What other people think about them, in general.
I don’t give a shiny shit any more and it’s fantastic. I no longer follow fashion, just wear what I like and find comfortable. I stopped dying my hair. Only wear make up when I want to, despite the endless “are you ill” questions on bare face days. I don’t have a car atm and had a few people commenting on how DS must be missing out on activities because of that. WTF?! I could go on and on and on. It seems we all have to follow a certain pattern of behaviour, strive for perfection in everything: appearance, relationship, sex life, cooking (ONLY from scratch), fitness levels, house and decor. Fuck that.