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I envy people who have Faith

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BlueBloodedBlue · 27/08/2022 20:38

I don't but it must be a real comfort to believe in a higher power and have something that gives a meaning to everything.

That's it really.

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Vincitveritas · 06/09/2022 16:23

@SnoozyLucy7 I've addressed this in my answer to pointythings.

pointythings · 06/09/2022 16:25

@Vincitveritas you are the kind of Christian who acknowledges the need for a leap of faith. I respect that.

Vincitveritas · 06/09/2022 16:29

pointythings · 06/09/2022 16:25

@Vincitveritas you are the kind of Christian who acknowledges the need for a leap of faith. I respect that.

Thank you, and I appreciate you not calling me bonkers.😆

pointythings · 06/09/2022 16:37

Vincitveritas · 06/09/2022 16:29

Thank you, and I appreciate you not calling me bonkers.😆

You're clearly very sane! You and I just believe different things, that's all.

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 16:39

@Malie

Interesting that everyone who is open-abortion has already been born themselves

Interesting that every person who shares a viewpoint is... a person?

Is that really interesting to you? Gosh.

And it's pro-choice, not open-abortion (which isn't a phrase I've heard before) or pro-abortion.

Pro choice.

Vincitveritas · 06/09/2022 16:42

pointythings · 06/09/2022 16:37

You're clearly very sane! You and I just believe different things, that's all.

That's good to know.😊

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 16:44

Softplayhooray · 06/09/2022 15:45

@Malie if you want to believe in the Bible good for you. People are fine with that. Its your nastiness toward anyone that doesn't believe exactly what you do that's the problem!

You sound to me like like you think you are defending your faith, but you're not - you're belittling other people then being surprised that you don't get a good response. That's why you are getting pushback on this thread. Not because you read the Bible but because you're not very nice to other people. All the 'my friend' and faux niceties that you are now using also make you sound like you are boiling with rage under the surface, which seems pointless. Why? Just enjoy your beliefs and stop having a go at other people and you'll have a much nicer time of life.

I know that you are desperate to be right, but why? That's what I feel your anger comes from. None of us know the truth, and we never will, ever. I'm personally fine with that.

Well said.

The passive aggressive 'God Bless' is also incredibly telling about their character.

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 16:49

pointythings · 06/09/2022 16:25

@Vincitveritas you are the kind of Christian who acknowledges the need for a leap of faith. I respect that.

Agreed!

You, like us atheists on the thread, share the humility to acknowledge we are not able to prove our beliefs are 100% the correct ones. We still hold those beliefs, but understand the difference between beliefs and facts.

It's a shame the other poster is unwilling to show the same humility as it's turned what's been a really interesting discussion into them ranting angrily and either misunderstanding or misrepresenting everything atheists are saying.

It's been bizarre to watch unfold!

MordinVasNormandy · 06/09/2022 17:17

Malie · 06/09/2022 15:35

So what about the tennis player Margaret Court who is persecuted as a Christian by the gay lobby because she believes that marriage is between the man and the woman? And what about J. K. Rowling who is persecuted because she believes that a woman is a woman and should have a woman’s Wright’s?

Who are the gay lobby and how are they persecuting her?

Court doesn't just believe marriage is between a man and a woman. She wants same sex marriage to be illegal.

pointythings · 06/09/2022 17:24

@MordinVasNormandy the gay lobby is where the gay agenda put their snacks during breaks in the meeting.

Also everything you said. I don't understand people who are opposed to marriage equality. How can you have any morals when your stance is to deny other people something that you yourself take for granted as a right? Aside from marriage historically being a social construct that used to be about land and property, why would you deny two people who love each other the right to formalise that love and obtain the legal protections it brings? Sounds pretty selfish and not very Christian to me.

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:28

Softplayhooray · 06/09/2022 16:04

@Malie you sound like you are going to explode! You certainly are angry.

Perhaps you just misunderstand...other people disagreeing with you isn't attacking you. The way all your posts read is that if you don't get 100% endorsement or agreement of what you believe, you feel persecuted and so angry because you think people are hating on you. They are not, they just have a different belief. Which makes you spiral. Which is pointless, as why not just enjoy your beliefs and the comforts they give you?

Its much lovelier to say just live and let live (I love that approach), but that also seems to make you extremely angry.

Thanks for knowing how I feel better than I do. Now just calm down and discuss things rationally without all this nonsense

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:30

MordinVasNormandy · 06/09/2022 17:17

Who are the gay lobby and how are they persecuting her?

Court doesn't just believe marriage is between a man and a woman. She wants same sex marriage to be illegal.

Get up to date. She opposed the legalising of gay marriage as did a whole lot of other people.

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:32

pointythings · 06/09/2022 17:24

@MordinVasNormandy the gay lobby is where the gay agenda put their snacks during breaks in the meeting.

Also everything you said. I don't understand people who are opposed to marriage equality. How can you have any morals when your stance is to deny other people something that you yourself take for granted as a right? Aside from marriage historically being a social construct that used to be about land and property, why would you deny two people who love each other the right to formalise that love and obtain the legal protections it brings? Sounds pretty selfish and not very Christian to me.

Of course if you just believe marriage is just a social construct then fair enough. Some of us believe it is rather more than that. I love my kids so should I be allowed to marry them both to avoid death duties?

MordinVasNormandy · 06/09/2022 17:33

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:30

Get up to date. She opposed the legalising of gay marriage as did a whole lot of other people.

Umbrella yes that's that I said. She wanted same sex marriage to be illegal. She wanted to impose her views on everyone else and deny people the right to marry who they love. She was bot persecuted.

Hvergelmir · 06/09/2022 17:33

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:32

Of course if you just believe marriage is just a social construct then fair enough. Some of us believe it is rather more than that. I love my kids so should I be allowed to marry them both to avoid death duties?

Comparing homosexuality to paedophilia, I call bingo.

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:33

Softplayhooray · 06/09/2022 16:04

@Malie you sound like you are going to explode! You certainly are angry.

Perhaps you just misunderstand...other people disagreeing with you isn't attacking you. The way all your posts read is that if you don't get 100% endorsement or agreement of what you believe, you feel persecuted and so angry because you think people are hating on you. They are not, they just have a different belief. Which makes you spiral. Which is pointless, as why not just enjoy your beliefs and the comforts they give you?

Its much lovelier to say just live and let live (I love that approach), but that also seems to make you extremely angry.

Yes so why don’t other people just say ‘live and let live’. But they don’t! 😀

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:34

Margaret Court has been robustly challenged for her homophobic views. And her views on apartheid. Below is a taster.

You honestly read the comments below below and believe it's wrong there have been calls from many people (of all different sexualities themselves) for her not to be celebrated with awards and other plaudits, I presume?

Even if you agree with her beliefs (which you likely do I guess based on you bringing her up) you really think that it's 'persecution' for her to be thought of as someone who should now not receive awards and plaudits and have tennis courts etc named after her?

..

“To me, homosexuality is a choice,” she said.
Court called Martina Navratilova "a great player but I’d like someone at the top who the younger players can look up to. It’s very sad for children to be exposed to homosexuality. Martina is a nice person. Her life has just gone astray”

“We know that homosexuality is a lust of the flesh, so is adultery, fornication, all those things … they too know this, this is why they want marriage, because it’s self-satisfying. I think they know it comes against Christianity, the beliefs of God, but in some way it’s justifying.”

Court called on gay people who did not want marriage equality to speak up, saying it was really a minority of the LGBTI community campaigning for it. “Everybody knows that it is wrong but they’re after our young ones, that’s what they are after”.

“Tennis is full of lesbians. Even when I was playing there were only a couple there but those couple that led took young ones into parties,” Court said. “And what you get at the top is often what you’ll get right through that sport.”

”To dismantle this sole definition of marriage and try to legitimise what God calls abominable sexual practices that include sodomy, reveals our ignorance as to the ills that come when society is forced to accept law that violates their very own God-given nature of what is right and what is wrong,” Court said.

In 1970, Court kicked things off by praising South Africa’s apartheid policy (“South Africans have this thing better organised than any other country, particularly America,” she said. “I love South Africa. I’ll go back there any time.”)

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:34

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:33

Yes so why don’t other people just say ‘live and let live’. But they don’t! 😀

And how often must I tell you not to orohect your anger on to me!

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:35

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:34

Margaret Court has been robustly challenged for her homophobic views. And her views on apartheid. Below is a taster.

You honestly read the comments below below and believe it's wrong there have been calls from many people (of all different sexualities themselves) for her not to be celebrated with awards and other plaudits, I presume?

Even if you agree with her beliefs (which you likely do I guess based on you bringing her up) you really think that it's 'persecution' for her to be thought of as someone who should now not receive awards and plaudits and have tennis courts etc named after her?

..

“To me, homosexuality is a choice,” she said.
Court called Martina Navratilova "a great player but I’d like someone at the top who the younger players can look up to. It’s very sad for children to be exposed to homosexuality. Martina is a nice person. Her life has just gone astray”

“We know that homosexuality is a lust of the flesh, so is adultery, fornication, all those things … they too know this, this is why they want marriage, because it’s self-satisfying. I think they know it comes against Christianity, the beliefs of God, but in some way it’s justifying.”

Court called on gay people who did not want marriage equality to speak up, saying it was really a minority of the LGBTI community campaigning for it. “Everybody knows that it is wrong but they’re after our young ones, that’s what they are after”.

“Tennis is full of lesbians. Even when I was playing there were only a couple there but those couple that led took young ones into parties,” Court said. “And what you get at the top is often what you’ll get right through that sport.”

”To dismantle this sole definition of marriage and try to legitimise what God calls abominable sexual practices that include sodomy, reveals our ignorance as to the ills that come when society is forced to accept law that violates their very own God-given nature of what is right and what is wrong,” Court said.

In 1970, Court kicked things off by praising South Africa’s apartheid policy (“South Africans have this thing better organised than any other country, particularly America,” she said. “I love South Africa. I’ll go back there any time.”)

This is to @Malie obviously.

Who perhaps isn't actually aware of some of these things said by Court.

I hope so, anyway, otherwise it's even more disturbing to portray her as a victim of wrongdoing.

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:43

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:35

This is to @Malie obviously.

Who perhaps isn't actually aware of some of these things said by Court.

I hope so, anyway, otherwise it's even more disturbing to portray her as a victim of wrongdoing.

She actually said that South Africa was better organised than America as far as that wa# concerned. You ever been to South Africa or America ?

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:45

Hvergelmir · 06/09/2022 17:33

Comparing homosexuality to paedophilia, I call bingo.

I have a book on my shelf called ‘How to miss the point’. I think you must feature in it! 😀

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:56

@Malie

She actually said that South Africa was better organised than America as far as that wa# concerned. You ever been to South Africa or America?

Yes, I've been to both.

And wow. Defending apartheid apologists now.

She said South Africa was better organised than anywhere else in the world as regards to apartheid and that she loved it there and that she would go back any time. She said it during apartheid there. Here's the quote:

"South Africans have this thing better organised than any other country, particularly America. I love South Africa. I’ll go back there any time.”

I'm staggered you're not horrified by that, even if you agree with her homophobic comments.

Hvergelmir · 06/09/2022 17:57

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:43

She actually said that South Africa was better organised than America as far as that wa# concerned. You ever been to South Africa or America ?

Do you know what apartheid was?

Hvergelmir · 06/09/2022 18:00

wellhelloitsme · 06/09/2022 17:34

Margaret Court has been robustly challenged for her homophobic views. And her views on apartheid. Below is a taster.

You honestly read the comments below below and believe it's wrong there have been calls from many people (of all different sexualities themselves) for her not to be celebrated with awards and other plaudits, I presume?

Even if you agree with her beliefs (which you likely do I guess based on you bringing her up) you really think that it's 'persecution' for her to be thought of as someone who should now not receive awards and plaudits and have tennis courts etc named after her?

..

“To me, homosexuality is a choice,” she said.
Court called Martina Navratilova "a great player but I’d like someone at the top who the younger players can look up to. It’s very sad for children to be exposed to homosexuality. Martina is a nice person. Her life has just gone astray”

“We know that homosexuality is a lust of the flesh, so is adultery, fornication, all those things … they too know this, this is why they want marriage, because it’s self-satisfying. I think they know it comes against Christianity, the beliefs of God, but in some way it’s justifying.”

Court called on gay people who did not want marriage equality to speak up, saying it was really a minority of the LGBTI community campaigning for it. “Everybody knows that it is wrong but they’re after our young ones, that’s what they are after”.

“Tennis is full of lesbians. Even when I was playing there were only a couple there but those couple that led took young ones into parties,” Court said. “And what you get at the top is often what you’ll get right through that sport.”

”To dismantle this sole definition of marriage and try to legitimise what God calls abominable sexual practices that include sodomy, reveals our ignorance as to the ills that come when society is forced to accept law that violates their very own God-given nature of what is right and what is wrong,” Court said.

In 1970, Court kicked things off by praising South Africa’s apartheid policy (“South Africans have this thing better organised than any other country, particularly America,” she said. “I love South Africa. I’ll go back there any time.”)

"They're after our young ones" jfc

Hvergelmir · 06/09/2022 18:00

Malie · 06/09/2022 17:45

I have a book on my shelf called ‘How to miss the point’. I think you must feature in it! 😀

You compared marrying a consenting adult of the same sex to marrying a child.

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