I have a serious crush on...

[headinthecloudsnow]

My sons football coach

Happy marriage, no intention to act at all, we share the same friendship groups so are often in the pub at the same time with friends/DCs.

I've got it bad!

Who's your crush right now? Don't be shy.

Louis-Do Lencquesaing, Edelman in Spiral. Somewhat against my better judgment.

@Butternutsqoosh

Foxy from SAS Who Dares Wins - I would do ANYTHING he told me to 😂 ❤️ sexy AF!!

I agree, I clearly have a thing for DS' on SAS who dares wins

Do you think there's men out there who have secret crushes on ordinary women like us? Or is it more of a female thing?

Jake Gyllenhaal
Jon Bernthal
James McAvoy
Daniel Brühl
Mads Mikkelsen
Sam Claflin
Sam Heughan
The list could go on and on

No judgement here - but how do you manage it? It’s hard to switch off attraction and connection with others, even if you have a ring on your finger!

@terriblecrush

@Isla248 for me personally it's just attraction, there's no connection thank goodness. I can imagine that would be incredibly difficult.

[quote headinthecloudsnow]@terriblecrush oh gosh how did you end up kissing?

Have you told your DH? No judgement here by the way, just curious! How did you feel once you'd done it? [/quote]
He kissed me. I socialise a lot with colleagues & have done for years, including my crush. He wasn't even my crush before that...both married and totally off limits.

We were the last to get a cab & he....just kissed me. We stopped v quickly but then it was as if a switch had flipped & I saw him in a totally different light.

I blame him 100% as he's clearly a knob for cheating. But god, that kiss...

@Isla248

No judgement here - but how do you manage it? It’s hard to switch off attraction and connection with others, even if you have a ring on your finger!

Completely. It's really, really difficult TBH.

Trouble is we do have a connection & a lot in common but I've distanced myself & remain polite and professional. I'm not going there. It would be an utter shitstorm.

However, I do sometimes daydream (in boring meetings particularly) about the utterly filthy things I'd like to do to him. But that's staying firmly locked in my imagination.

And no, haven't told DH as it would just hurt him and worry him as I work so closely with this bloke.

I NEVER saw this coming. I do wish it would switch back off though. Hopefully it will at some point.

I'm another one with a crush on ds teacher. He is beautiful. I'm newly single so I'm enjoying my crush but I don't want it to go anywhere other than excitement on the school run. I have seen him catching a sneaky glance at me though.