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What do you silently judge people for?

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Shandan35 · 15/01/2021 15:42

I would say
Talking on public transport , wish they would be quiet.

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WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 16/01/2021 22:28

There is nothing factual about saying breastfed kids don’t get ill ever, at all

Genuine question but does or has anyone say they don’t get ill ever, at all?

I doubt it; and yet the original comment said that you can't be surprised when a non-bf baby gets ill, which does very much suggest that it would be a surprise if a bf baby gets ill - otherwise, why point out the feeding method at all?

Wearywithteens · 17/01/2021 00:10

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Firebird83 · 17/01/2021 00:35

People that say “boobing the baby” “baby wants boob” etc
People who have kids before marriage
People who have an Instagram account for their house. Also people who spend all their time cleaning their house instead of interacting with their kids.
People who give their kids hyphenated names, especially when they end in Mae or Rae.
Smug mums who look down on people who don’t breastfeed or use cloth nappies
‘Mummy bloggers’ who post photos of their kids all over social media
Visible tattoos
People who constantly have different partners in and out of their children’s lives
People who have each of their kids by a different partner

There must be so many others I haven’t thought of yet!

InvisibleMoonDancer · 17/01/2021 01:18

Smoking when pregnant
Littering
Spitting

DuchessofHastings1 · 17/01/2021 01:42

Aw did no one offer to have your child for you? So you judge anyone that would?

DuchessofHastings1 · 17/01/2021 01:53

People have kids for benefits.

People have kids for a certain gender.

Parents who have no childcare anyone does, is the enemy

Port1aCastis · 17/01/2021 04:15

We have a benefits cap
We have a two child csp
Majestic whining about £73 PW benefits going to those that don't work when we have a parasitical monarchy on public funding is hilarious.

SmellyPooHead · 17/01/2021 09:55

Adults swearing at their children. Calling them 'fucking little bastards' in particular

feistyoneyouare · 17/01/2021 13:55

@Port1aCastis

We have a benefits cap We have a two child csp Majestic whining about £73 PW benefits going to those that don't work when we have a parasitical monarchy on public funding is hilarious.
OMG, this. All the way.
sqirrelfriends · 17/01/2021 14:28

I worked in a call centre during uni and I was astonished at the time that people would get confused between the number 0 and the letter O. This was often an issue with postcodes (somewhat understandable) and with card numbers (less so). I did judge these people but also wonder how they never learnt the difference.

I very much do judge people who are horribly rude to CS staff, shop staff, nursing staff etc. It says a lot about a person.

Cokie3 · 17/01/2021 16:08

Vegans/veganism. The more encounters I have with them, online and off, the more I loathe them.

SecretSpAD · 17/01/2021 16:31

Hmm reading this thread reminds me why I generally prefer the company of my dog than most humans.

Fembot123 · 17/01/2021 16:34

People who prefer dogs to humans 😌

MummaBear4321 · 17/01/2021 16:34

Reading this thread, I realised I thought 'oh god ye' to most of what people said. I have judged myself to be the most judgemental person I know ..... oh dear.

Edgeoftheledge · 17/01/2021 16:51

Smoking when pregnant or over a pram
Not picking up your dog’s poo
Posting continuously on sm for sympathy
When asked how you are, moaning everytime

RoseFence · 17/01/2021 20:48

I judge rude and bossy fuckers who also have a victim complex.

I judge hyper competitive mums who only live through their darling offspring's top school grades and other achievements.

I judge people who have a compulsive need to be in the centre of attention and don't leave any space for others to shine.

I judge parents who are too meek to discipline their kids and then whinge about at said kids acting entitled and horribly.

That's it for now but there are many more.

I judge silently though and don't speak in a derogative way about people I find irritating. Maybe I should, it could be cathartic Smile

KarensChoppyBob · 17/01/2021 20:51

Ignoring your little wide-eyed toddler for your phone throughout the whole journey on public transport. Of course it happens sometimes, but the whole time? Makes you wonder what happens at home.

pinkyredrose · 17/01/2021 21:11

People who prefer dogs to humans

How about cats?

Fembot123 · 17/01/2021 21:17

@pinkyredrose

People who prefer dogs to humans

How about cats?

I’d have more respect for that, cats are much more complex and wise 😁
Chunkymenrock · 17/01/2021 21:27

Saying brought instead of bought. Passed instead of past. Your instead of you're.

KarensChoppyBob · 17/01/2021 21:31

Women instead of woman ( so basic).

honeybooboo26 · 17/01/2021 21:40

@JudgeRindersMinder

Going to Dubai on holiday
@JudgeRindersMinder why
pinkyredrose · 17/01/2021 21:40

I’d have more respect for that, cats are much more complex and wise 😁

I hear ya! Smile

afternooncuppa · 17/01/2021 21:44

Skanks who go to the supermarket in their pyjamas.

Cokie3 · 17/01/2021 22:25

Just a comment regarding those who said nappies on children who are way past the nappy age, did you stop to think the child obviously has special needs/SEN? I don't think a parent would actually choose to buy and bother putting nappies on and off if they didn't have to.

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