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Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 19: Calmly through the day

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MissConductUS · 30/10/2021 23:53

I've started a new one. Please join us and share the boring and mundane things happening in your world. It will be calming for all.

Here is the link to the prior thread:

Come and tell me your dull and unexciting news 18: Calmly through the day

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DoctorTwo · 10/12/2021 21:31

I went for my blood test yesterday and 2 nurses couldn't get blood out of me. Believe me, they left four holes in me. :o They said 'we should send him to Ruby, she could get blood out of a stone'. So I saw Ruby this morning and she lived up to her reputation.

In boiler news, the filling loop is as far away from the boiler as it is possible to get without it being outside, so once pressurised the damned thing refused to fire up, the engineer diagnosed a failed internal fan. It's now on order, I only have to freeze a few more days.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 11/12/2021 11:50

All the snow is gone again.
I prepared 2 batches of dough for cookies cocos and hazelnut.
And now I am mentally preparing to clean the bathroom and hang the laundry.

Pheebs2021 · 11/12/2021 12:24

Nothing to report here I'm sat under blankets reading my book. Happy Saturday all xx

MissConductUS · 11/12/2021 12:27

I had a good nights sleep and am almost ready to check out of the hotel and head home. It's just half seven here so hopefully an easy drive home.

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HildaTablet · 11/12/2021 13:04

I'm trying to psych myself up to go out for a walk but it's overcast and not particularly warm so I'm reluctant.

Having swept up our leaves to get them in the green garden bins for the last collection of the year, the bin men inexplicably emptied only one of our two bins. A dialogue with the council ensued in which they maintained that the bin was 'contaminated'. After much patient insistence on our part that both bins contained fallen leaves, and why would they empty one and ignore the other one right next to it, they tried to claim that the contaminating item was 'a dining chair'. In a garden waste bin.

We pointed out how bonkers this was and after a further argument polite exchange of views they sent the bin lorry out and emptied the bin. What a faff.

HelenaJustina · 11/12/2021 15:24

I’ve taken 3DC to do their Christmas shopping this morning and not lost my rag with any of them.

Just been for a run, it is cold and rainy.

Champagneforeveryone · 11/12/2021 16:19

helena, I've just taken DM to do her Christmas shopping and not lost my rah with her either. We are indeed patient souls Grin

hivemindneeded · 11/12/2021 16:49

Hi everyone. Regular-ish on this lovely thread (more lurker than poster) but name changed.

Today's dull news
Dh was supposed to be singing messiah tonight but has such a heavy head cold he had to withdraw. I was supposed to be going to listen but will stay home to give him lemsip and hot water bottles.

After six months finally had a hair cut. It cost a fortune and is just OK. Feeling a bit down at having to spend so much (DH and DSs haircuts cost between £10-18 - the most being a really excellent central London barber.) Mine is over £70 and still not what I asked for.

Moan over. Also today did some painting of scruffy bits of the house to refresh it before DC get home from uni. Went to bootcamp. Curry for tea.

Deathraystare · 11/12/2021 17:40

Managed to get more data on my phone eventually so was able to order a new tv. Not from Argos or John Lewis - they aren't delivering! I have ordered from ao.com. It is coming Wednesday. I shall be so happy as my present one wont let me watch any of the ITVs or Channel Fours. Sadly it is again a 32" which is too big for my small room but I wanted a tv/DVD combi. Argos had a few but with not delivering - and not everyone has a bloody car!!! I don't and the nearest one to collect is miles away anyway. So Argos and John Lewis can deffo do one.

I have been out and about a bit. Went to two plays and had a nice meal afterwards and have seen the latest James Bond - saw it yesterday. Too much lovey dovey and not enough villainry for my liking. Oh well. Sadly my friend had to dash off afterwards due to the bloody tube strike.

Lemonsandlemonade · 11/12/2021 18:21

@Deathraystare I quite fancy seeing the latest James Bond film. What plays did you see?

@hivemindneeded so annoying having hair cut that you’re not happy.

Took child we have on short breaks and DS to garden centre wasn’t a total disaster but close enough!!

HelenaJustina · 11/12/2021 18:50

@Champagneforeveryone our halos are glowing… I have also now decked the halls with the DC, again without any blood being shed. As a reward I’m going to retreat to the bath with a glass of mulled wine while they are plugged into Strictly.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 11/12/2021 19:14

I am finally baking ... yay.

mathanxiety · 11/12/2021 19:26

I'm spending the day organising DD3 for a ten day trip to Washington DC to see her old haunts and her two sisters. Her semester ended yesterday, all her final exams are behind her and final papers submitted - well on time - and she thought it would be nice to get away when the weather is so dull and the days are so dark.

Silkies, I would definitely arrange your operation privately. I am aghast that your diagnosis and treatment would take so long.

Champagneforeveryone · 11/12/2021 19:32

Bravo helena, very well deserved.

We are off to the pub shortly and DS will give us a lift home. I feel this is almost peak parenting Grin

MissConductUS · 11/12/2021 19:38

My drive home was uneventful, other than the presence of some very thick fog. There was about a 20 mile stretch when visibility was down to 30 to 40 yards and I had to drive very slowly. I discovered how nice it was to have Google maps on the screen in the dashboard as it made it easy to see how the road was going to bend further up. The Subaru EyeSight system that scans the road and the lane markers stopped working during the worst of it.

I was home by 9:30, had a proper cup of coffee, unpacked, and had a visit with the cats. I went to the warehouse club, where I witnessed a woman in the vestibule with a dog in a buggy/carriage, one clearly designed for dogs. It's possible she was there because they refused entry to the dog.

Doctortwo, some people have veins that are very hard to locate. It is a skill and a gift to draw blood from those patients.

Silkie, I would seriously consider going private, as Math has suggested. They are telling you now that it's a six week wait after your imaging study comes back in two weeks. Two weeks from now it may be an 8-10 week wait for surgery. They won't actually book the surgery until they have the radiology report.

It's nice to be home. I really don't care for traveling for work.

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Lemonsandlemonade · 11/12/2021 20:06

@DoctorTwo I had similar issue when having bloods for ivf to which I had a lot! The thing I have found helped was making sure I ate well before hand. Warming hands up before hand. Drinking a warm drink. I dunno if that’s medical fact but what I found. 😊

Watching strictly. Am very tired tonight.

Silkieschickens · 11/12/2021 23:18

I am looking into going private as the NHS reply just seems to be you can leave cancer untreated and it doesn't affect outcomes for 3 months Angry, the GP already took 4 months and it does affect outcomes. And you need to phone a charity for mental health support. Angry Possibly do but I want treatment not mental health support, if I was getting treatment I would not need mental health support.

I don't think the CT takes a week and a half to come back I think its more a couple of days but then they give it an extra week before they tell the patient if they are stage 4 or not. But the issue is I cannot have surgery before I have seen a doctor and the nurses will not let me book a doctors appointment, the doctor said I was to see him on 17th December but the nurses are saying no. The CT did take a week to get rather than the 3 days or so the doctor expected but they won't even book doctor for following week.

Doctor said to me last time I was on the waiting list for surgery and he has written that in his notes to GP saying I went on in the 3rd December. But nurses were insisting it would be 4 to 6 weeks from seeing a doctor which they won't even book atm. Trouble is I can never get through to my nurse and they say to speak to any nurse, Normally you can only get hold of one random nurse as all others are busy, they are very short staffed and working long days. I think there may be some confusion about the plan but I want to at least be able to see a doctor and ideally surgery if not tamoxifen. But being refused both atm but its the nurse. Will keep calling on Monday but it gets very stressful.

Silkieschickens · 11/12/2021 23:20

Sorry that was not very calm.

Congrats to your DD Maths

Acornsandleaves · 11/12/2021 23:53

That makes me so cross Silkies. You shouldn't have to fight for adequate treatment. Coming to terms with your diagnosis must be stressful enough without rubbish systems adding even more stress.

Glad you got home safely MissConduct. Congrats to Helena and Champagne on managing to avoid Xmas shopping rage! I've spent today ordering loads of stuff online and I'm feeling very relieved that I've got it done.

Lemonsandlemonade · 12/12/2021 06:03

@Silkieschickens that gives me such rage. Don’t worry about the lack of calmness.

Nydj · 12/12/2021 09:33

@Silkieschickens, that’s really frustrating - please don’t feel free to be ‘not calm’ - I think we are all raging on your behalf.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 12/12/2021 09:59

RANT - a calm one:
My admiration for the NHS - (I have been repeatedly told that it is the envy of the world) - is growing in leaps and bounds. And I thought we had a 'Pflegenotstand' (care systems in state of emergency).

I have made cocos and hazelnut cookies and will continue baking after I have ironed 8 linen shirts. I have left it too late again they are 'dry-dry'.

Silkieschickens · 12/12/2021 10:41

Thanks all. Going to see about moving to private hospital on Monday but its so expensive, I had insurance in my last job and it was so much faster there but not sure how it works for cancer but I cannot even get to see a doctor at hospital with NHS at the moment and no sign of treatment and talking of a further 2 months with no treatment. I might move abroad with DH after this so I dont need to go through this again if it reoccurs but need kids to finish school first. Just spent weekend crying about it.

Hopefully having a Sunday roast. DD is out with friends. I am having to isolate as well as if I get covid surgery is postponed 7 weeks and its at highest level ever in DDs school.

Lemonsandlemonade · 12/12/2021 10:47

Is there anything you need a
@Silkieschickens?

ladygracie · 12/12/2021 10:50

@Silkieschickens I think we live nearish to each other. I lurk on here but don’t post often. Your local hospital is A?
Please do DM me if you need anything - I am v happy to help.