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Bring your worries over here, the Night Shift are still here to mind them

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2018SoFarSoGreat · 20/07/2021 16:56

New thread here, since the Last Thread has ever so slowly filled up. Isn't it amazing how little our worries crept up in the night when the world was actually one big worry?

Pandemic or not, this is the place to just park your worries. We don't ask questions, or try to solve your problems. We just hold them, tenderly, carefully, until you are strong enough to take them back. If they choose not to come back, all the better.

Signing in for the Night Shift, V3!

OP posts:
Wearethetwirl · 30/07/2021 08:03

@2018SoFarSoGreat

@Hannayeah

Thank you both. I did get some sleep after that. Smile

FuzzyPuffling · 30/07/2021 08:38

Oh you brilliant warriors. Thank you. I had a much better sleep after dumping on you gorgeous people.
I'm reminded of the saying "In the kindness of strangers we see the face of God". Whether people of faith or not, there is much truth in that.

User018475022 · 30/07/2021 21:33

Could I just ask somebody to mind my heavy mind? It isn't full of anything particularly just feeling a bit troubled.

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 30/07/2021 22:04

user

I can mind your mind. It might be considerably lighter by the time you get it back though. 🥴

I’ve had a bit of a day engaging with a clown when I should know better really.

So, you will help me get my inner core of cow settled and I will pummel down your worries by making her bed with them.

Win win.

Will that do?

May you sleep the sleep of the unladen 🌻

GenuineKlatchianPottery · 30/07/2021 23:01

Signing in for the night watch. Any worries can be tucked up nice and cozy at the end of the bed. Me and the cat will take care of them while you sleep.

stilldumdedumming · 01/08/2021 05:14

Please mind mine. If there's anyone around. I've been in hospital all night with teenage dd. It's looking like meningitis. I'm so worried at having to leave her. She's quite well and I only came to hospital because 111 told me to. She will be having a lumbar puncture without a parent present tomorrow.

BelladiMamma · 01/08/2021 06:22

@stilldumdedumming

Please mind mine. If there's anyone around. I've been in hospital all night with teenage dd. It's looking like meningitis. I'm so worried at having to leave her. She's quite well and I only came to hospital because 111 told me to. She will be having a lumbar puncture without a parent present tomorrow.
Holding this for you. She will be surrounded by care and get professional attention. She will know you love her 💜 even if she has to face some of it alone. She won't be in pain because that's their job, they'll look after her.
AlloftheTime · 01/08/2021 22:25

@stilldumdedumming - strength and love.
If anyone has the time could you hold my anxiety- it interferes with my sleep and I’m weary of it

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 01/08/2021 22:39

I have time. I also have fat hands.

Your anxiety is safe with me. I say safe. I mean squished.

Have a sleep on me 🌻 x ☺️😴

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 01/08/2021 22:41

stilldumdedumming

Sending hope and strength and healing 🌻 x

stilldumdedumming · 01/08/2021 23:17

@BelladiMamma @SheldonesqueTheBstard
@AlloftheTime

Thank you- they've let me stay with her in a side room. So no sleep but the lumbar puncture is done (brave girl) and we did it together 💪

2018SoFarSoGreat · 01/08/2021 23:40

Well done @stilldumdedumming! Two sheroes.

Try to get a little sleep if you can. You'll need your strength again for tomorrow 💪

OP posts:
OnceUponAMidnightBeery · 02/08/2021 01:00

I’m here to mind any worries that need to be parked for the night. If I fall asleep I have a terrierist, a boarding border collie, and a 🦜 who will quite happily chew on them for you... disclaimer: worries may not be returned in the same condition you left them in Blush

Hannayeah · 02/08/2021 04:55

@OnceUponAMidnightBeery

I’ll take you up on that. I’m leaving my worries about my brother with your terrierist. It’s quite fitting actually.

AlloftheTime · 02/08/2021 20:28

@stilldumdedumming hope you are feeling calmer and that you’ve had positive news at the hospital.

I’m still feeling flaky so going to have an early night, if anyone has space for my insecurities I could do with parking them up for the dark hours

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 02/08/2021 20:36

allofthetime

I have space if you are happy for me to hold them. The space is down at the river. I’m going to float them down towards the sea.

So I won’t technically be holding them once I Chuck them in the water.

It is either that or I sit on them.

And they could get lost in a lurk.

Your call. Either way you will kip so happy days 🌻 x

Echoing your post to stilldumdedumming x

stilldumdedumming · 02/08/2021 21:54

Initial thoughts are ruling out meningitis. And we are home - but lots of pain still. I would return the minding tonight but I must sleep!!

GenuineKlatchianPottery · 02/08/2021 21:54

I’m signing in for the night watch. Any worries can keep me company.
I have fresh bedding and the cat is in a cuddly mood tonight, so he can snuggle them into submission.

stilldumdedumming · 02/08/2021 21:55

And thank you for your posts @SheldonesqueTheBstard @AlloftheTime @2018SoFarSoGreat

AlloftheTime · 02/08/2021 22:00

@SheldonesqueTheBstard
What an offer! I’m smiling and have liquid sparkles in my eyes at the same time x
Thank you, means a great deal that you replied
PS
It has to be the river…

SheldonesqueTheBstard · 02/08/2021 22:13

All
May the sparkles in your eyes light the way to your dreams.

The neds smoking whatever down at the river will guide your anxieties to the rapids.

Once they are there, there is no stopping them.

(I made the same mistake on a tractor inner tube once… the rapids - not the smoking!)

Sleep well all and dumdedum

Tomorrow is another day. And the water is cleansing and the air is fresh. Once you get away from the neds Wink 🌻 x

ABitOfAShitShow · 02/08/2021 22:22

Signing in!

Happy to take on some worries but I think @SheldonesqueTheBstard sounds like an excellent pair of hands with far more inventive means of dealing with our woes!

So sorry you’re having a bad time @AlloftheTime and @stilldumdedumming - and anyone else who needs to hear it. Flowers

BelladiMamma · 02/08/2021 23:53

@stilldumdedumming hoping you're doing ok

BelladiMamma · 02/08/2021 23:53

Who can take my worries about hospital appointment tomorrow? 💙

ABitOfAShitShow · 03/08/2021 00:04

I’ve got them @BelladiMamma. Leave them with me and if you must, you can collect them in the morning.

Hope everything goes ok tomorrow.