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Policeman kicks 15 year old girl in the stomach

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GreekTragedy · 01/10/2021 09:58

I couldn't see a thread about this so thought I'd start one.

I am completely shocked at this video.

This "officer" came out of nowhere and did a flying kick to a young girl!!

Now I can understand police getting a it violent in the heat of the moment but this? This is outright disgusting.

That officer should be charged.

What the fuck has happened to our police force??

www.aol.co.uk/news/cop-fly-kicks-15-old-123400054.html

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MyPatronusIsACat · 01/10/2021 13:46

Disgusting. Hmm

As some posters have said, no matter HOW dickish this 15 y.o. girl behaved, the police officer behaved appallingly. Proving he cannot do the job properly.

I genuinely feel that although some police officers are lovely, and go into the profession to help people, there is also a minority of aggressive and misogynistic and violent men, who purposely become police officers, so they have the power to attack and maim and assault, (usually women and non-white people.)

I don't think there is another profession where they are so many racist and misogynistic thugs as there are in the police.

As I say, not ALL of them are like this obviously, but IMO, the police profession has more racist, sexist thugs than any other profession.

user1497207191 · 01/10/2021 13:46

@hamstersarse

For those of you with children, maybe ask yourselves how you would feel if that Officer on the ground was your daughter or son - would you want a colleague to rush in and get the girl off them?

Such is the blindness on this thread, the police are literally not seen as sentient humans anymore. Apparently they should just take the shit they get on an everyday basis without question!

No, they should follow their extensive training in how to handle/restrain people without causing them injury.

Agressive, out of control, officers have no place in the police force.

GreatPotato · 01/10/2021 13:46

For those of you with children, maybe ask yourselves how you would feel if that Officer on the ground was your daughter or son - would you want a colleague to rush in and get the girl off them?

Frankly, I'd expect my adult child to be more capable at restraining a teenage girl. I work with troubled teens exactly like these girls. Yes they can be very difficult to deal with and aggressive, but we never have to wrestle them to the ground. I've seen women close retirement age make a better job of it.

The colleague coming in to "get the girl off" had handcuffs and the benefit of surprise. He just had to restrain her in the conventional way.

Quite apart from what people believe to be what the girls deserve , it's actions like this that have so destroyed people's faith in the police. They harm their own organisation when they behave like this

user1497207191 · 01/10/2021 13:47

@MyPatronusIsACat

Disgusting. Hmm

As some posters have said, no matter HOW dickish this 15 y.o. girl behaved, the police officer behaved appallingly. Proving he cannot do the job properly.

I genuinely feel that although some police officers are lovely, and go into the profession to help people, there is also a minority of aggressive and misogynistic and violent men, who purposely become police officers, so they have the power to attack and maim and assault, (usually women and non-white people.)

I don't think there is another profession where they are so many racist and misogynistic thugs as there are in the police.

As I say, not ALL of them are like this obviously, but IMO, the police profession has more racist, sexist thugs than any other profession.

Why single out men? When I was in the force, there were some pretty nasty/aggressive WPCs too.
LizBennet · 01/10/2021 13:47

That is totally and utterly excessive from a grown man to a teenage girl! People are defending this?! 🙄

ILoveJamaica · 01/10/2021 13:48

So much speculation going on here.

Not sure why there gender is relevant. Two aggressive people resisted the local plod. The coppers didn’t know if they were drunk, sober or on drugs. While one copper was grappling on the ground with a second assisting him a third copper ensured the other two were un impeded. Old mate could have had a knife - the copper needed to eliminate the possible threat and contain the melee. He did that. Well done, mate

Agreed. Got to love the Armchair critics who have never been in a life threatening situation. "Oh well, I would have done it this way". Why don't you join the Police and come back in a year and tell us how naive you were back in the day?

These girls were resisting arrest and actually attacking an Officer. If you do that, then please expect things to get physical, as there is literally no other option once you start bashing an Officer.

Drunk people are asked several times to go home before it even gets to this stage. Officers try to avoid arrests as much as possible, as it takes 2 Officers off the streets for several hours (lots of paper work), and it means that cells are occupied, which would be best saved for more serious offenders.

These girls will have been given multiple chances to calm down and go home. You conveniently don't see this in the film, as it's been cleverly chopped to whip up as much froth as possible from Joe Public - which as you can see here, has worked like a charm.

wanttomarryamillionaire · 01/10/2021 13:48

If my daughter behaved like that I would have told her it served her right!

TedImgoingmad · 01/10/2021 13:48

@Feelslikealot

Such is the blindness on this thread, the police are literally not seen as sentient humans anymore. Apparently they should just take the shit they get on an everyday basis without question!

That's their job.

No. They are required to follow the training they are given. They are required to act in a way that members of the public faced with a similar scenario are not. In exchange, they are given powers that the rest of us do not have. And yes, they are paid out of the public purse, trained and supported to do their job the right way, not whichever way they fancy in the heat of the moment.
Porfre · 01/10/2021 13:52

@Alcemeg

Would I mind if a policeman drop-kicked my lovely teenager daughter as she waited quietly holding a posy of flowers? Yes, I'd be furious.

Can't say I really care about these two little shits.

Grin
TooBigForMyBoots · 01/10/2021 13:53

Dealing with 2 drunk teenage girls is not a life theatening situation.Hmm My dad was a bar manager he managed to deal with similar situations to this on a regular basis without assaulting children. If a cop cant do the same, he shouldn't be in the police.

Feelslikealot · 01/10/2021 13:53

These girls were resisting arrest and actually attacking an Officer. If you do that, then please expect things to get physical, as there is literally no other option once you start bashing an Officer

So... You're actually defending this police officer running in and kicking this girl? Just so we are clear, you think this was a reasonable thing to do?

Deadringer · 01/10/2021 13:55

Of course the girls were behaving disgracefully, no one is denying that. I have a lot of sympathy for the police and would murder my dc if they ever behaved like that. But that kicker cop used unreasonable force, and he didn't seem to think she had a weapon, because it didn't look like he was looking for one, either on her person, or on the ground around her.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 01/10/2021 13:56

Bet this thing in the video is a relation of yours or a mirror of how yours behave

Now you are just being silly

TartanJumper · 01/10/2021 13:57

Seeing as girl one was on the floor and reasonably under control, the back up 2 could have dealt with the second girl quickly and then assisted their colleague.

Easy to say with hindsight, of course.

RufustheBadgeringReindeer · 01/10/2021 13:59

apparently they should just take the shit they get on an everyday basis without question!

Absolutely no one has said that…why do you feel the need to make stuff up

TedImgoingmad · 01/10/2021 13:59

@ILoveJamaica said So much speculation going on here.

Including by you.

You brought up the possibility of them being both repeat offenders and known knife carriers. So please answer my question. Is rolling around on the floor with one of them while the other remains standing and free the the correct police procedure to deal with knife carriers? Watching the video we have all watched, is that what you would have done if you had thought for a minute either was armed? I'm asking because this is undoubtedly the excuse Karate Cop and his defenders will be using for his unique brand of intervention.

ILoveJamaica · 01/10/2021 13:59

My dad was a bar manager he managed to deal with similar situations to this on a regular basis without assaulting children

What did he do, if people were politely asked to leave the pub, but they refused?

Pumperthepumper · 01/10/2021 14:02

@wanttomarryamillionaire

If my daughter behaved like that I would have told her it served her right!
What if it had ruptured her stomach and she’d died?
Pumperthepumper · 01/10/2021 14:03

@ILoveJamaica

So much speculation going on here.

Not sure why there gender is relevant. Two aggressive people resisted the local plod. The coppers didn’t know if they were drunk, sober or on drugs. While one copper was grappling on the ground with a second assisting him a third copper ensured the other two were un impeded. Old mate could have had a knife - the copper needed to eliminate the possible threat and contain the melee. He did that. Well done, mate

Agreed. Got to love the Armchair critics who have never been in a life threatening situation. "Oh well, I would have done it this way". Why don't you join the Police and come back in a year and tell us how naive you were back in the day?

These girls were resisting arrest and actually attacking an Officer. If you do that, then please expect things to get physical, as there is literally no other option once you start bashing an Officer.

Drunk people are asked several times to go home before it even gets to this stage. Officers try to avoid arrests as much as possible, as it takes 2 Officers off the streets for several hours (lots of paper work), and it means that cells are occupied, which would be best saved for more serious offenders.

These girls will have been given multiple chances to calm down and go home. You conveniently don't see this in the film, as it's been cleverly chopped to whip up as much froth as possible from Joe Public - which as you can see here, has worked like a charm.

Is it in your training to do flying kicks towards the stomachs of children to restrain them?
yourhairiswinterfire · 01/10/2021 14:03

as there is literally no other option once you start bashing an Officer.

There was literally no other option available to the male officer in this video? It was impossible for him to grab the girl that had her back to him to restrain her?

TooBigForMyBoots · 01/10/2021 14:03

He had a number of tactics depending on the situation. Just as properly trained bouncers do. Kicking people was never one of them.

Feelslikealot · 01/10/2021 14:06

If ilovejamaica is or was a police officer i think we can safely assume that they are/ were one of the ones that are the problem.

Laiste · 01/10/2021 14:08

I really would like to think that the majority of the police force have been better trained and have developed better judgment than an average member of joe public.

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Option 1) Rush up and fly kick the 15 year old girl to the ground (around the buttocks or lower if poss, but if not ... meh) if it looks like she's being a ''dick'' because you never know what might be happening.

Does that appear anywhere in police training?

Because the above is actually being offered on this thread as a reasonable thought process for an officer on duty.

Weather or not id be 'proud' of a child of mine behaving like that is neither here nor there on a thread discussing the behaviour of a police officer on duty. He was at work, as a trained policeman. She wasn't. She was a kid, dicking around.
Why the hell is her behaviour being held up as some kind of excuse for his??

ILoveJamaica · 01/10/2021 14:10

If ilovejamaica is or was a police officer i think we can safely assume that they are/ were one of the ones that are the problem

More assumptions. I actually got fed up of dealing with so much shite on a daily basis, the same crap over and over and over. You can't comprehend it until you've lived it.

CuckooCall · 01/10/2021 14:10

@hamstersarse

So if your 15 year old was playing up then you think the best way to deal with that situation would be to kick her in the stomach? Would you be happy for a teacher at your child's school to kick them in the stomach when they were misbehaving? What about your partner? Or is it just police who you feel should be allowed to kick children?

@CuckooCall

Would you be happy with your daughter resisting arrest and being abusive to police if she was "playing up"?

Both can be wrong. If my dd behaved badly and needed to be arrested then I would agree with that. I can also agree that arresting her by kicking her to the ground is also unacceptable. It isn't one or the other.
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