H didn't want OUT of the RF, he wanted out of the boring bits. He wanted more of the glossy bits of being in the RF - the half-in and half-out they wanted. You remember that surely?
Harry very much wanted to stay IN as a senior working royal, he wanted the uniforms and the balcony appearances - he was very clear on what he wanted. Harry wanted the respect for service etc, but not to actually perform the service.
It was the fact that Harry was told no he couldn't do half in/half out that led to leaving in a lip trembling (and indeed thunderous) huff.
Half in - uniforms and photo ops and the half-out of Foundations and living in the US etc.
We in the UK are not duped by US foundations as being anything other than money making scheme for the individuals concerned - it is nothing like what the UK would perceive as charitable and certainly not anything the RF could be associated with.
So sorry your "victim" Harry didn't want out - he wanted the moon on a stick, so to speak. It doesn't exist and reality bit him on the bum and they ran off to Canada. He then claims it was because of racism. It's because H was always a diminishing royal to be side-lined away from William's descendants.
This seems to be the bit of the story where so many of the Harry is a saint fans started to notice events, ie don't know anything about his petulant and grandiose ambitions for himself changing the RF leading up to his exit when he was told in no uncertain terms : it's not your show to change.