i really dont like horses so no idea why that made me cry and when the piper started on his own as they were lowering her coffin

KLFisgonnarockya · 19/09/2022 17:52

I’m a sentimental fool so was set off by the pony and corgis and by Charles red eyes and Anne’s devotion.

Shmithecat2 · 19/09/2022 17:53

Yep. Not so much during the first service (although seeing Charles all teary eyed was sad), but the way the sailors surrounded the gun carriage after the guards retreated really got me, like they were protecting her. 😢. I could barely watch the lowering into the vault though, and I still can't sing GSTK without choking up - I'm happy to sing it, but can't seem to get through it without being a snivelling mess. And those fading bagpipes 😭

TBH, I'm glad it's done, and we can all go on about our business again. I've found it an emotionally exhausting time.

Gingersay · 19/09/2022 17:59

I expected to cry but I didn't, I broke my heart the other night at the grandchildrens vigil though.

LadyMary50 · 19/09/2022 18:03

TonTonMacoute · 19/09/2022 14:40

This.

Feeling wobbly just thinking about it.

Same here,the piper did it for me🥲

rockbottombird · 19/09/2022 18:04

I've been a bit of a crying mess on and off all day 🥲 seeing the horse and corgis was a lovely thing but that set me off all over again. Then the final part of removing the crown and lowering of the coffin was just so sad.

Freedomfighters · 19/09/2022 18:06

The piper at the end was the bit that got me.

Daydreambeliever1175 · 19/09/2022 18:07

George and Charlotte.

PAFMO · 19/09/2022 18:08

@Celeryfavour that's a beautiful line and so true. I'm thinking about my long gone relatives, and how my mum would have said about today "nobody does these things better than we do" and that's so true.
@Crunchymum Flowers

Thank you all for a lovely respectful thread. Brew

Oogabooga123 · 19/09/2022 18:08

As an equestrian and dog lover seeing her pony stood there all tacked up with the empty saddle set me off, then the corgis set me off further.

I found the Windsor walk so much more personal and emotional than the Westminster one.

EllieQ · 19/09/2022 18:13

The Queen’s death has brought back memories of my mum’s death, so I felt sad at times while watching the state funeral, but I didn’t get tearful until seeing Emma the pony and the corgis at Windsor 😭It seemed very personal then.

Luredbyapomegranate · 19/09/2022 18:15

Twigletgirl27 · 19/09/2022 15:08

It was seeing this cartoon from one of today's newspapers that brought me to tears....

Oh god.. that has just set me off

MrsFezziwig · 19/09/2022 18:16

JaneDoe222 · 19/09/2022 15:05

I thought we had learned our lessons after the madness surrounding Diana’s death, but evidently not. People crying over the funeral of someone they never met is the definition of mass hysteria.

At least now the funeral is over I’m hoping I won’t have to hear the overused and inaccurate phrase “mass hysteria” for a long while.

Oblomov22 · 19/09/2022 18:18

No. Thought it was beautifully done. I didn't cry though.

asblindasabat · 19/09/2022 18:18

MrsFezziwig · 19/09/2022 18:16

At least now the funeral is over I’m hoping I won’t have to hear the overused and inaccurate phrase “mass hysteria” for a long while.

@MrsFezziwig exactly!!

I don’t think this was ‘mass hysteria’ instead it was moment in history not many of us have experienced before and will not experience again plus many of us thought she was incredible and felt her loss personally

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mydogisthebest · 19/09/2022 18:20

I cried on and off from start to finish but seeing Charles looking so upset made me sob.

Also, like many others, seeing her horse and her corgis, made me sob again.

I now have a splitting headache and red and sore eyes. I don't know how her family held it together so well

Womblesaremyfavouritefood · 19/09/2022 18:21

It was seeing the Queen's pony that set me off. I got through 3 tissues with that one.

SliceoQuiche · 19/09/2022 18:23

On and off all day; seeing the children, the piper, the corgis and pony… I’m exhausted.
I had to leave the room to compose myself when the coffin was carried out to the gun carriage first thing- it was such an extreme reaction I felt quite embarrassed. DH also cried mind, and he isn’t a crier!

TooMuchToDoTooLittleInclination · 19/09/2022 18:24

DysonSpheres · 19/09/2022 16:10

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/video/2022/sep/19/god-save-the-king-sung-at-the-end-of-queen-elizabeth-ii-funeral-service-video

I honestly heard God Save the Queen too at first. It's normal. The sound wasn't as clear in the church as normal and your brain compensates for what it always has heard before. Many people made the same mistake.

@TheVanguardSix
@DysonSpheres

they sang both at different times

Bretonbear · 19/09/2022 18:26

TheVanguardSix · 19/09/2022 15:36

Was it? At the end before the lone piper? Are you sure?

It was God Save The King

pagopago · 19/09/2022 18:26

When the coffin was lowered I really cried 😭💔

And earlier on when they put her into the hearse, then slowly drove away while the National Anthem played. Leaving London for the last time 😭💔

Babyroobs · 19/09/2022 18:29

I shed a few tears when they showed the two corgis at Windsor castle. They won't understand where she has suddenly gone and now have to go and live with Andrew.

Celticandco · 19/09/2022 18:29

Cried so much today, it was perfect, absolutely perfect

bellac11 · 19/09/2022 18:30

Cried a lot at various points since last week, such as her leaving Balmoral, then the procession in Scotland and the horses and tractors along the route,, then flying from Edinburgh airport (leaving Scotland for the last time as the presenter said), also the lone piper at St Pauls earlier this week, then the pipers and drums today, the amount she has been moved around as well, wasnt interested in the service didnt listen to any of the words, Im atheist so it makes no sense to me, but then the whole procession with the drumming and pipers, Emma the pony and the corgis and then the final piper

Sobbing all day

ChrisTrepidation · 19/09/2022 18:32

@bellac11 I'm no royalist but the sight of Emma the fell pony waiting at Windsor made me choke up a bit.

I had to miss the rest as I had to go and see to my ponies. I like to think the Queen would have approved :)