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What’s classed as “chavvy” if you’re poor…

553 replies

Justanotherwinter · 02/09/2022 11:04

But classy if you’re rich? I’ll start…

cocaine
floor beds for children
Speaking a second language
Day drinking
babysitters

OP posts:
5128gap · 02/09/2022 14:53

Everything that poor people do is considered chavvy by the type of half wit who uses the term. How else can you demonstrate you're not a poor person, except by sneering at the things less well off people do?

Justanotherwinter · 02/09/2022 14:53

Caravan in the front garden

OP posts:
FreyaStorm · 02/09/2022 14:58

shrunkenhead · 02/09/2022 14:47

Fruitshoots
Dairylea dunkers
White bread
Marg not butter
More than 1 child
Dummies
Breastfeeding
Takeaways
Window cleaners
NCT
Sure start
Washable nappies
Smoking
Yoghurts (petit filous vs Yeo valley)
Teeth
Books

How is breastfeeding seen as chavvy?

I think nowadays it’s firmly middle class.

It’s usually the non-working class mums I see bottle feeding.

jennakong · 02/09/2022 14:59

Mismatched crockery
Scruffy jackets
Muddy cars
Draughty houses
Parties that end with bottles being broken
Bizarre Christian names for children

My dad met the Duke of Westminster once in Co Fermanagh, reputedly the richest man in Britain. He had absolutely no idea who he was talking to at the time, and thought he was a vagrant.

Cuck00soup · 02/09/2022 15:04

All inclusive holidays.
Noisy parties.
Drinking at breakfast.
To some extent - Wearing a uniform to work.
Getting up late.

Zeus44 · 02/09/2022 15:14

Seriously what job do you do that allows you to waste time on such topics such as define chav ?

IncessantNameChanger · 02/09/2022 15:15

What does it mean to be chavy? I come from a deprived area so think of myself as a bit of a chav by virtue of growing up there. I'm not ashamed of where I came from. I moved away and on paper live a very MC life.

About from that, I don't think it's about class or money. Its how you behave. Like drinking Stella with your top off at 10am walking down the street with your massive pit ball type dog while pushing a pram. That's a common non event in my home town.

JohnPrescottsPyjamas · 02/09/2022 15:17

Watching 11 people kicking a round ball up and down a muddy field with the objective of getting as many goals as possible followed by lots of heavy drinking, swearing and loud behaviour = chavvy.

Watching 15 people kicking an oval ball up and down a muddy field with the objective of getting as many goals as possible followed by lots of heavy drinking, swearing and loud behaviour = UC

derxa · 02/09/2022 15:20

Softplayhooray · 02/09/2022 13:39

I presumed the OP is trying to make a point that when you have money you're judged kindly for things that poorer people would be savaged for, with speaking a foreign language presumably because rich people pay for private language tuition for social mobility, whereas you're more likely (because of racism, colonialism and so on) to be in a lower SE class if you are a refugee, or immigrant and that often comes with people negatively stereotyping your culture and stereotyping you (including language).

Yes but the 'chavvy' people don't give a fuck and neither do rich people. They don't care if prissy people on MN judge them or not.
To add to the examples. School jumpers with holes in them and badly frayed sleeves.

Hannakl · 02/09/2022 15:25

With a few exceptions, most of the stuff listed on this thread is just annoying regardless of who does it.

MustardIsTheOnlyCondiment · 02/09/2022 15:25

Op isn't calling someone a chav. She's saying you would be branded that way for doing X y and z if you are poor. Christ.

Wiccan · 02/09/2022 15:25

Wearing a dressing gown to the supermarket Vs a fashion designer calling it an outdoor gown and parading it down a catwalk

FatOaf · 02/09/2022 15:25

I don't think most people would consider [...] speaking a second language "chavvy" though.....

You've obviously never met any UKIPper Tories. They would gladly exterminate any poor people who speak languages other than English among family/friends.

MustardIsTheOnlyCondiment · 02/09/2022 15:27

And she's certainly not being racist by pointing out classism or racism

Supersimkin2 · 02/09/2022 15:27

This thread exposes the hypocrisy of snobs brilliantly.

HailAdrian · 02/09/2022 15:27

InMySpareTime · 02/09/2022 11:26

Generations of worklessness

Best answer

ShirleyJackson · 02/09/2022 15:30

Kids with double-barrelled surnames.

Cam22 · 02/09/2022 15:31

Why don’t people make clear with it the two groups they are referring to? The lists need to be clarified. 🙄

Cam22 · 02/09/2022 15:31

…which of the two

ShirleyJackson · 02/09/2022 15:31

A garden sofa.

Daisymaybe60 · 02/09/2022 15:34

Cam22 · 02/09/2022 15:31

Why don’t people make clear with it the two groups they are referring to? The lists need to be clarified. 🙄

But don't the points need to fit both groups?

Like Gambling.

Game of bingo or trip to bookies - chavvy.
Professional gambler - welcome to the family, old boy.

Cam22 · 02/09/2022 15:34

A garden sofa? You mean those horrendous wicker or plastic monstrosities? The ones usually squashed in beside a table, six chairs, a stool thing etc etc? They are definitely not middle class…

ShirleyJackson · 02/09/2022 15:34

Posh kids with double-barrelled surnames - can be dated back to William the Conqueror, you know.

Non-posh kids with double-barrelled surnames - why doesn’t anyone get married before having kids any more? Tsk.

Bretonbear · 02/09/2022 15:35

Trinity65 · 02/09/2022 12:08

Really !

Yes!

ShirleyJackson · 02/09/2022 15:35

I was meaning more of a comfortable seating arrangement, possibly around a lovely built-in fire pit.

As opposed to an old fly-tipped thing in the front garden.

But I’m off a council estate, so what would I know about posh? Grin