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If your child was eating their eighth apple today..

382 replies

hibbledibble · 22/02/2022 13:52

When would you tell them to stop?

It's just fresh apple, cut into pieces. They are a big fruit lover.

OP posts:
Monopolyiscrap · 22/02/2022 17:09

@incognitoforthisone

A three-year-old needs maybe 1,400 calories a day, so yours is probably consuming at least half their entire daily food requirement, possibly more, in the form of apples. That's not ideal. Great that your kid likes fruit, but if they're having three square meals a day as well as all the apples, it's pretty excessive. And they need a lot more variety in their diet than just eating one relatively sugary fruit all the time. I don't think a three-year-old needs eight portions of any snack, whether that's an apple or anything else.
No 8 apples is about 400 calories. Far less than you would think.
incognitoforthisone · 22/02/2022 17:10

@hibbledibble

Dentist is very happy with all my children's teeth!

Clearly this has offended some people Grin

Sorry!

Nobody's offended. You asked a question and people answered it. The fact that the answers weren't the ones you expected or wanted doesn't mean that people are offended.
Twolostsoulsswimminginafishbow · 22/02/2022 17:10

Is this some weird humble brag? If so it failed.

TeeBee · 22/02/2022 17:12

I'd have stopped them after 3.

gogohm · 22/02/2022 17:14

Balance is key, apples aren't the worst to over indulge but I would swop one for carrot and cucumber batons, one for a satsuma and one for a banana then say no more snacks

Namechangehereandnow · 22/02/2022 17:15

I would tell their mum to get a grip and feed them more sensibly.

obstacalling · 22/02/2022 17:15

Better than sweets. And litres of juice

Nocutenamesleft · 22/02/2022 17:18

[quote Staryflight445]@SilverDoe bananas should never be eaten in excess.
Potassium in excess can be quite dangerous.[/quote]
You actually need to eat an insane amount of bananas to worry about potassium levels.

maddiemookins16mum · 22/02/2022 17:18

Greedy

caranations · 22/02/2022 17:23

Apples are acidic and eating that many a day is going to damage your teeth. Not to mention huge fluctuations in blood sugar from all the fructose, and what I can only describe as intestinal discomfort.

Not to mention the arsenic.

AmyDudley · 22/02/2022 17:24

Better than sweets. And litres of juice

Yes and better than a 20 pack of Marlboro but no one has suggested that as an alternative either.

RaginaPhalange · 22/02/2022 17:25

I would've stopped at 2. That's way to much sugar for a 3 year old.

User134342134 · 22/02/2022 17:26

You are setting the child up for an eating disorder, especially if you're actually going online to stealth brag about it. Regardless of food, everyone needs to learn there are portion size limits. You decide to eat X amount, and then stop even if your body still wants to eat more. Children can't decide so an adult has to say you get X apples today and then stop then when the limit is reached.

Overeating healthy food or being encourage to overeat fruit is absolutely nothing to be proud of. Called orthorexia...there are thousands of "fit and healthy" people who don't have positive relationships with food at all. (FWIW Lots of vegans falls into this category because they can use the health aspect to conceal disordered habits and overeating specific food groups)

Christmas1988 · 22/02/2022 17:27

2 apples max, it won’t have any nutritional value after that.

FedUpOfLighteningCrotch · 22/02/2022 17:30

You know the sugar and acid in apples is just as bad as giving your child sweets throughout the day? It’s an attack on their teeth consistently throughout the day which is going to cause tooth decay very, very quickly if they’re making their way through 8 apples, as I can’t imagine their eating 4 apples twice a day in one sitting?

Please stop with the apples.

You’re not ‘doing well’ just because they want to eat a lot of one fruit a day. You should be offering a varied diet of snacks.

Maybe when they ask for an apple cut one up and give it with some cheese, some sticks of carrot/celery/cucumber.

But there’s also comes a point when you need to say no. My 2yo has recently started asking for snacks consistently; even though she was eating her main meals fine.. but over a week or so she was filling up on snacks and eating less lunch/dinner and it became noticeable. So we cut the snacks, decided she would have breakfast, then fruit, lunch then a ‘platter’ (crisps, veggie sticks, cheese and sometimes slice of ham), then dinner - occasionally if she had dinner early and asked for something else she would have a banana or pear.

But anyway, cut the apples. That’s a ridiculous amount, she doesn’t need them, they’re doing more harm than good especially to her teeth.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 22/02/2022 17:32

Yes, your DC will get tummy ache. My DH loves apples and gave himself heartburn from too many, and I don't think even he was getting through 8 a day!

If DC's hungry then something less acid and more filling is a good idea. Nuts, crumpets, cheese sandwich. Balanced diet not just loads of one thing.

HomeHomeInTheRange · 22/02/2022 17:34

I wouldn't let a 3 year old eat more than 2.

georgarina · 22/02/2022 17:36

3 would be the limit

Otherwise upset tummy

PeakyBlender · 22/02/2022 17:36

I would stop them at 2, I never used to let them have that much sugar in one day though.

Jacopo · 22/02/2022 17:37

Haha if this is a one off I would completely ignore it and forget about it.
People here are hysterical about sugar in fruit.

saleorbouy · 22/02/2022 17:38

I would at least make sure they had eaten to other food they had been provided at meal times.
If they have space for 8 apples are they eating sufficient at meal times?
It's not a disaster eating 8 apples as long as this is not the mainstay of their diet or at the expense of not being hungry at mealtimes.

WorraLiberty · 22/02/2022 17:39

Blimey, I'd expect him to be pissing out cider at that rate Shock

TheChosenTwo · 22/02/2022 17:40

I would be thinking they’re hungry as not eating enough at meals Confused surely you must realise that eating 8 apples in addition to other fruit and meals isn’t particularly normal?

diamondpony80 · 22/02/2022 17:41

If it’s a normal size apple then one is plenty for a 3 year old. 2 max. Anything more than that is just greedy and far more sugar than a child of that age should be consuming. Is there a reason for the child eating 8 apples, other than the fact that they can get away with it?

CremeEggThief · 22/02/2022 17:41

I doubt the OP is going to come back, but what a strange thing to congratulate yourself on as a parent!!!Confused

When I was an early years supply teacher, I was quite concerned about the few children I came across who helped themselves to more than 2 or 3 pieces of fruit during morning sessions (when the children didn't have a set snack time).

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