Hello ♥️
Yeah. More than disappointed.
To the point where I had to cut her off.
I haven’t seen her for four years. She will be 28 soon.
I’ll try to be brief:
While pregnant with her first child, she, her drug seller boyfriend, and a friend of theirs distracted my seriously ill, blind, deaf and elderly mum in her own home, and burgled her.
They took almost all of her jewellery, and £600 in cash.
My daughter kept my mum busy, while her boyfriend let their friend in to help steal the items.
We got some of it back, but not my grandmother’s and aunts wedding rings.
We had back seven items of about 50 items taken.
My daughter and the boyfriend (and their friend) then immediately sold the items in a pawnshop, and fled to a different city.
My mum called me saying something about their visit unsettled her, so I told her to go and check her belongings.
When I heard her say “it’s gone, my jewellery and money, it’s gone!”
I can’t put into words the explosive anger I felt.
I’d warned my mum not to let them in the house unless her bedroom door was locked, because I didn’t trust the boyfriend. She kept saying “but he’s been so nice” whenever I said he’s no good, and I had a very strong gut feeling he was not to be trusted.
The police went to see her, they comforted her until my sister could get there. (I couldn’t get there due to disability)
Shortly after that, my mum collapsed, and nearly died.
She was taken into hospital where she was treated for stroke and heart attack symptoms, though they were eventually ruled out.
Unfortunately, she ended up staying in hospital for 11 months.
The trauma of the burglary caused her illnesses to get much worse.
Her digestive system completely shut down, her heart kept slowing down and stopping for several seconds at a time, to the point they gave her a pacemaker.
She had several operations to remove various organs and bits of bowel, one of which she bled out on the table and almost died.
Then she bled out on the ward and almost died.
They put her on TPN (line feed) and was told she can never eat food again. Only have sips of water.
She ended up in a convalescence unit for three months to regain some strength.
That cost her a lot of money.
She returned home, and was doing ok for a while, but then had another turn and almost died. Her heart and organs were failing and developed septicaemia.
Mum eventually passed away very peacefully in October last year.
Due to lockdown over the period she was in hospital, I couldn’t see her often.
And in the two years of lockdown, I only got to see her about 10 times.
It feels like she died years ago.
I got there about 10 minutes too late to hold her hand as she passed, but my sister and her daughter were there, with the priest.
As for my daughter…
She pled not guilty to everything. She denied it was her on CCTV selling the items, and denied it was her on the neighbour’s cctv going in and out of the house.
Ultimately, with hard evidence stacked against her, and my mum’s victim impact statement, she and her boyfriend were found guilty and sentenced to one year imprisonment, suspended for a year.
They were told to pay my mum just £500 in compensation.
She never saw a penny of it.
Daughter has since had two more kids.
The police told me she’d given birth to the first one.
About six weeks after the burglary, half my hair fell out.
For those that say life is too short, and reach out…
No.
Life is too short to allow such evil toxicity, family or not.
The doctors said the trauma shortened her life by a few years.
I will never forgive her.