The conclusions I've drawn from what I've seen so far is that JD is a violent, unstable, abusive man and AH is a violent, unstable, abusive woman.
Exactly.
The fact that he's extremely violent and abusive is absolutely without any question of doubt at all.
The fact he beat Amber is without doubt.
Anyone claiming he was never violent ever clearly has an agenda.
Important to realise that Depp funded a very expensive and large-scale media campaign to smear Amber. Old press interviews have vanished from the website of the publication that originally printed them (I have scans of old magazine interviews on my laptop - like interviews dating back to the 90s, even - that were on the magazines' websites four years ago, since then the magazine have removed that issue and only that issue from their site.) Several press outlets are on the record as saying they were contacted by the very very powerful damage control company he hired to trash her reputation, wanting to place fake stories about her. Since the very day she first accused him, I've noticed that whenever any website or social media site or news outlet that has a comment section posts any story about Depp/Heard, within literally minutes there will be dozens or hundreds of comments saying "Amber is an evil liar Johnny is a wonderful gentle soul who is the victim."
The wording of these comments is often identical and the sheer scale of them is far too large not to be part of an orchestrated campaign.