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Anyone in the US? Did you watch the Meghan interview?

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Tankflybosswalkjam · 07/03/2021 07:08

Apparently it’s already been broadcast!

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Coronateachingagain · 07/03/2021 21:53

@Gadzookery

I think Harry will be back in Blighty within 5 years, sans wife and sadly, without the children.
Agree. And not because he would want to necessarily.
VladmirsPoutine · 07/03/2021 21:53

I think Harry will be back in Blighty within 5 years, sans wife and sadly, without the children.

Again. How is this not absolutely bat shit unhinged.

threecee · 07/03/2021 21:54

do warm and caring people really do an oprah winfrey interview on tv to whinge about the in laws ?

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DeRigueurMortis · 07/03/2021 21:55

@Puzzledandpissedoff

That flurry of apoplectic, unhinged media coverage this past week? That came from the Palace's people. All the activity this week has been driven by them

I don't doubt this for an instant, but then that's the way the RF behave if there's the slightest threat to their position

But here's the thing: rather than "pick a side", it's fully possible to dislike both the RF and the behaviour of someone who's left it ... or in other words it doesn't have to be one or the other

Absolutely.

Part of the frustration with these threads is the constant whataboutary, using one persons poor behaviour to justify that of another's.

It's a topic that covers so many issues that people understandably feel strongly about: racism, monarchy, the press, influencers, inherited wealth/privilege etc.

However, I don't think having a strong view of one or all of these necessarily means you need to "pick a side".

I'm pretty comfortable with my position that the monarchy should be subject to (a lot) more scrutiny and transparency whilst being critical not of what H&M have done in leaving the RF but how they have gone about it.

I feel no conflict in thinking that as an allegedly favoured son that Andrew has repeatedly "escaped" the consequences of some shocking behaviour. Aside from Epstein why is there no investigation of how he's managed to build up an estimated personal fortune of £80m whilst "working" as a British Trade Ambassador?

I fully agree M got a torrid time from the press - more than even other females marrying in and that the "covert" racism was relentless.

That doesn't mean I can't think poor judgement was shown in wearing those earrings at a time when Khasoggi murder was widely being reported as being at the behest of the Saudi state (and the second time they'd actually admitted it). She was certainly aware of the poor human rights record of that nation having spent time (and photographed with) in 2016 with a leading female Saudi activist who was later arrested.

I can understand and feel supportive of why they both wanted to leave the RF but not the "cake and eat it" model they made public.

I can see they will have large expenses simply in security costs year on year. I don't want to see them hurt so I'm also ok with them using their former royal status to do deals with Netflix etc. A combined est. fortune of £40m sounds a lot but it's not going to last long if you're paying a couple of million a year in personal protection.

What I can't get past is that everything they have accomplished could have been done with less drama and more goodwill.

The famous Africa "thriving" interview. I don't think she said anything wrong but the context was poorly misjudged.

Yet here we are again - new house, financial independence, new baby, a win in the court case and they both want to poke the hornets nest again.

For the love of god why? If your brand is "building compassion around the world" then stop speaking about it and do it rather than open fresh wounds?

Yes they've been through a lot, but they are in a position of great wealth and privilege.

The rest of the world has gone to hell in the last year but they've absolutely bucked the trend in all they've achieved. Good on them.

But going on Oprah for a pity party right now is just a tone deaf move from the pair of them.

Blueberries0112 · 07/03/2021 21:55

No, I think Harry and Meghan saw how good she treated Diana, they just like her

Gadzookery · 07/03/2021 21:56

@VladmirsPoutine

I think Harry will be back in Blighty within 5 years, sans wife and sadly, without the children.

Again. How is this not absolutely bat shit unhinged.

Really? Just my opinion. Suggest the vehemence of your response is slightly more 'bat shit unhinged'.

Anyway, none of us know do we? But if you put your life up for public consumption via OW, then expect us plebs to comment

Coronateachingagain · 07/03/2021 21:57

@VladmirsPoutine

This is going to end so badly for him I am already so sorry for him, he is not the smartest cookie but he deserved better nonetheless.

It's sentiments like this I find particularly unhinged. There are swathes of this country (perhaps even elsewhere) that are hoping, even praying that Harry and Meghan end up divorced or worse. There are people who are so desperate for it to end in tears they would sacrifice their first born child if it guaranteed H&M divorced one day.

@vlad nobody is "hoping " for anything here. Just how's looking like. If you disagree then it's fine, don't push by labelling people as wanting this to happen. Rather daft.
SeafrontBingo · 07/03/2021 22:00

This would have been a good one for Megan to watch, oddly prophetic on Diana..Sarah on being a Princess and what's involved.

Coronateachingagain · 07/03/2021 22:00

@Sprining

Long time friends and colleagues of MM are warm and loving towards her.

It is very likely that she is a warm and caring person. That’s what PH has said as well. Why should any of us have an issue with this?

Which long time friends? Missed that one.
Sprining · 07/03/2021 22:03

@Coronateachingagain, I gave some examples above. Eg Lindsay Roth-

"Meg’s M.O. has always been kindness; goodwill runs in her bones. I know this to be true after 22 years of very close friendship

isitspringyet · 07/03/2021 22:05

I thought in their early days of courtship when Meghan was posting on her sm hints of her relationship (spooning bananas/cups of tea T @KP) that it was an odd relationship as Harry then released his press statement wanting to protect her.

Madasahattersteaparty1749 · 07/03/2021 22:06

@DeRigueurMortis

Great post and seems to be what most people I know in real life think.

Roussette · 07/03/2021 22:07

There are swathes of this country (perhaps even elsewhere) that are hoping, even praying that Harry and Meghan end up divorced or worse. There are people who are so desperate for it to end in tears

^^ This. The gleeful... he'll be back or he better dare not come back when they divorce and all this nonsense is horrible.

You people need to get a grip. I wouldn't wish anyone's marriage to break up.

Just how's looking like

How though? Why are you saying this? They look happy as pigs in muck with another baby on the way. Where are you getting these signs from?
And let it not be your dislike of Meghan driving this... I want to know proper reasons. Like they can barely stand to look at each other, like Diana and Charles was at the end.
Or, they never spend time together, but live seperate lives.

Because just wanting something to happen really won't make it happen

Coronateachingagain · 07/03/2021 22:07

@SeafrontBingo

This would have been a good one for Megan to watch, oddly prophetic on Diana..Sarah on being a Princess and what's involved.

Wow thanks for this post. Agree very interesting
Coronateachingagain · 07/03/2021 22:11

@Roussette

There are swathes of this country (perhaps even elsewhere) that are hoping, even praying that Harry and Meghan end up divorced or worse. There are people who are so desperate for it to end in tears

^^ This. The gleeful... he'll be back or he better dare not come back when they divorce and all this nonsense is horrible.

You people need to get a grip. I wouldn't wish anyone's marriage to break up.

Just how's looking like

How though? Why are you saying this? They look happy as pigs in muck with another baby on the way. Where are you getting these signs from?
And let it not be your dislike of Meghan driving this... I want to know proper reasons. Like they can barely stand to look at each other, like Diana and Charles was at the end.
Or, they never spend time together, but live seperate lives.

Because just wanting something to happen really won't make it happen

@Rouse feel free to have a different opinion. No problem with that. Time will tell! There will be a lot of pain to go through before they know
slashlover · 07/03/2021 22:17

I think Harry will be back in Blighty within 5 years, sans wife and sadly, without the children.

I remember people giving it a year, then two years. They're now coming up on being married for 3 years so people are giving it 5 years. No doubt it'll then move onto 10 years, then when the kids are older.

Roussette · 07/03/2021 22:18

Before who knows? The public I presume! What pain?

Roussette · 07/03/2021 22:19

slashlover Yes!

I remember that! There were so many assertions of what was going to happen without fail.

derxa · 07/03/2021 22:19

"Absolutely.

Part of the frustration with these threads is the constant whataboutary, using one persons poor behaviour to justify that of another's.

It's a topic that covers so many issues that people understandably feel strongly about: racism, monarchy, the press, influencers, inherited wealth/privilege etc.

However, I don't think having a strong view of one or all of these necessarily means you need to "pick a side".

I'm pretty comfortable with my position that the monarchy should be subject to (a lot) more scrutiny and transparency whilst being critical not of what H&M have done in leaving the RF but how they have gone about it.

I feel no conflict in thinking that as an allegedly favoured son that Andrew has repeatedly "escaped" the consequences of some shocking behaviour. Aside from Epstein why is there no investigation of how he's managed to build up an estimated personal fortune of £80m whilst "working" as a British Trade Ambassador?

I fully agree M got a torrid time from the press - more than even other females marrying in and that the "covert" racism was relentless.

That doesn't mean I can't think poor judgement was shown in wearing those earrings at a time when Khasoggi murder was widely being reported as being at the behest of the Saudi state (and the second time they'd actually admitted it). She was certainly aware of the poor human rights record of that nation having spent time (and photographed with) in 2016 with a leading female Saudi activist who was later arrested.

I can understand and feel supportive of why they both wanted to leave the RF but not the "cake and eat it" model they made public.

I can see they will have large expenses simply in security costs year on year. I don't want to see them hurt so I'm also ok with them using their former royal status to do deals with Netflix etc. A combined est. fortune of £40m sounds a lot but it's not going to last long if you're paying a couple of million a year in personal protection.

What I can't get past is that everything they have accomplished could have been done with less drama and more goodwill.

The famous Africa "thriving" interview. I don't think she said anything wrong but the context was poorly misjudged.

Yet here we are again - new house, financial independence, new baby, a win in the court case and they both want to poke the hornets nest again.

For the love of god why? If your brand is "building compassion around the world" then stop speaking about it and do it rather than open fresh wounds?

Yes they've been through a lot, but they are in a position of great wealth and privilege.

The rest of the world has gone to hell in the last year but they've absolutely bucked the trend in all they've achieved. Good on them.

But going on Oprah for a pity party right now is just a tone deaf move from the pair of them."
All of the above

ChocolateSantaisthebestkind · 07/03/2021 22:20

Those defending her seem to be 'on her level' ie work colleagues/ college friends/ useful contacts yet she seems to go for, based on the Jason Knaupf complaint are 'staff'. Not a great look on a champion for equality and feminism who married into the most elitist institutions on earth, getting all of her power from her husband in full disney princess garb

Gadzookery · 07/03/2021 22:22

@ChocolateSantaisthebestkind

Those defending her seem to be 'on her level' ie work colleagues/ college friends/ useful contacts yet she seems to go for, based on the Jason Knaupf complaint are 'staff'. Not a great look on a champion for equality and feminism who married into the most elitist institutions on earth, getting all of her power from her husband in full disney princess garb
Exactly!
VladmirsPoutine · 07/03/2021 22:22

Time will tell! There will be a lot of pain to go through before they know

She says before she lights the candles on the floor, dances around her living room sprinkling salt and dousing the sofa in essential oils then slowly covering her body in her black bathrobe while kneeling by the candles, blowing them out one by one each with an intentional breath as she slowly chants Harry's birth name "Henry" and Meghan's birth name "Rachel" ..."Time will tell" she whispers as she slowly bends into the fetal on the floor.

Roussette · 07/03/2021 22:24

😁😂🤣

derxa · 07/03/2021 22:38

Nazanin Zaghari-Ratcliffe My heart is breaking for her. Meghan not so much.

vlnr77yac · 07/03/2021 22:39

I’ve heard rumours that she posted her rings back to her first husband? And he was completely floored. Doesn’t sound particularly caring or warm to me!

WHATTTT??? And you heard this how... the internet?? You see how ridiculous all this Megan rumour mill is?! Must be something in the water!

First off do you mean she posted her old wedding ring to her ex hubby? Which was a decent thing to do as other people sell them and keep the dosh.

Or do you mean she posted Prince Harry's rings which you know is bollocks right??