I have a night out ... come home DH isn't home.

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I have just come back from an extremely rare night out with work. I got back at just gone 1 am (europe). Dd (10) is asleep by herself. Other than the dog, not another living thing in the house.

Obviously, it was agreed between me and dh that it was okay for me to have a night out. All the local pubs are closed. His phone isn't answering. No replies to my texts. Just a half finished glass of red wine, a book and his reading glasses on the kitchen table to show he was here.

What the fuck?!

Are you serious? You’ve come home from a night out and you’ve got a missing person and a minor left home alone?? Why haven’t you phoned the police ffs!! What’s the backstory here for your reaction to be to post on mumsnet instead of phoning the emergency services?

How far away is the nearest open shop?

Missing person or twat gone out thinking he wouldn't get caught?

You’ve definitely checked the house- there’s not a sofa or other bed with a lump in it? He’s not in with dd?? Working in the shed or garage on something that just struck him?

This is what I was wondering?

I mean OP said she's just got back, so within minutes of this happening, she's asking the internet about it rather than actually doing something 🤔

Do you have him on find your phone? Is he car there?

If you're not calling the police, does he have form?

Erm, call the police?!

Are you certain he's not in the toilet?

I wouldnt have thought the police will do anything, certainly not until someone has been gone for 24 hours

Yep, my first thought too

So your daughter is safe?
Wait for him to come home.

I think the same response for both would be appropriate. If he’s missing and in trouble then he needs the police. If he’s snuck out and left his 10yo alone in the early hours then he needs arresting. I’ve decided this is a troll post as it’s preposterous that the op hasn’t done either 🙄

Gone out the back for a ciggie and fallen asleep on the garden bench?

But absolutely yes, even if you didn't want to phone the police, there's a thousand different people I WOULD be phoning before mumsnet sprung to mind!!

He probably gone to meet the hotel room husband from last night's episode.

Has he been found?

Oh, another mysterious husband disappearance. Did we ever find out what happened to Hotel Husband from this morning?

😂

If he’s snuck out and left his 10yo alone in the early hours then he needs arresting.

Ermmm... that's not a crime? There's no legal age where you can leave a child alone. There are recommendations, there are suggested ages but no legal requirement. Of course if anything bad happens then that changes. Depending on the country/culture it might not even meet the threshold for neglect as SS see it.

Check attic, does he have a man cave or you have your wine goggles on🤓

Having a secret fag in the shed?

Is the car there?

Still waiting for the other post from last night's episode.

LOL at "why haven't you called the police???!!!11?!!"

What do you think the police will do when you tell them I came home a minute ago and my husband isn't here?

Oh I missed that one!

what's the time difference OP? Europe's quite broad...