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Just heard Nikki Grahame has died

474 replies

catherineofarrogance80 · 10/04/2021 17:57

What a week 😭tragic

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Abfabfanjo · 10/04/2021 18:50

That is heartbreaking news. One of my DD's friends lost her life last year, to anorexia, aged 24 and we are still reeling from that. Poor Nikki.

the80sweregreat · 10/04/2021 18:52

She was a such a big personality and it's sad she has died so young.
RIP Nikki.

Anotherlovelybitofsquirrel · 10/04/2021 18:53

Very sad. She was funny and sweet but such a troubled little soul bless her. Her poor family.

Abfabfanjo · 10/04/2021 18:54

@ilovecarbs90

I’m sorry to hear that some poor young woman has succumbed to Anorexia and died, but I haven’t a clue who she is, even after googling?

She was on Big Brother in 2006 and is a good example of how attitudes have changed towards mental health and eating disorders. It was very clear she had issues - she was prone to screaming fits and meltdowns, but everyone and particularly the press thought it was hilarious entertainment. If it happened today, there would be great concern for her mental state and discussion on whether she should be on the show in the first place.

She developed an eating disorder when she was very young, before she was 10, as far as I can recall, and her emotional maturity was that of a much younger woman, more like a child, than an adult. Hence the tantrums and screaming meltdowns.

She should never have gone on the programme, but then again, I think she enjoyed the fame that followed. Poor woman. May she rest in peace.

TheOrigRights · 10/04/2021 18:55

@SimonJT

This also highlights how poorly those with eating disorders are treated, treatment is largely very poor quality and heavily rationed. No one should have to fund raise to pay for life saving medical care, especially when that illness has such a high fatality rate.
I did read that she has had a great deal of NHS treatment, but that they had not been successful (obviously).
ThrowingAShellstrop · 10/04/2021 18:57

This is just so awful. I hardly know what to say.

Crunchymum · 10/04/2021 18:58

@corcaithecat

I'm not even going to quote your post, but really? You really felt it necessary to post that?

Maybe you need to practice Google a bit?

osbertthesyrianhamster · 10/04/2021 18:59

That's so sad.

Rummikub · 10/04/2021 18:59

This news has made me feel very sad.

RIP Nikki 💐

itsnotmeitsu · 10/04/2021 18:59

We have limited information about the death of this poor girl, but I can't help believing that so many young people have been massively affected by how to deal with their mental health issues during the period that laws were brought in by the Government under the guise of Covid. It's horrible that young people see no future for themselves.

Nikki may have been a forerunner for showing that a life in the public spotlight is not necessarily a happy life.

plinkplinkfizzer · 10/04/2021 18:59

Oh this is upsetting news . RIP Nikki . So sad news .

Hm2020 · 10/04/2021 19:00

Very sad.. thoughts are with the family Flowers

Cocolapew · 10/04/2021 19:00

Such tragic news Sad

Anotherlovelybitofsquirrel · 10/04/2021 19:01

@Crunchymum I agree with you.

RedToothBrush · 10/04/2021 19:01

@nannybeach

Who is Nicky Graham?
Who IS she? *WHO IS she?
thebillyotea · 10/04/2021 19:02

[quote LittleDoritt]If anyone is struggling with an eating disorder, please contact Beat by phone or live chat. You never have to be alone.

www.beateatingdisorders.org.uk/support-services/helplines[/quote]
very good advice, we should bump it and MNHQ should edit the OP to add this

georgarina · 10/04/2021 19:02

Very very sad.

A friend of mine passed of a heart attack from anorexia aged 26. It's more serious than many realize.

JaneJeffer · 10/04/2021 19:02

Who IS she? WHO IS she?*
Grin I still use this all the time!

Toasty280 · 10/04/2021 19:03

So sad
Thoughts are with her family
For awhile she appeared to be doing well but lock down affected her x

pippitysqueakity · 10/04/2021 19:03

Anyone remember Lena Zavaroni? Many years ago, similar life. Battled endlessly,died anyway. Anorexia is an killer. So sad.

Joeblack066 · 10/04/2021 19:04

Very sad 😞

LondonWFuck · 10/04/2021 19:04

It really fucks me off when people come into threads like this to ask who the person is. Have you not heard of Google? Have some fucking respect.

RIP Nikki

HoneysuckIejasmine · 10/04/2021 19:05

@JaneJeffer

Who IS she? WHO IS she?* Grin I still use this all the time!
Same!

It's very sad. I was shocked to see a picture of her recently - I don't follow sleb gossip etc - and it was clear she was still very ill. Poor woman, such a difficult medical condition, such a tough battle.

LondonWFuck · 10/04/2021 19:05

And as for the poster who came on here and couldn't even be arsed to spell her name properly - despite it being in the thread title - words fail me.

savanahnana · 10/04/2021 19:05

So so sad 😢

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