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Need urgent advice no lectures please

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dryasaboner · 28/06/2021 17:30

Posting here for traffic as well as on the money board

I'm in a bit of a bind this month due to some unexpected things- next month is predicted to be much easier. I could do with a couple of hundred of pounds this month to tide me over. I have no relatives or friends who can help and am in the process of joining clickerworker/starting a second job
Please can anyone advise of the best and easiest place to get a payday loan it's been a headache trying to look for one today

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titchy · 29/06/2021 09:56

@dryasaboner

Wow Mumsnet never fails to disappoint with some ignorant presumptive posts ...the one about borrowing off people to get taxis instead of the bus/getting takeaways is my fave...yeah I love having so little dignity im considering a pay day loan it just MUST be so I can get a takeaway right?
Well given that you've said the money is just to 'tide you over till Friday', and admitted that you have food and fuel, what else are we supposed to think you 'need' it for. Because it sounds like you don't need any money at all. 🤷‍♀️
titchy · 29/06/2021 09:56

@Crepescular

Have you thought about cam work or streetwalking? As posters here are fond of reminding everyone, 'sex work is work'.
Hmm Yeah we really don't think that.
Crepescular · 29/06/2021 09:59

I was being sarcastic.

dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 10:30

@DavidTheDog

OP what are your thoughts on holding your nerve and seeing if you can get to Friday without any just-in-case money?
Well I haven't done anything as yet
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CherryRipe1 · 29/06/2021 10:50

@Crepescular

Have you thought about cam work or streetwalking? As posters here are fond of reminding everyone, 'sex work is work'.
I did brothel maid work for a time when on skid row due to marriage break up & health issues. It was quite lucrative at times & quite an eye opener, but doubt those kind of flats/houses exist anymore? Oh and one Madame got me doing the tart cards in phone boxes.
Ninkanink · 29/06/2021 11:28

@dryasaboner hold your nerve! It’s only 3 days away now.👍👍

DavidTheDog · 29/06/2021 12:41

Well I haven't done anything as yet

That's not a very straight answer.

dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 12:46

@DavidTheDog

Well I haven't done anything as yet

That's not a very straight answer.

I haven't applied for anything As it's Tuesday I can't see the point now
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Crinkle77 · 29/06/2021 12:56

@dryasaboner

I can't get a credit card or overdraft sadly due to past credit issues Why is it when things are shit they suddenly just get shitter 🤬
Why do people suggest the OP use their overdraft or get a 0% credit card? Don't you think if they could they would otherwise they wouldn't be on here asking about how to get a payday loan. Usually they also need money quickly so haven't got time to pick up more shifts/get a second job/sell stuff etc....
titchy · 29/06/2021 13:16

I haven't applied for anything
As it's Tuesday I can't see the point now

There isn't any point. There wasn't any point yesterday at 5pm when you first posted either. But then you were prepared to give a couple of hundred quid in interest to a loan company. Confused

Graphista · 29/06/2021 14:01

Also, a credit card can also help cashflow by pushing back some of your normal spending so it comes out of your bank account when the CC bill is paid, not when you make the purchase - obligatory disclaimer for the CC refuseniks, this is sensible use of a payment tool, not getting into debt or thinking it's free money.

Exactly!

I was forgetting to use my credit card as I'd had no need of it for a while but I also like to have one as an emergency backup in case of banking issues (which have occasionally happened in recent years - most recently those with monzo cards have been having issues with double charging and cards not working, but other banks have also had issues with cards not working at atm or pos in recent times)

It's a different company and different supporting company than my usual bank card - one is visa one is MasterCard

Lack of use meant the card expired before the expiry date and they sent me a new one I think this is a security measure.

So now I am using the credit card for any miscellaneous household purchases (like a new vacuum I purchased) and paying it off before any interest kicks in, it keeps it active and allows me to easily keep a record on my bank account (via payments to cc) of what I'm spending on household items (been having a sort out lately)

@Crinkle77 I never suggested a 0% credit card but as op is saying she'll have money in just a few days even a card with interest could be paid off before the interest kicks in if op is sensible, but having a back up to usual bank account is a good idea

Op hopefully you make it through to Friday ok

dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 15:39

@titchy

I haven't applied for anything As it's Tuesday I can't see the point now

There isn't any point. There wasn't any point yesterday at 5pm when you first posted either. But then you were prepared to give a couple of hundred quid in interest to a loan company. Confused

Well to me there was else I wouldn't have asked /considered if would I?
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dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 15:40

Ha ha @Crinkle77 it's Mumsnet....a chicken lasts two weeks and anyone with a problem relating to their house 'just moves' and anyone with no cash flow for a week just 'gets another job' 😂

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titchy · 29/06/2021 16:04

Well to me there was else I wouldn't have asked /considered if would I?

What was the point then? What did you need the money for?

dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 16:21

@titchy

Well to me there was else I wouldn't have asked /considered if would I?

What was the point then? What did you need the money for?

I've already said in my posts earlier why I felt I may need the money Smile
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Crinkle77 · 29/06/2021 16:26

@dryasaboner

Ha ha *@Crinkle77* it's Mumsnet....a chicken lasts two weeks and anyone with a problem relating to their house 'just moves' and anyone with no cash flow for a week just 'gets another job' 😂
I know, if only life were that simple.
motogogo · 29/06/2021 16:31

Babysitting? I do accounts freelance too, I earn good money (when I get round to advertising)

Derbee · 29/06/2021 17:05

Why so hostile OP? Disappointed that nobody has offered a PM bank transfer?

SecretKeeper1 · 29/06/2021 17:35

I've already said in my posts earlier why I felt I may need the money

I can’t see where you said why you need it, other than in case anything crops up. I think people are just trying to understand why you need £200 “just in case”.

Ninkanink · 29/06/2021 17:39

I think if OP was trying to scam people she’d likely have tried to come up with a better story than ‘I want to have a couple of hundred in my account just for the sake of it, even though I’m getting paid in a few days time’ so I don’t think you need to sneer at her about that.

But I agree, there’s no need for the generalised hostility. Most of us have offered sound, helpful advice - what you were planning to do was silly given the circumstances and it wouldn’t have helped you in any way and would also have left you potentially in a much worse situation next month.

Anyway. You’re almost another day down now. It’ll feel good when you get to the weekend and haven’t added to your financial trouble/resultant anxieties. I’ve been there, I know how it feels and the anxiety you’re trying to avoid but i promise it feels much better not to be getting yourself into further trouble unless you absolutely have to.

beigebrownblue · 29/06/2021 18:09

@MrsOrMiss

The trouble with Credit Unions is, you need to build up a credit history with them before you can take out a loan.

If I were you, I'd cancel any direct debits and re do them after you've been paid. It'll be much cheaper paying the bank fees than the interest on a payday loan.

I've been where you are - £10 left til payday and have to feed the family for 4 days until then, good job pasta is cheap and filling.

Good luck OP.

You don't need to build up a credit history with credit unions. I would ask the person posting this if they are a member of a credit union? I am.

All you need to do is save. And join.

And that can be as little as 2 pounds a week to start with.

And then you can apply for a loan.

As I said, some including mine lend against child benefit.

Because they know that so many are desperate.

Obviously they generally ask for a budget and you need to fill relevant forms in.

They are not banks.

Imnothereforthedrama · 29/06/2021 19:45

@titchy

I haven't applied for anything As it's Tuesday I can't see the point now

There isn't any point. There wasn't any point yesterday at 5pm when you first posted either. But then you were prepared to give a couple of hundred quid in interest to a loan company. Confused

the op has had a re think although reluctant .op You may think some were being a bit brusk but most of us genuinely didn’t understand why you would even consider a pay day loan . You don’t need it you’ll get to Friday and realise this you probably do already . Keep it up having no money is crap but being in debt is much worse. And yes I’ve been there that’s why I’m saying this .
dryasaboner · 29/06/2021 22:06

@Derbee

Why so hostile OP? Disappointed that nobody has offered a PM bank transfer?
I don't think im hostile in anyway...like I say I can't even access my pms so that would be a very useless exercise. Why are you so suspicious? Sometimes people do simply want some advice/recommendations from people
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AbsolutelyPatsy · 29/06/2021 22:10

it is ok op, you dont owe anyone an explanation.
hope you make it to pay day without borrowing

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