Tell us a secret that no one else knows? (2)

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Follow up thread.

Tell us a secret no one knows.

[quote SameToo]@Seafog I’m astounded by your stupidity.[/quote]
I thought this was incredibly rude and unnecessary, but having gone back to look at Seafog's post, I can totally see your point. Someone could be killed.

I reported DP's family member for benefit fraud.
I was a shoplifter in my youth.
Between the ages of 18-24 I had various relationships with much older men (often married).
I would go out on an evening actively looking for a ons.
Nowadays I hate sex and would prefer never to have sex ever again but I do so to maintain some kind of normal life with my partner. I hate every awkward second of it.

@Spied . I feel this could change if you could talk to someone about it. You shouldn't have sex you hate .

When my DP and I got together I was actually casually seeing someone else. I knew it wasn't going anywhere (I liked him, but he was a total commitment freak after a previous marriage and relationship failed), so I'd started internet dating. My DP doesn't know I was seeing someone else at the same time!

While seeing the other guy I met an Aussie at a business event and we spent the whole night chatting and really hit it off. The next day he got in touch through an acquaintance to ask me out, but I blew him off because I was seeing the committment-phobe and I was hoping he'd come round.

I often wonder what might have happened if I'd agreed to go out with him.

Don't get me wrong, I love my DP dearly, but it's one of those "sliding doors" moments that I wonder where my life might have gone if I'd taken a different decision.

The sports teacher at the school where I work asked me to have a threesome with him and someone who is not his wife. (I am also married)

I declined and haven't spoken to him since.

@MrsHastingslikethebattle - For the most passionate and positive first experience with another woman, l’d suggest a 1:1 basis, not with a third party present; awkward. 🌈

@sophiesnightmare

The sports teacher at the school where I work asked me to have a threesome with him and someone who is not his wife. (I am also married)

I declined and haven't spoken to him since.

Ew! Why is it always the PE teachers?!

@AlabamaSong

Many years ago we had a Dutch Au Pair. She was really good, but sometimes made be so jealous. She was fluent in 4 languages, amazing with the kids (better than me!), so thoughtful and organized, etc. She was stunningly beautiful too.

I have a friend like this. I love her, she is wonderful. She's like the sun- people gravitate towards and around her because she's so LOVELY! It makes me feel very jealous at times. She really has it all.

(However... I am super happily married and she is single, which she says makes her feel jealous in return!)

@MrsHastingslikethebattle

@boygirldogcatmousecheese

I planned our 'surprise' second child

Thats extremely fucked up and you should be ashamed

I have a ds who has autism. I work lates and he goes to pre school in the afternoons. He is a very loving little boy but I’ve found it hard to play and interact with him, it’s a real struggle and some mornings I’m so tired from work that I admit I don’t even try. I have learnt so much to help his speech and about how important play is but some times I’m just so tired and I don’t want to force it and it makes me feel sad lining things up and repeating things with him. I have a lot of guilt that I’m not helping him progress as much as I could.