My husband died suddenly today

[vickibee]

And I don’t know what to do. It has not sunk in yet and I only know it happened at work around noon.
I don’t know if there is anyone up to talk to I just feel I need some human contact

So so sorry. You loved each other very much. You sound like me and my husband, a proper no nonsense Yorkshire couple. Thinking of you both xx

So sorry for your loss

So sorry for your loss, sending love to you and your son

Just send you hugs, I hope you are surrounded my loving friends and family

[quote LadyPenelope68]@vickibee

It most certainly was the Coliseum! 😀[/quote]
Sending you lots of love and best wishes vickibee from a fellow ex Coliseum goer
Do you remember the “classy” laser show they used to start the evening with? Did you ever walk into the big mirrored wall on the end upstairs in Main Street when drunk?

Oh I’m so sorry ☹️

vickibee, I'm so sorry for your loss

I'm so very sorry for your loss xxx

I am so sorry for your loss.
The coroner's officer will be the person who will communicate with you and let you know when you can make funeral arrangements. They are usually very kind, helpful people.
We had my son's funeral 4 weeks after his sudden death because it happened over a bank holiday and there had to be a PM and the police were involved.
In the event, it was a good thing because it gave me time and space to deal with everything and plan what we wanted. Take your time. Friends and family will want to help and support you.

Maybe ask for this thread to be moved to the bereavement board so that you can come back to it in future?

@Hoppinggreen
Those lasers were classy …… for Halifax!

Did you ever walk into the big mirrored wall on the end upstairs in Main Street when drunk?
Noooooo, never …… ever ……..often 😁

I’m so sorry to hear this. It must have been a terrible shock. How awful.

@vickibee
As others have said, definitely contact Winston’s Wish, they have some really good information. Also, contact the school as they will be able to offer pastoral support for your son. But also, take care of yourself as well x

@sleepraptor , what a thoughtful and practical post.

So sorry for your loss Vicky.,💐

Hi Vicky,

I'm not far from you, just over the border in West Yorkshire. My DH died this January when I was 53 and also have a son with ASD (18)

Tbh he's the one that's accepted the easiest. You can PM me if you want to chat x

I'm really sorry about what happened my heart breaks for you and your son

So sorry for your loss 💐

I'm so sorry for your loss xxx sending lots of his to you and your son xx

So sorry for your loss. 🌸
My ds2 who's profoundly deaf and autistic found his Dadda dead in bed twenty years ago this Thursday. It had a massive affect on his behaviour and we had huge help from Winstons Wish...

Oh, my love. I can't even begin to get my head around that. All I can give is my sincere sympathy and condolences to you and your son. xxx

Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss, Op. Take care 💐

I'm so sorry to read this. Your husband sounds like a wonderful man. I'm sure right now the pain is too great, but in time all those wonderful memories will be some comfort to you.
I hope your son is ok, would a visit from a friend offer him some support maybe?
Thinking of you both x

So sorry op, I can't even imagine what you and your ds is going through. Thinking of you both