If there was only one instruction you could leave to others, on your death , what would it be ?

[whatsnewpussycat777]

Such a deep question for a Friday night 😃

To love my ddogs!! I have made dd promise to sneak the smallest one into hospital should I end up in one!!

Be loved as much as I was loved.

DH is under instructions to tell my extended family they are all fuckers that treated me like shit.

Everyone make sure to look out for each other no matter what

To my girls, be there for each other.
I'm honestly so glad they have really bonded this last year. They're late teens so if I went now, I know they'd get through it together.

Give all the love you can to my DS.

Aside from obvious things that people generally do anyway (try your best, be kind etc) - I'd like everyone who misses me, and can donate blood but hasn't got round to it, to do that in my memory.

Everyone is to sing remember you're a womble at my funeral.

This might sound morbid but my instruction would be that I don’t want an open casket, closed coffin only.

Stick together and remember that your father is a pathological liar who treated you like shit. He won't change.

Please no shit funeral in a conveyor belt crematorium, with a twenty minute service where your shuffled out as the next funeral party are shuffled in.

Don't let my mother anywhere near my kids.

I was going to say play bring me sunshine at my funeral. But now I’m tempted to change to remember you’re a Womble!

Call an undertaker ?

For them to know how much I loved them and how happy they made me, and for them to be there for each other.

And a final reminder of the passcode to the safe for DH

@Pushmepullyou I've told everyone my request for remember you're a womble since I was about 12 (I'm now 36). It is such a great song

Delete the internet history lol

Do not sell my yarn at the same price I told you I paid for it.

Party party party ( and I will leave enough to start in style - I want EVERYONE to remember the hangover they had after Doras funeral!)

Make sure the dogs water bowl isn’t dry !

Funeral to be cheap as possible. Don’t waste money on my empty shell. Live your lives to the fullest and remember me with smiles not tears.

Don't chuck my stuff away without checking all the pockets or riffling through all the pages. I have stuff stashed everywhere

Don't open the little pink case beside my bed. Just bin it.

Love my kids and remember that their dad, despite what he may say is a fucking emotionally disabled, lacking in good judgement dickhead who talks the talk, but that's it.

Thank you.

A friend of mine died yesterday after (and as a cancer survivor, I hate battle metaphors) fighting and fighting to stay alive.
I know she'd be telling us all to enjoy the live we have. And to wear coordinated accessories!