Tell us a secret that no one else knows? (2)

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Follow up thread.

Tell us a secret no one knows.

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My Dad told me when he was blind drunk that he thinks his brother's oldest son is his. My Mum knew, too, but she's dead now so I am the only one who knows. I am no contact with my Dad since her death (he's a nasty bastard), and my Aunt, whose son may be my half-brother, has been an absolute bitch because I don't speak to my Dad. I could literally drop a bomb on that side of the family, as revenge for putting up with decades of bullying from them, but I wouldn't and won't. Unlike them, i'm a decent person.

I’ve always felt I wasn’t my father’s. My parents split up then suddenly got back together I was on the way.

My grandma left her country in the dead of the night with her daughter (my mum) and another man (not mums biological dad) to go to the UK.
Mum always assumed that her mother didn't know who her father was, and didn't like to ask and cause upset.

Doing my family tree I have found that grandma was actually married to my mums father, and left behind not only her husband but twins who were 3years old at the time!

I have never mentioned it to anyone and don't intend to ever ask grandma about it. I can't imagine what caused that decision or the pain she must have gone through.

I did some bad opportunistic crime about twenty five years ago.

@smudgemylife

My grandma left her country in the dead of the night with her daughter (my mum) and another man (not mums biological dad) to go to the UK. Mum always assumed that her mother didn't know who her father was, and didn't like to ask and cause upset.

Doing my family tree I have found that grandma was actually married to my mums father, and left behind not only her husband but twins who were 3years old at the time!

I have never mentioned it to anyone and don't intend to ever ask grandma about it. I can't imagine what caused that decision or the pain she must have gone through.

Wait, you haven't told your mum that she has siblings? Was your mum the baby when she left?

@PixieDust28 yes, mum was the baby so would have siblings.
I wouldn't be able to tell her as grandma is still very much alive and well. If she wanted her to know, then it is her place to tell her.
I do know that my mum would not react well to that information at all.
I wish I never knew, it's taught me not to go poking my nose into genealogy anymore.

Oooh place marking!

My cousin sexually abused me so I cut up all his clothes, put drawing pins in his shoes and set fire to his precious comics. Not a single soul knows.

When moving mil I helped clear out a few things. Discovered a used butt plug. Not enough bleach in the world. ..

It is intensely irritating that my Dh tells me stuff as ‘new’ conversation, when only days before, I had tried to have the exact same conversation with him, and been dismissed if no interest whatsoever to him.
Harbouring thoughts of murder.

I regularly let the air out of people's tires, if they are rude to me.

@Seafog 😂 love this idea!

I was once told by a drunk relative of my ex that their nana & family think she’s being buried in the family grave but she isn’t. The Shhh will hit the fan when she passes away!

I served up food at a dinner party that I had dropped on the floor

@bargebill19 are we married to the same man?!

@trevthecat
If you will be my witness, I’ll be yours to say we were nowhere near that freshly laid patio…..

Not a secret as such, but I haven't a foggest about who my biological farther is, he did a runner before I was born. Some times I do wonder about what ifs, and what possibilities that could of been. Although I like to think, I turned out ok, sometimes I wonder if I would of been better had he been arround.

@Seafog

I regularly let the air out of people's tires, if they are rude to me.

I really don't want to be a MN nag, but this is really dangerous.

This is truly awful, and I'll never forgive myself. I often worry I'll get dementia and blurt it out.

I hit my two year old stepson. Three times.

He doesn't seem to remember thank god and we have a fantastic relationship now.

I often hate my husband, who has a small penis ( although I don't hate him because of this) I want to have an affair, I work with one of the 'tapas 7'

Tapas 7?

@RandomCatGenerator

Tapas 7?

The Madeline McCann case

@ofcourseanamechange

I often hate my husband, who has a small penis ( although I don't hate him because of this) I want to have an affair, I work with one of the 'tapas 7'

Didn't you know he had a small penis before you married him?

Lalafafa, of course, it's not micro, just smaller than average!

@ofcourseanamechange what are your thoughts on the other 6?

Have you thought of leaving the DH?