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Embarrassing, silly character crush

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PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 10:57

I have been pretty down lately and I think that's probably the reason for this.

But I've developed a crush on a celeb, mostly a character he played, but him all round I suppose.

I know there's nothing wrong with a celebrity crush, a lot of people have them but I guess I'm just feeling silly about it. When I sit down to have a cuppa I find myself watching interviews, clips, my FYP on TT is almost exclusively him.

How do I snap out of it. I'm a grown mother FFS!

Just embarrassing.

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knackeredagain · 04/07/2022 12:37

Could be worse. My mate has a proper crush on Alan Partridge 🤣

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:38

LadyCatStark · 04/07/2022 12:33

I don’t think you’re feeling down because of your crush, I think you’re crushing because you’re feeling down. It’s just a bit of escapism when the world is falling apart around us. I’m very late to the part with my major crush on Edward Cullen.

Oh I had that crush too when the books were first published.
I actually made myself mushroom pasta and red coke for tea after reading the diner scene.

It's all coming out now 😂

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ImprobablePuffin · 04/07/2022 12:38

Oh god yes to the PP who said Hopper from stranger things. If you'd have told me in season 1 that he'd be the stuff of my dreams I would have laughed in your face but DING DONG!

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:38

knackeredagain · 04/07/2022 12:37

Could be worse. My mate has a proper crush on Alan Partridge 🤣

Back of the net!

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Vampirethriller · 04/07/2022 12:39

I've got a huge thing for Jack Sparrow, even though he looks like he'd give you five kinds of STD and I don't like Johnny Depp. Had it since I was 21 and haven't given it up yet (nearly 42)

ParanoidGynodroid · 04/07/2022 12:40

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:25

I'm 8 years older, is that terrible 😅

Well, Eddie himself is supposed to be around 18, but Joseph Quinn is 29... which are you 8 years older than ? Actually, who cares, it's all good, crush on!

ImprobablePuffin · 04/07/2022 12:40

Oh yea and Paul Rudd. Oh dear I've got a few on the go Blush

Latenightreader · 04/07/2022 12:41

For me it was Marcus Kane from the 100... If I was struggling to sleep I'd invent better resolutions to his storyline than the one we were given 😳

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:44

ParanoidGynodroid · 04/07/2022 12:40

Well, Eddie himself is supposed to be around 18, but Joseph Quinn is 29... which are you 8 years older than ? Actually, who cares, it's all good, crush on!

Well yeah. I did feel that was pretty yucky which is why I felt relieved when I saw he's actually nearly 30 in real life. (I'm 37)

But to be fair he doesn't look 18 at all does he? He very much looks his real age in ST.

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VenusClapTrap · 04/07/2022 12:44

I enjoy looking at Steve Harrington far more than I should 😅.

But my favourite crush was Ross Poldark. I miss those Sunday evenings.

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 12:46

ParanoidGynodroid · 04/07/2022 12:09

Aw, Eddie was so lovely. Far too young for me to find attractive, though...
Give me Hopper any day! (today would be good)

With you there. Hopper for me too.
I may have a t shirt...😉

OP this is normal and absolutely fine. Don't think badly of yourself. Life is tough and we need these harmless daydreams to get us through.
Love Eddie. He deserved better😪

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 12:46

And Joseph Quinn is a great actor

blablablah · 04/07/2022 12:47

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind1 · 04/07/2022 12:21

I'm 44 and I'm actually in love with Harry Styles, it's all good fun.

Me too - it’s the sparkly jumpsuits 🤩

PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:48

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 12:46

With you there. Hopper for me too.
I may have a t shirt...😉

OP this is normal and absolutely fine. Don't think badly of yourself. Life is tough and we need these harmless daydreams to get us through.
Love Eddie. He deserved better😪

I may have cried a little.

Such an injustice. I won't start ranting incase people haven't seen it but very unfair, especially considering what the people of the town thought he was. Urgh.

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PrettyIdiotic · 04/07/2022 12:49

Vampirethriller · 04/07/2022 12:39

I've got a huge thing for Jack Sparrow, even though he looks like he'd give you five kinds of STD and I don't like Johnny Depp. Had it since I was 21 and haven't given it up yet (nearly 42)

No I completely get this. 100%

And its so weird.

I'm looking at him simultaneously thinking 'his breath must STINK but... What I'd give to kiss him'
Just what?!

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wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 12:50

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind1 · 04/07/2022 12:21

I'm 44 and I'm actually in love with Harry Styles, it's all good fun.

Me too! He's absolutely lovely! Also have Harry t shirts😂
I'm 51...

Greebosmum · 04/07/2022 12:53

Oh my goodness. Just found this thread. So glad it's not just me. Mine is soooooo embarrassing. They played Angie by the Stones on the radio last week, I am now totally consumed by passion for Keith Richards. So hot back in the 70s. Ive ordered loads of books by and about him. DH thinks I'm barmy. He's right of course. He doesn't know the full and hideous extent of my sudden interest though.

kellj · 04/07/2022 12:54

These things tend to pass. It sounds like a little harmless fun to me and who can blame anyone for such with everything going on at the moment.

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind1 · 04/07/2022 12:55

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 12:50

Me too! He's absolutely lovely! Also have Harry t shirts😂
I'm 51...

This is my favourite Harry t-shirt I have

Embarrassing, silly character crush
wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 13:01

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind1 · 04/07/2022 12:55

This is my favourite Harry t-shirt I have

Gorgeous. I have that in black with no writing. I have a "Styles 94" tee too and a couple of hoodies from his tour merch as I've seen him twice in concert😊

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 13:02

Plus this on one of my bookcases.
It's just all good fun OP

Embarrassing, silly character crush
Tallisker · 04/07/2022 13:10

Mine is Jason Momoa, I love big blokes. Wasn't fussed about long hair until him, but always had a thing for beards. Also Jason Isaacs as Jackson Brodie and Tom Hardy in Taboo "I have a use for you". God, yes please Grin

StrawberryLipstickStateOfMind1 · 04/07/2022 13:15

wildthingsinthenight · 04/07/2022 13:01

Gorgeous. I have that in black with no writing. I have a "Styles 94" tee too and a couple of hoodies from his tour merch as I've seen him twice in concert😊

I always need more merch.
I paid a ridiculous amount for his first solo tour for my 40th birthday but so worth it, I saw him a few times in 1D and then last month in Glasgow, should have been Wembley too but Covid got me.

Maggiesgirl · 04/07/2022 13:17

@Hels20 2 months! Your far down the line girl! 2015 fior me.

WellTidy · 04/07/2022 13:17

I had a real thing for Jack Bauer (lead character in 24) for years, but felt not a thing for Kiefer Sutherland who played him. All about the character.

Ditto Brody in Homeland, but nothing at all for Damien Lewis.

I think I’d like to live in the TV.