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Would you think this is no coincidence? Accusation of serious assault.

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Treatscatscrave · 31/01/2021 08:37

A close family member has been separated from his partner for 3 years.
He is lazy but good-looking and charming.
He basically lived with a woman who was nowhere as physically attractive as him that he was never really into in return for an easy life.

The price of this is that he had to deal with her obsessive jealousy of him. I witnessed this firsthand: he could not so much as say hello to another woman and she'd have a tantrum. I mean really lose it. Stormed into a family gathering once, totally blanked us all and glared at him.

I say this to show I think he is no saint.

Anyway, to get to the point: he has grown close to another woman lately and they bumped into her in supermarket.

Literally days later he has police asking him to attend the station. Turns out that she had made an allegation of a very serious nature over something that he supposedly did to her in mid-2000s.

This seemed really too much of a coincidence to me so I advised him that it would do absolutely no harm to mention the supermarket sighting that had occurred days earlier. He did. It seems to ME that nothing is going to come of this.

Anyway, am I right? It seems to me that the nature of the allegation is such that had she made it BEFORE the sighting ( it wouldn't have helped that he and his new woman were teenage boyfriend and girlfriend), they wouldn't have waited to investigate.

OR she'd made the allegation previously and the police thought it had no substance but, on seeing him with a new woman, she was on the phone pressing them to do something.

I have no idea how the police operate on this sort of thing, but if you do, please contribute.

I've changed some minor details of this. Namely place spotted, exact year of the time of alleged offence, and, of course, I'm not going to say what exactly he was accused of.

I'm asking here as I want clarity. I'm scared she'll do something else.

OP posts:
LizFlowers · 01/02/2021 19:46

I don't get why you are so invested in this business in the first place. If he or her were a sibling and you saw a lot of them, maybe, other than that it is really nothing to do with you and you obviously don't like either of them. So - why care? Just keep out of their way from now on. It all sounds too sordid for words.

DWPmisery1972 · 04/02/2021 22:48

All my ex’s family would call me a scum bag and a liar and a bitch and every name under the sun

Their son/brother/cousin raped, sexually assaulted me, beat me throughout our marriage and tried to kill me. And the police and the CPS believed me. Now he is facing a trial. And I am forever traumatised.

I’m sure they talk about how I am just trying to ruin his life, how I’m a liar and a faker and and a nasty evil woman - but of course they would. They’d defend him no matter what.

I might me a Bitch (I don’t think I am) but it doesn’t make me a liar.

Words mean things. Use your brain.

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